Can I get some advice?

[Snowalker]

Ok, some of you know I created a forum awhile back, me talking about this girl who was taken at the time, most of you said I was in the friendzone, well, she's single now. Today i've had the best day in my life so far, me, a friend, and her were goin to go walking and hangout at our park, but the friend cancled, so it was just me and her talking, and somewhere through the jokes she said "I had a really good dream last night, I want to see how much of it comes true, and don't ask what it was cause I'm not going to tell you."

My first thought was unrelated to our relationship, but the more and more I think about it, is she wanting me to ask her out?, she knows how I feel about her, and she's told me she's taking this break up pretty hard, and I don't want to be pushy. So I need some advice, what do you think she was talking about, and should I ask her out?


P.S. please don't say "forget it your in the friendzone" cause that really doesn't help at all

 

[Malkavian]

Ask her out. It doesn't matter that much what we think, or you think, is her motives.
Fact is, you don't try, you'll regret it.

Yeah, I'm kliché, and yeah, it's easier said than done, but it's not gonna get easier.
I think you already know what we'll say. I think you have the answer yourself, even if you might not admit it to yourself.

Go for it man. And don't look back. The worst that can happen is that you get a no. So what's smarter: To wait, wait, wait, agonizingly wait, and get a no, or get a no straight away, and get back on your feet?

Go for it. She might say yes.

 

[Kriegsherr]

yeah exactly, might as well go for it, you don't really have anything to lose. Its not like she'll freak out so bad you'll never see eachother again

 

[jasoncyrus]

I agree, after all whats the worst that could happen? (in realistic terms)

She laughs in your face and mocks you for the rest of her natural life.

But thats an extreme, realistically it'll probably just be a no.

Worth the leap right?

 

[GRoXERs]

Yeah, this one's easy. Go for it, man, and good luck to you!

 

[samsprinkle]

You're just going to fill a rebound role is you ask her now. You'll probably get laid. So jump in there!

 

[Scarecrow38]

I think everyone here's basically got this thing hammered out, you just need to go for it

I guess that's why it's called 'jumping in'. Relationships are all about a leap of vunerable faith.

 

[Snowalker]

honestly. the amount of threads about needing advice on women is getting out of hand. we could start an entire forum devoted to "advice".

Sorry, just really needed some advice, I know it gets on a lot of people nerves. I ment to apologize in the OP

 

[9-liner]

I'd say that Bruce Lee's philosophy concerning his Jeet Kune Do 'style' is your best guide here...

 

[One Seven One]

i have to agree with everyone else

go for it, if you don't take your chances now you may never get this chance again

 

[Berethond]

Yeah, but face it, you're in high school. All you're gonna be doing is spending m oney on another man's wife.

BTW
Life Sucks.

 

[Berethond]

Yeah, but face it, you're in high school. All you're gonna be doing is spending m oney on another man's wife.

BTW
Life Sucks.

Want to share something? Come on, let it out.

The fact that life sucks is common knowledge. I thought everyone knew that.