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DuctTapeJedi

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Even now, I'm debating not posting this, but I really need to vent somewhere good, and anonymous.

I work at a home improvement store on the overnight freight team. A few months ago, we got a transfer from day crew. She is one of the most willingly ineffective employees I've ever met. The other day we all were supposed to start at midnight. She came in around 12:15,(I can understand being late from time to time, but this is frequent, and she's normally as much as two hours late.) and took a small cart of screws and nails to put away. It should have taken no more than an hour. Two hours later, the boss calls break time. I happen to pass by the nail and screw aisle to see my coworker has already left, and has only put out about twelve boxes of freight. This is an inexcusable level of slowness.

After our first break, she's nowhere to be seen in the store. I see her walk in the front door about an hour and a half later, and head straight to the back of the store. (There's no freight to work on back there at the time.) I didn't see her again until 5 am, when she took the easiest job in the store, and began to sweep.

I feel terrible that I'm getting this upset, and normally keep a strict policy of minding my own business, but this is cutting into my own productivity and screwing over everyone else who has to cover for her. We're all picking up her considerable slack, and it's not fair. To make things worse, there's an older man that also works with me. He had been planning on leaving early due to shoulder pain, but couldn't because she left us with so much extra work. This is not the first time something similar has happened.

So, should I talk to my boss, or mind my own business, even though it's hurting the whole store? (I guess I sort of answered my own question there...) I've never reported anyone before, and really don't want to now, as my lazy coworker is a single mother. I don't want her kids to suffer if she were to be fired.

What to do, what to do...?

EDIT: Just for some perspective, she did about thirty minutes of work in a six hour shift.
 

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IF she's not doing her job, something should be done. Maybe you could talk to her first, but you have to tell someone.
 

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thaluikhain said:
IF she's not doing her job, something should be done. Maybe you could talk to her first, but you have to tell someone.
I tend to be very non-confrontational. She has a bit of "the crazy vibe," and wouldn't want it to escalate.


EDIT: But yes, I know something should be done.
 

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Just tell your boss. I would. She was hired to do a job and obviously isn't doing it. You shouldn't have to pick up for her slack. I've dealt with people like this in the past. Going to management is the best way to handle it. And if she gets fired, so what? That's on her. I have no sympathy for people who put in zero effort and expect to keep a job.
 

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DuctTapeJedi said:
To make things worse, there's an older man that also works with me. He had been planning on leaving early due to shoulder pain, but couldn't because she left us with so much extra work. This is not the first time something similar has happened.

So, should I talk to my boss, or mind my own business, even though it's hurting the whole store? (I guess I sort of answered my own question there...) I've never reported anyone before, and really don't want to now, as my lazy coworker is a single mother. I don't want her kids to suffer if she were to be fired.
I feel your pain about being confrontational but im gonna assume its because youre an emphatic person and dont like creating a negative situation. If so you need to speak up for this older gentleman because its utterly despicable that the poor man has to work EVEN harder with a health issue. I can appreciate not being motivated to speak up if its only you getting the short straw because sometimes its better for your mental state to just work a little harder rather than do something thats gonna ruin your day and upset you. But you should do this for your coworkers. Remember as the one reporting you can always suggest to your boss that he not FIRE her but instead have a conversation about her performance. Explain to your boss that you think she would benefit from a little motivational push from a superior. If he/shes a decent guy or gal your boss will listen to you and understand and try and take your advice into account. You can even go as far as expressing your concern about her kids if you wish but it depends on your bosses character really. Thats what i would do at any rate.
 

DuctTapeJedi

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My dad is telling me to just ignore her. He's very non-confrontational, as well. (Where I got it from)
 

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I was in the exact same situation as you a year or so ago. Really lazy guy did zero work. And since we pushed in carts for a decent sized grocery store, one guy slacking hurt us all. One day it was just him and me. He decided to disappear for an hour leaving me alone with both sides of the lot to clear, I failed to keep up and got yelled at. I said enough was enough and told my manager I hadn't seen my coworker for an hour, he got fired the next week.

Long story short- Tell your boss. I'm like you I hate confrontation. But when I start to either have to put forward more effort than I should or get in trouble, that all goes out the window. She may be a single mother, but that doesn't allow her to be lazy.
 

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DuctTapeJedi said:
My dad is telling me to just ignore her. He's very non-confrontational, as well. (Where I got it from)
Don't confront her. Put in an anonymous complaint to the boss in letter form. She needs a wake up call, but if you try and do it directly things may go pear shaped quick.
As a fellow single parent I assure you she still deserves a wake up slap for her behavior.
 

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Tell your manager. If people aren't doing their part then it's just going to make more work for you and that's simply unfair. What do your other coworkers think? Besides, surely your manager wouldn't fire her on the spot? If your manager has a word with her and she doesn't pull her socks up then tough shit for her. It's not like you're getting paid extra for picking up her slack, you shouldn't have to deal with it.
 
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If you do go to your boss, I would go in with a list of dates, times and details of when and how she was late/slow, with clear emphasis on how it was a detriment to your own work. At least then it's not a vague accusation that could be easily turned around on you.
 

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Well, your managers likely already know what is going on and have possibly already talked to her about it. Still, it doesn't hurt to talk with them about it. From the sounds of it, this is not just your own problem. Everyone at the store is being hurt, and it is hardly right that everyone has to suffer just because she refuses to do her job.
 

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I hate work. And working. Im a lazy slob.

But there is a line, and when the other poor bastards in the trenches with you have to work their asses off to cover for your bullshit you have crossed that line. Dunno whether you should report her to management or have a word with her, but someone has to do something, or she will just keep coasting, and fucking you guys over.
 

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Tell her that if she doesn't get to work properly, you'll inform your manager. Then if she still slacks off, get some other people to tell the manager as well, that way your boss will have no choice but to reprimand or fire her.
 

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Azkar Almsivi said:
DuctTapeJedi said:
My dad is telling me to just ignore her. He's very non-confrontational, as well. (Where I got it from)
Don't confront her. Put in an anonymous complaint to the boss in letter form. She needs a wake up call, but if you try and do it directly things may go pear shaped quick.
As a fellow single parent I assure you she still deserves a wake up slap for her behavior.
I'm reminded of another incident a few weeks ago.

We were both tasked with taking care of the cardboard boxes that had piled up over the course of the night, however, the cardboard compactor was full. My coworker had been super grumpy and mean the whole night, and when I told her it was time to clean out the compactor (crush the cardboard into a cube and put metal bands around it for recycling, she flipped out and told me she had to go to the bathroom. Half an hour later, I had finished the job and was also finishing up the last of the cardboard when she wandered in, suspiciously happy, and asked me I was ready to help her with cleaning the compactor. I was practically fuming. And I don't get mad, like, ever...
 

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I would put in an anonymous complaint about her. She is hired to do a job and she isn't doing what was expected of her, and it is unfair that the rest of you have to pick up the slack.
 

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I work the flow team too (but at Target) so I know exactly what you're talking about. And yeah, it can really suck when you're gotta push all the freight out and it seems like the aisles just don't end.

I mean if you don't wanna directly confront her (I know how that goes too) then maybe let your supervisor know about this. I'm not saying tattle, don't just be like "Hey, she's not doing any work!!!"

Maybe just kinda let them know it's something you've noticed and see if they'll keep an eye on her a bit more during some of these shifts.
 

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DuctTapeJedi said:
So, should I talk to my boss, or mind my own business, even though it's hurting the whole store? (I guess I sort of answered my own question there...) I've never reported anyone before, and really don't want to now, as my lazy coworker is a single mother. I don't want her kids to suffer if she were to be fired.
Well if it's like any outher big box retailer, your first write up is a warring, you can't get fired for the first one(unless you are stealing).
best case it solves your problem by getting her to work.

Unless it is part of your job to confont her don't, that can get you in trouble instead. Big box retailers are weird like that
 

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Nokturos said:
Tell her that if she doesn't get to work properly, you'll inform your manager. Then if she still slacks off, get some other people to tell the manager as well, that way your boss will have no choice but to reprimand or fire her.
Don't do this, just ask the manager to keep an eye on her. Actually talking to her might backfire. I have this shit where I work right now, i'm tired of fixing this other assholes screwups, so i've done the same thing. Unsurprisingly, the number of fuckups have decreased.
 

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It's me in a dress you fool

I can't say what's not already been said, tell your boss, get her fired.

Still, if her "crazy vibe" makes her intimidating to the point of having an excuse not to do her job, that's actually kind of funny.