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commiedic

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Having money issues. Like everyone right =P Here we go!

So I have almost paid off my final loan that I used to buy my car 4 years ago. (Got into a sticky situation and had to extend it) I was making good money and had a couple of grand saved up. I decided what the hell and extended it again so I could finally do the custom work to it I had been wanting to do for three years. I would be financially sound doing this and all the while I was building credit. Currently sitting around 650-700 at this time.

Then disaster strikes. I talk to the guys about the work to my car and they said it would = everything I saved up and what I extended the loan to be. I told them I would be in next week with a final decision. Three days later someone ahead of me while we were both going 55Mph slams on his breaks in the left lane because of a school bust 2 car lengths ahead of us that I couldn't see. His car was brand new (Still had the temp tag on it) and my car is 18 years old and my brakes were kind of worn. Needless to say I slam into the back of him. At this point my car could barley run. A lot of front body damage and some engine bay damage. It was a 1994 Honda Del Sol.

Decided not to get the custom parts =P. Used the money to get a new car. 2001 MR2 Spyder. (I like 2 door convertibles =P). Pretty good price IMO. $7k and an extra $1k after financing for a total of $8k. So now I am making a car payment. Now I am also carrying full coverage. So my insurance payment is $300 a month, Cary Payment is $300 a month, loan payment is $250 a month, rent is $750 a month... Plus cell phone, internet etc. etc.

Well all was well. I am drawing unemployment at this time and going to ITT tech full time. I am still in the green on finances though. GI bill and unemployment are covering my expenses. Though I am getting very disappointed with ITT Tech and the way they teach. Doesn't feel right. I do some research and decided to go to OSU. Now every day I stay at ITT is one day less of my GI bill coverage for an actual "good" education. So I talk to financial at ITT and ask them about dropping out and how much I would need to pay back on the GI bill. They say around $200-$500. I said ok and started the process. Two weeks later I get a letter saying I owe $4000 to the GI Bill. I take the letter to ITT and say WTF!!?!? They told me to wait for the refund check from them. I do. The check was $1500 which leaves me to pay $2500 out of pocket. $2000 more then I was told I would have to pay.

Now I am starting to panic. My Unemployment is about to run up and I might have a job at Walgreens. Though if I don't start at $9+ I won't be able to pay all my bills. I won't get anymore GI Bill stipends until I have payed back the $4000 I owe them.

Then last night I was driving around because now I have a problem sleeping because I am about to have a panic attack because I HATE owing money and I HATE even more making almost equal to what I owe each month. It really grinds my gears. Anyways, I am out driving around and when I pressed on the gas switching to 2nd it felt really slow to rev up. I didn't pay much mind to it at first and decided to jump on the highway. My Ipod stopped before I got on the off ramp and I had my windows rolled down. I started hearing this rattling noise from my engine area when I slowed down. Then it stopped when I stopped. When I took off again I heard it again. I pulled over and tested it and it is from the engine and it happens around 3000 RPMs. I take it to Meineke in the morning and they say I have THREE oil leaks and a possible loose bearing on one of my rods. They can't work on it till Monday.

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About to have a nervous break down. All this because I wanted that damn engine swap =(
 

Simalacrum

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I don't think they can't make you pay a bill that you weren't informed off. If they said that you need to pay $500 and then suddenly come up with a bill 8 times as much as that, then give you a $1500 check as a refund, that's not right. Complain, I'm sure theres a law against that or something.
 

commiedic

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Simalacrum said:
I don't think they can't make you pay a bill that you weren't informed off. If they said that you need to pay $500 and then suddenly come up with a bill 8 times as much as that, then give you a $1500 check as a refund, that's not right. Complain, I'm sure theres a law against that or something.
Yea, I was thinking about doing that. I am going to go up to the office on Monday and talk to the same lady who told me about the 2-$500 amount. Show her the paper saying how much I owe and show her the check. I might complain till they compensate or she is fired. Because this could cause me to lose my appt.
 

jobu59749

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If it's money owed on the GI bill, that isn't the schools problem...that's basically what you'll be told. You should have contact the military financial side since that is where the GI bill is funded from. As far as everything else, welcome to life, sometimes we get dragged through the shit. I have no advice except stop investing in cars that you want to tune up. Maybe your lifestyle is to expensive and you need to cut back and budget yourself. Get rid of things you don't "need" and stop buying expensive things that you "want" until you are in a much more financially sound place.
 

J_Monsterface

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commiedic said:
Having money issues. Like everyone right =P Here we go!

So I have almost paid off my final loan that I used to buy my car 4 years ago. (Got into a sticky situation and had to extend it) I was making good money and had a couple of grand saved up. I decided what the hell and extended it again so I could finally do the custom work to it I had been wanting to do for three years. I would be financially sound doing this and all the while I was building credit. Currently sitting around 650-700 at this time.

Then disaster strikes. I talk to the guys about the work to my car and they said it would = everything I saved up and what I extended the loan to be. I told them I would be in next week with a final decision. Three days later someone ahead of me while we were both going 55Mph slams on his breaks in the left lane because of a school bust 2 car lengths ahead of us that I couldn't see. His car was brand new (Still had the temp tag on it) and my car is 18 years old and my brakes were kind of worn. Needless to say I slam into the back of him. At this point my car could barley run. A lot of front body damage and some engine bay damage. It was a 1994 Honda Del Sol.

Decided not to get the custom parts =P. Used the money to get a new car. 2001 MR2 Spyder. (I like 2 door convertibles =P). Pretty good price IMO. $7k and an extra $1k after financing for a total of $8k. So now I am making a car payment. Now I am also carrying full coverage. So my insurance payment is $300 a month, Cary Payment is $300 a month, loan payment is $250 a month, rent is $750 a month... Plus cell phone, internet etc. etc.

Well all was well. I am drawing unemployment at this time and going to ITT tech full time. I am still in the green on finances though. GI bill and unemployment are covering my expenses. Though I am getting very disappointed with ITT Tech and the way they teach. Doesn't feel right. I do some research and decided to go to OSU. Now every day I stay at ITT is one day less of my GI bill coverage for an actual "good" education. So I talk to financial at ITT and ask them about dropping out and how much I would need to pay back on the GI bill. They say around $200-$500. I said ok and started the process. Two weeks later I get a letter saying I owe $4000 to the GI Bill. I take the letter to ITT and say WTF!!?!? They told me to wait for the refund check from them. I do. The check was $1500 which leaves me to pay $2500 out of pocket. $2000 more then I was told I would have to pay.

Now I am starting to panic. My Unemployment is about to run up and I might have a job at Walgreens. Though if I don't start at $9+ I won't be able to pay all my bills. I won't get anymore GI Bill stipends until I have payed back the $4000 I owe them.

Then last night I was driving around because now I have a problem sleeping because I am about to have a panic attack because I HATE owing money and I HATE even more making almost equal to what I owe each month. It really grinds my gears. Anyways, I am out driving around and when I pressed on the gas switching to 2nd it felt really slow to rev up. I didn't pay much mind to it at first and decided to jump on the highway. My Ipod stopped before I got on the off ramp and I had my windows rolled down. I started hearing this rattling noise from my engine area when I slowed down. Then it stopped when I stopped. When I took off again I heard it again. I pulled over and tested it and it is from the engine and it happens around 3000 RPMs. I take it to Meineke in the morning and they say I have THREE oil leaks and a possible loose bearing on one of my rods. They can't work on it till Monday.

What
Do
I
DO!

About to have a nervous break down. All this because I wanted that damn engine swap =(

this advice might seem vague and could easily be of no help whatsoever so if you dont have time for that, just ignore it

all i ca say is this

your situation is indeed terrible, and i offer you my sympathy, i really hope you can fid a way to gain some footing and climb out from under the debt

i dont know if that will happen, and i wouldnt have any idea how to make it happen

but on a more moment to moment level, id say this,

everything is, as it always has been, and always will be

nothing can really change

you will live until you die and your debt will be as forgotten and meaningless as anything else in the past

its very very unlikely you will become homeless, you will probably squeak by somehow, barely making it to the next day, this will be true in some way for every moment you live

even if you were wealthy and secure youd have problems that felt apocalyptic

and it could always end in an instant

whatever happens its best to try not to let it take your happiness away

that is the true goal in all of this, and its the only thing you really have to lose

your always gonna be behind the ball, but dont panic, this is a game we all lose

try to take comfort in knowing were all going down together and everyone else is just as fucked and marked for death as you

lets try to have a grin and a laugh as it all goes up in flames

mabye try to throw some sex and good food in there somewhere

you have many brothers and sisters, and they will talk of how hard you fought against the current after you have drowned, right before they themselves get taken away