Escapism - a solution or a stall?

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Vanguard_Ex

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Order, order! This thread is now in session.
But first, some back story.

So here I am, alone in my house until the morning, for the first time ever. Needless to say I'm not a child, the reason I've reached 17 without being home alone once until now is most likely because I'm not an only child. Anyway, not too long ago, perhaps half an hour, I was feeling quite lonely. At first this was in the more immediate sense, but then I started to realise I was actually quite lonely in more ways than one. In an effort to stem these unwanted thoughts I reached for ol' reliable and started up the Xbox. Time for some Mirrors Edge. After about 10 minutes I realise what I always do when I'm on my beloved games; I feel so much better now. And then it occured to me: Is this a good thing?
Your immediate response should be something along the lines of
'Yes, of course it's a good thing. You feel better, don't you?'
But what I really mean is, is it really healthy to just suppress negative emotion with escapism through gaming? Whilst it's debatable that this isn't really suppression as such, it's also just as easy to argue that methods of forgetting troubles such as this simple postpone these feelings to be piled up on.
So my debate question is as follows: Is escapism through gaming an effective way to vent unwanted emotion, or simply a diversion?

And what better way to share this debate than with my wonderful fellows at The Escapist. Take it away, you lovely buggers.
 

El Poncho

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I guess you need something to get you away from it and why write about a new imaginative world when a game can do it for you.
 

Lord George

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The hell the first time you've been left alone and your 17, you have some damn protective parents, I was left alone from about the age of 13 whenever they frequently buggered off to whatever, and I'm not a single child either I have a brother who I throw into things.

But to the question at hand I believe escapism in all forms is a brilliant way of shaking up the scenery of your mind and getting out of your regular life for a while to shoot things in the head.
 

TheNumber1Zero

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it's either escape or face our problems and last time I went anywhere near the "facing" choice,it involved a bit of a freakout,just a small one,as well as the confirmation that I have heavy OCD and light neurosis.
 

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Akai Shizuku said:
For some of us, escapism is all we have.
That is so true you would not believe. I wasn't meant to be here. I was meant to be in a time with swords, shields, legendary tales of battle, and the fires of war. I wasn't meant for this modern day crap. I can wield a sword well, extremely well in fact, and I can fight with one well too. I was meant to be a soldier in armour, not a kid studying for his GCSEs. Games are the only place I have to live that dream. I could write a mass of text about this, but I won't. Maybe I will at a later date, but it's 22:44 now, and i'm tired.
 

Vanguard_Ex

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George144 said:
The hell the first time you've been left alone and your 17, you have some damn protective parents, I was left alone from about the age of 13 whenever they frequently buggered off to whatever, and I'm not a single child either I have a brother who I throw into things.

But to the question at hand I believe escapism in all forms is a brilliant way of shaking up the scenery of your mind and getting out of your regular life for a while to shoot things in the head.
Just the one parent for most of my life. It's not that my mums over protective, it's just that usually I'm with my sister so I'm not actually alone.

But your reply is actually very good, I think that's a very good way of looking at it.
 

NeutralDrow

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What's wrong with suppressing negative emotions? Time may not heal all wounds, but it certainly helps. Only actions with deadlines are harmed by the passing of time. And frankly, with what you described, a fantasy escape would be ideal.

Stalling may rarely be a solution in and of itself, but it's not always a bad thing, either.
 

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StarStruckStrumpets said:
That is so true you would not believe. I wasn't meant to be here. I was meant to be in a time with swords, shields, legendary tales of battle, and the fires of war. I wasn't meant for this modern day crap. I can wield a sword well, extremely well in fact, and I can fight with one well too. I was meant to be a soldier in armour, not a kid studying for his GCSEs. Games are the only place I have to live that dream. I could write a mass of text about this, but I won't. Maybe I will at a later date, but it's 22:44 now, and i'm tired.
You and I, my good sir, share a very sad and unfortunate life. What I wouldn't give to ditch this repetitive hole and live an adventure.
 

Cheeky Marmoset

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There is nothing wrong with it. It's normal when you're lonley to take your mind off it with entertainment. In the great depression, people flocked to movie theaters because it has the same effect.
 

Gooble

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Escaping is the way it seems that most people get through life-be it TV, gaming, music, art, reading, holidays, socialising or whatever, they all distract us from everything we're not happy with in out lives.
 

Akai Shizuku

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To me, escapism is the best way, the only way, to be entertained. This world is boring. I don't care who you are or where you live, if you're wealthy enough to read this, your life is boring. Many of us find this modern life not only emasculating but downright awful. There's no fun to be had, and not only that, but it's full of stress and constraints. There is very little freedom and very little to do anyway. You can't enlist in an epic army of knights that destroy evil. You can't study magic that will make you pwn stuff. You can't just hop in a Boeing and learn to fly it. You can't even explore the world around you with any satisfaction. Life sucks, and video games are our way out.

Now Escapists, I ask you: what is worse for your health? Spending some hours in a world you choose to be in, or spending time in a place you hate, surrounded by people you hate, doing things you hate?
 

Rusty Bucket

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I'd say it's a stall, but a necassary one. Everyone needs some form of escapism, just so they can get out of their own head for a bit, disconnect themselves from the world and its problems, if only for a few hours. Gaming is just your way of doing it.
 

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Akai Shizuku said:
To me, escapism is the best way, the only way, to be entertained. This world is boring. I don't care who you are or where you live, if you're wealthy enough to read this, your life is boring. Many of us find this modern life not only emasculating but downright awful. There's no fun to be had, and not only that, but it's full of stress and constraints. There is very little freedom and very little to do anyway. You can't enlist in an epic army of knights that destroy evil. You can't study magic that will make you pwn stuff. You can't just hop in a Boeing and learn to fly it. You can't even explore the world around you with any satisfaction. Life sucks, and video games are our way out.
You, sir, are clearly not drinking enough.
 

Akai Shizuku

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Rolling Thunder said:
Akai Shizuku said:
To me, escapism is the best way, the only way, to be entertained. This world is boring. I don't care who you are or where you live, if you're wealthy enough to read this, your life is boring. Many of us find this modern life not only emasculating but downright awful. There's no fun to be had, and not only that, but it's full of stress and constraints. There is very little freedom and very little to do anyway. You can't enlist in an epic army of knights that destroy evil. You can't study magic that will make you pwn stuff. You can't just hop in a Boeing and learn to fly it. You can't even explore the world around you with any satisfaction. Life sucks, and video games are our way out.
You, sir, are clearly not drinking enough.
Video games are way better for you than alcohol. Any doctor will tell you that.