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Mr. Google

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Discussion: Does it matter to you if your Significant Other plays games or at least tries to play them. And are you like me in which seeing them try just fills you up with some sort of joy.


So the other day I was talking to my girlfriend about the game Fallout New Vegas. I realized that in the past month I had spent over 90 hours of gameplay on it. She called me crazy said I was a loser, jokingly only though. I told her that she just had no idea. The game was huge tons of stuff to do and was incredibly fun. She mentioned that she wanted to see what I was talking about so I told her that she should try and beat the game. Now she isn't really a gamer to say the least. She'll play Black Ops with her brother and any Sonic game, even the bad ones, and some DDR. But when I told her that she'd have a lot of trouble beating the game she took it on as a challenge. I helped her of in the first few minutes today. I told her what stats to use and sort of explained the game to a very un-game savvy person. After about 20 minutes on her own she still had no idea what the compass was trying to do and as much as i tried to explain vats to her she still didn't attempt to use it. She gave up for the day when she couldn't find the flowers needed to get through the tutorial. Though I'm sort of proud of her for even trying to get involved in something that I spend a lot of time on I hate to say that I find it hilarious that she can't even figure out the simplest of things. I'm being very patient with her and it's hard to explain something over Xbox Live chat. I really do hope that she can get the hang of the game and let it be one more thing to talk about.
 

Nimcha

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Maybe you should try again explaining when actually there in person? :p

I can't comment ontopic much since my girlfriend is more of a gamer than I am I think.
 

Mr. Google

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Nimcha said:
Maybe you should try again explaining when actually there in person? :p

I can't comment ontopic much since my girlfriend is more of a gamer than I am I think.
Yeah right now though there are complications so i cant really see her in person. Long and different story
 

JRCB

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Mine isn't a gamer, but she kind of understands. She asked me to show her some games, asked about the story, but didn't want to play. At least she understands I'm a gamer.
 

meowchef

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My girlfriend steals my PC to play Team Fortress 2 and Left 4 Dead 2... the jerk.
 

AngelicSven

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I have a friend who beat Crackdown without ever knowing he could lock-on.

Mine is actually really intuitive, she picks it up as fast as most people who regularly play videogames, I'm happy I have her even if she does plays RTSs.
 

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If I ever find a girl with whom I can argue about whether New Vegas was better than Fallout 3, I will toss my hands into the air and thank God, but I wouldn't say it's a necessary trait. If I considered it necessary, my chances of finding someone would probably go from slim to none.
 
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My girlfriend watched the FF VII anime. Which I didn't know existed. So she's not a gamer, but shes a nerd. I think I might try to get her into games before she has go back to Thailand...
 

Mr. Google

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AngelicSven said:
I have a friend who beat Crackdown without ever knowing he could lock-on.
Yeah but the compass in Fallout is A LOT more important than being able to lock on. In a game where it would take 30 minutes to walk from one end of the map to the other you really need to know where youre going
 

thedeathscythe

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To me, it's not really important but it definitely helps and you have more in common. People say you don't need stuff in common, but besides sex, if you have nothing in common, you never really hang out...So I definitely like it when they game too.
 

AngelicSven

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Mr. Google said:
AngelicSven said:
I have a friend who beat Crackdown without ever knowing he could lock-on.
Yeah but the compass in Fallout is A LOT more important than being able to lock on. In a game where it would take 30 minutes to walk from one end of the map to the other you really need to know where youre going
Have you played crackdown? That's like making a sandwich with just your thumbs. I'm amazed he didn't do it by accident, it's friggin' left trigger. He must have been really determined.
 

Mr. Google

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AngelicSven said:
Mr. Google said:
AngelicSven said:
I have a friend who beat Crackdown without ever knowing he could lock-on.
Yeah but the compass in Fallout is A LOT more important than being able to lock on. In a game where it would take 30 minutes to walk from one end of the map to the other you really need to know where youre going
Have you played crackdown? That's like making a sandwich with just your thumbs. I'm amazed he didn't do it by accident, it's friggin' left trigger. He must have been really determined.
Yeah thats a good question...when i play a game i usually press every button just to make sure it doesnt do anything. And Left Trigger is...to say the least pretty damn important in everything
 

dibblywibbles

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most of my girlfriends haven't been gamers so I really don't care too much either way. if I do meet a girl who is a gamer I'd prefer her to be a pc gamer. that way she won't try and hog my consoles.
 

Onichanbura

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My fiancee isn't a huge gamer at all, but she is better than most speed runners on the older mario titles. Come to think of it, she is pretty good at all of our 2d side scrolling games on our old consoles. as soon as she even begins playing a 3d title she can barely even aim a gun. Its pretty funny in a cute way.
 

Mr.Pandah

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I have to give a resounding meh to the whole thing. Would it be nice? Sure, I guess. It'd be fun to talk to someone else about my hobby, but would it really matter? No, not really. I've yet to meet an actual "Girl gamer". Any of the ones that say they are just play Mario Kart and think they're Gods at it...until I play them. I crush their childhoods in one fell swoop.

I suppose it would be cool for them to appreciate the nuances of certain titles that I play. For example, a girl I was recently with could not see why I loved Mafia II so much. Everything about that game came together so well that I fell in love with it. She didn't see it, and sure it was disappointing, but whatever, I knew she wouldn't have cared for it in the first place.
 
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I don't know if I'll even be able to find a gamer girl where I currently live, let alone date one (seriously, in the 2-1/2 years I've been attending college, I have not seen even one aside from those who will casually play Rock Band or Super Smash Bros. Brawl). That said, it doesn't particularly matter if the girls I date are gamers or not, just so long as they don't try and tell me something like video games are evil and forcibly get rid of my collection.
 

Mr.Pandah

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Aylaine said:
My fiance isn't a gamer really, but when I asked her how she felt about me gaming, she said she was okay with it because it's part of who I am, I like to do it and she likes to watch me play and cuddle me during my gaming sessions. :3
Blah, I don't know how you deal with that. Someone trying to cuddle with you when you're gaming. It almost NEVER works out. They either get annoyed by me playing, or I just give up because I can't get comfortable trying to play/see what the hell I'm doing on screen. Disappointments all around on that topic.
 

ajofflight

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My girlfriend plays a lot of RTS games, and loves Diablo II and PvZ. She's just as big a geek as I am, so it's great!