personally I just hate most dating site to my heart contains! Most of them are just blatantly overprice (if you have to pay),you could find that special someone, I think it all about luck, physical appeal, chat/conversion skill and profil goodness. Myself I am the unlucky one of my entourage, my brother been 5 year with her girlfriend found on dating site and have 2 children and a house, my dad also found his love there, my aunt had luck to find love not directly but close enough, it was the friend of a date!
I find it really hard for a normal not super exciting (in a description) to try and lure female to talk to you through a dating site, I am sorry if I don't flash, my genuine quality and strongness of charm are in REAL person, dont ask me to chat for 3 motnh I'm just not good at that!!
I mean how I am supposed to lure a female when most of my fun is with gaming, either it board games or video games, it really scare 99% of the girls. too bad female geek usually are not very flashy too so it hard to see them