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JediGuy

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Okay, fellow escapists, I noticed some of you dudes actually use these boards to get some help on issues pertaining to relationships, friends and whatnot. So I`ve decided to give it a try.
So I went to Europe last month and before I went, this girl that I kinda like(kinda meaning `very slightly` here) asked to bring her a souvenir from the places I went to, nothing big. I said OK. So, now that I`ve come back, I`ve shown my friend (the girl through which I got to know the girl I kinda like) all the aforementioned souvenirs, and she really liked a pretty cool key ring I bought in Ibiza, and she kinda insinuated that she`d like to have it. I told her that I would give it to her, but since I had bought it for the other girl in the first place, I couldn`t.
Now, the sad part is that this friend of mine is somewhat pissed at me for not letting her have it, and actually accused me of trading her for the other girl! (even though I am not attached to either. Romantically, I mean.)
So, friends, any ideas on why she`s so pissed at me? Or at least on what I should do to get myself back on her good side?

Thanks in advance.
 

Kialee

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I'm a little confused here, she's upset you didn't buy her something even though you didn't plan to do so in the first place?
I can't tell if I'm reading this correctly or not.
 

eggy32

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Explain to her that you promised to give it to someone else and she should have asked.
 

eggy32

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Kialee said:
I'm a little confused here, she's upset you didn't buy her something even though you didn't plan to do so in the first place?
I can't tell if I'm reading this correctly or not.
You read it right.
 

delet

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It's hard to tell from your grammar, but it seems like you lied to the girl. You probably shouldn't have done that.
 

Woodsey

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If you want to get some off the girl you know more, give her the ring and find something else to give to the other one.
 

JediGuy

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The thing is she had actually asked me to buy something for her and I DID! But when she saw the freaking key ring she decided she wanted that too.
 

Kialee

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Hrm.
You should definitely explain that it was bought for the other girl specifically.
If she's still upset afterwards, she's a selfish *****.
No two ways around it.
 
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JediGuy said:
xRagnarok19 said:
You could give it to her and give the other girl something else.
too late for that now, i already gave all of it to the other girl
So you didn't by a souvenir for the girl you were going to show all the souvenirs to? You are amazing and you just made my day that much better.
 

JediGuy

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xRagnarok19 said:
JediGuy said:
xRagnarok19 said:
You could give it to her and give the other girl something else.
too late for that now, i already gave all of it to the other girl
So you didn't by a souvenir for the girl you were going to show all the souvenirs to? You are amazing and you just made my day that much better.
No, but I bought her what she had asked me to, I didn`t know she`d want anything else! Now stop laughing.