Recent content by Brimtastic

The problem is I'm not unhappy about my weight (250-260 pounds, you tell me if that's terrible or not). It's just that my friends tell me that my weight is problem. It indirectly affects me I guess.

Alright, I think Its best we just call it quits for this thread. Thank you everybody who were being sincere.

I don't think you read everything I said but that's okay.

Alright, thank you everybody. I think I got what I needed from all of this. I just needed to tell somebody, anybody about this stuff. I guess when I see some of my friends having girlfriends, I feel left out. I'm not the most patient guy either.

unfortunately I don't think "being myself" is good enough. I guess my years of experience can back me up on this one.

It wouldn't be a problem if he had the bouncy trampoline...

See, I never understood the whole "standards" argument. I don't go around looking for the hottest chick and start hitting on them. In fact, its much more "random" then that. A "switch" kinda clicks in my head and I just start finding that specific girl I've been talking to for a while extremely...

I just want to say thanks for everyone who is taking this seriously, it means a lot. Sometimes I just get caught up in this "despair". When I'm at school though, I never act this way. It's kinda "bipolar" (for a lack of better words) really.

Please, that's not what I'm trying to do at all. It's not about just getting into their pants. It's knowing that the MOST I can ever be to somebody is a "friend". And I don't care what you say, a friend is not just a relationship without the physical part. I don't know many people who are awake...

No man, it really helped. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one going through this.

I'm 17. I do tend to wear pretty plain clothes also. I guess I just never really cared how I looked until people pointed it out for me.

I understand. And when I'm talking to a girl, I'm not some dopey and depressing mess as this post may look like to you. Believe it or not, I am very outgoing. I just feel like when I'm talking to a girl that I'm not "getting anywhere". I just tend to get all of these pitiful thoughts when...

They don't claim they are the "best", well, one does but that's a different story. When they tell me this stuff they do it in the most sensitive way possible.

Sorry, I'll try to clarify. I just find no point going out of my way to be nice to a girl that I find attractive because even if I treat her well and act nicely towards her. Her opinion of me won't change, the second she sees me she already knows that the most I could ever be is a "friend".

I guess to be honest, I am a little scared to keep trying and failing. Failing that one time tore me apart and my personality changed quite a bit from it. I don't know what I would be like if I just kept failing. My weight never really bothered me (around 250-260 pounds). It's just my...