Well, it's true that people hit on girls ALL the time. They don't know me, I don't think they even care, they just see my profile pic and assume I'm really hot, and they know I play video games so they hit on me Oo.
People don't harass me in in-game situations tho. The reason for this is that they don't know for sure if I'm a girl or not. Plenty of guys play girl characters or use girly nicknames in games, so for me to do it doesn't actually single me out as one. And as for in-game voice chat, I usually use ventrilo with my clan-mates and nothing else. When I do use the in-game voip I only ocationally get the "oh snap, your a girl!" comment. People doesn't seem to mind. It doesn't mean people won't get mad when I blow their brains all over the wall tho =3.
If someone treats me badly (or "like a dog"...) I'll get back at them, depending on how they go about putting me down. If someone in an FPS assumes I suck at the game and joke around with me a lot with it I will make it my single purpose in said game to find and kill that person as many times as possible. And I'm quite good at doing just that (my favorite thing in FPS is hunting snipers, it's what I do and what I do best), so I tend to be successful. If the guy bugging me is better than me I'll just try and ignore him, and if he is just too annoying I'll leave the damn server. YES, I am a person that leaves if I'm not enjoying myself. I'm playing for MY entertainment, not yours...
And NO, I do NOT find you attractive *insert name* and I do NOT want to see your man-parts! Don't ask cause you don't know me... We can be online friends, but I do NOT want to date anyone! Unless we meet in real life... And your a nice guy... With loads of money, awesome cars and a penthouse*ahem*, no thats not me.