First of all, regarding the Xbox One, what's being said is that the fee for used games will be full retail price. Second of all, the game will be tied to your live account, so it won't be possible to borrow games either. Thirdly installing the game will be mandatory so that the tie game-account is possible. They're hurting honest gamers in the chance of this might reduce piracy or what not. Console gaming should first and foremost be simple and fun. You buy a game, pop it in and start playing. If not, what's the benefit over buying PC games.
Regarding the whole "you never owned your games" argument, sorry for my language, but it's complete bullshit. You cannot have it both ways: it is either a product, and you buy it once can whatever the heck you want with it or it's a service, like netflix or rdio. If it's a product I have the right to lend it to my friends, resell it and etc. If it's a service, you cannot charge full retail price for it. Charge 10 bucks a month and give access to all your catalog, that's a service. You can also have a tiered service, like pay $5 and you get all EA games, pay $10 and you get all EA, Capcom, Ubisoft games or whatever.
With things the way they are now, there's no real advatadge of buying a Xbox One. You just buy a computer and plug it to your TV, which, nowadays, already comes with netflix and such.
Regarding "used games are evil and are destroying the industry", this is just a lie and it has to stop. Why no other medium complains of this? Why Ford is not on a campaign to end used car deals? Why Penguin isn't trying to end all used book stores or public libraries? They let you read books for FREE, for god's sake! Who is thinking of the starving writers? And mentioned in your own podcast, why isn't the music and video industry complaining about this? CDs and DVDs are still sold abundantly and however no one says "used music is killing the industry" or "used movies are killing hollywood". Show me the numbers, where are the statistics where game X has lost money because of used games. I'm not saying game X might have not sold as much as they wanted, I want to see a report saying "Game X's developer actually lost money because of used games"
You know what used games really are? They are free publicity. You borrow a game you woundn't normally buy and you play it and it's awesome and you say to yourself: "this is awesome, I must have this for me" or "this is actually fun, I'll have to buy the next game from developer X". That's how this works.