It depends on what you're looking to get out of it... if you want to match the web-swinging acrobatics of Spider-Man 2, then none of them are really going to scratch your itch. Web of Shadows or Amazing Spider-Man would come the closest, but neither of them are particularly enthralling.
If you're just looking for a fun arcade-y action-y game where you feel like Spider-Man, Shattered Dimensions and Edge of Time are both pretty competent, as they have far better combat than WoS and Amazing.
None of them are really bad games, they're just... misguided on what makes a fun Spider-Man game.