Flirting with strangers :-D
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"Does this smell like chloroform?"
That out of my system, if they're strangers, you may want to try becoming friends first.
That out of my system, if they're strangers, you may want to try becoming friends first.
Self-confidence, but to a point. Nobody wants to hang around the wallflower, but nobody likes a loud braggart either.
that's not the way to get girls dude.
You don't flirt you start building a relationship. Try and find something you both like, take an intrest in or that you both hate. Then when you think you both know eachother enough then you can start flirting.
Also tans are never a good idea. Go natrual.
You don't flirt you start building a relationship. Try and find something you both like, take an intrest in or that you both hate. Then when you think you both know eachother enough then you can start flirting.
Also tans are never a good idea. Go natrual.
And if you are flirting with atheists, it's the best thing you can dosmearyllama said:
[footnote]I'm an atheist, so I feel I am allowed to make these jokes[/footnote]OT: A good attitude going in. Not self-conscious, not overly confident, and not too casual. The attitude you take into a situation can show in your body language, even if you don't mean it to, so a good attitude can make you more attractive, whereas a bad attitude can ruin everything before it starts. (I'm not going to list everything that you could do, I just figure I'll add to the list)
Stranger flirting is the best.
Just don't use corny one liners.
Compliment her on her smile, hair, laugh, y'know things that are immediately noticeable and that you can find cute without being weird.
Just don't use corny one liners.
Compliment her on her smile, hair, laugh, y'know things that are immediately noticeable and that you can find cute without being weird.
This!Biodeamon said:
Relationships started entirely through flirting never really go far, I've noticed. Although I've never been in one, it's just an observation I've made, so think what you want about it.
Move out of your place, and rent a cheap apartment, quit your job while at it and buy a nice Collie dog.
Go around the streets and become a street performer, wearing a Tuxedo with your collie by your side doing tricks.
See a girl you like? Tell collie dog to 'play' with her, maybe snatch her purse or something (even a glove).
Once that is done, recoup it, and smell it, as soon as she comes to you to ask for the item back, pretend that you already know that it belongs to her because of her smell.
Then, start dancing with her, without saying another word.
Bang, done. You now have a girlfriend...you're welcome.
Go around the streets and become a street performer, wearing a Tuxedo with your collie by your side doing tricks.
See a girl you like? Tell collie dog to 'play' with her, maybe snatch her purse or something (even a glove).
Once that is done, recoup it, and smell it, as soon as she comes to you to ask for the item back, pretend that you already know that it belongs to her because of her smell.
Then, start dancing with her, without saying another word.
Bang, done. You now have a girlfriend...you're welcome.
But maybe...mazzjammin22 said:
I"ve been waiting for a set up like that for two weeks now
Woooo
hehe okay...well OT
Just be yourself, if it looks forced it's going to come off as really awkward. Be cool, be yourself.
Being a conversational gentleman with a sense of humor can help. Even if you don't score their more permanent attention, you had a few good moments with 'em and you feel good. I can get on with most any person so long as I'm not a jerk at 'em.
I am really tempted to believe you simply because your Avatar is Doctor Cox.AceAngel said:
On Topic: If you want a girlfriend you should try to get out more, attend more social functions, and when you are there, actually circulate find new people, find some nice looking girls at an event that encompasses something in which you hold an interest, that will give you an immediate subject to talk about.
You don't think you're a loser because you are one, you're a loser because you think you are. The best advice is to just have confidence in yourself, pick out your best bits and move from there. If you go into something thinking you'll fail then you will because you have prepared yourself mentally to fail. Go into something knowing that you'll do well and you will, because you want to.Annoying Turd said:Im just a loser how will girls like me if I be myself.
Also, limit your time when trying to pick up. The first thought that a lot of women have when a guy tries to 'hit on them' is "how can I ditch this guy". If you make it clear that you only have a limited window for them to listen to you then they won't be thinking that and will want to hear what you have to say in the short time they have with you.
I'm actually not even sure what flirting is. I am pretty sure you just make little nervous jokes at each other.
Then if neither of you become HORRIBLY UNCOMFORTABLE at any point, it is a successful flirt and I guess you can go see a movie or something.
Then there is the overtly sexual flirtation, but I am pretty sure only girls get to use that without being creepy. For some reason.
Actually meeting girls is something you shouldn't concentrate on, really. Just do shit you like and you'll eventually stumble across girls who are interested in the same thing. That includes whatever nerdy shit you are into, okay.
Just don't be that dude who flips the fuck out when girls are nearby like he's have a fucking seizure.
Then if neither of you become HORRIBLY UNCOMFORTABLE at any point, it is a successful flirt and I guess you can go see a movie or something.
Then there is the overtly sexual flirtation, but I am pretty sure only girls get to use that without being creepy. For some reason.
Actually meeting girls is something you shouldn't concentrate on, really. Just do shit you like and you'll eventually stumble across girls who are interested in the same thing. That includes whatever nerdy shit you are into, okay.
Just don't be that dude who flips the fuck out when girls are nearby like he's have a fucking seizure.
Best advice I could give you out of personal experience? Give up. Stop looking. Right away, you'll fall into someone. But you absolutely have to push any thought of relationships and women out of your mind.Annoying Turd said:Im just a loser how will girls like me if I be myself.
It's hard, but you have to do this. Focus on yourself. You say you're a loser? Well then you are. You say you're likeable, intelligent, and attractive? Well there you go! Now you are. Its all about self confidence and not dragging yourself down.
Believe me, I've been through everything you're going through in this. I know from experience.
You need to learn to possess the traits of an "alpha" male, or at least imitate them. Look your best, without appearing to try too hard. Always smell nice, but never overpowering. Be confident, smile, and greet people in a positive manner somewhat frequently. You need to master the art of teasing, without going too far. Teasing is often a good way to build attraction. You also need to attempt to break the "touch barrier" by casually touching their hand while talking, or some other non-threatening place.
If you're in a bar setting, you should sit one seat away from one of the people you're interested in starting a conversation with. If it's just her and another gal, casually interrupt some of their non-serious conversation with a related and interesting story or comment. You should segue that into a question about themselves. People love to talk about themselves.
As I bartender, I see people that often have either very poor game, or amazing game. You really need to practice these interactions. Once you get the feel for it, you can display your personality in the positive and interesting person you most likely are. Most of all, have fun. That's what life is about.
If you're in a bar setting, you should sit one seat away from one of the people you're interested in starting a conversation with. If it's just her and another gal, casually interrupt some of their non-serious conversation with a related and interesting story or comment. You should segue that into a question about themselves. People love to talk about themselves.
As I bartender, I see people that often have either very poor game, or amazing game. You really need to practice these interactions. Once you get the feel for it, you can display your personality in the positive and interesting person you most likely are. Most of all, have fun. That's what life is about.