Gamers, why so serious?

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Salviar

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Contrary to what many may be thinking, this is not a post about Batman or the Joker. At all. Seriously.

This is about how serious some gamers can be.

I've just started working at a game store, which I was sure would be a blast because, come on, getting the perks of working in a game store, being able to talk to other gaming enthusiasts, telling people about games and how fun they are? These are things that I was excited about with my new job.
However, instead of being a fun experience, it's left me feeling...somewhat sheltered from the other side of gaming. The serious side of gaming. That side of gaming where the person takes gaming so seriously that dying in a game leaves them feeling betrayed by the game itself, where when they buy a game, if it doesn't work when they get home for whatever reason they will literally demand that the till be opened so they can take their money back because their entire life will be meaningless without either the game or the money that paid for said game (true story, except it was a guy who bought wii controller cases that didn't fit properly, which he then proceeded to throw in the bin and then take the empty cases back into the store and demand that he get his money back for the empty boxes.)
[EDIT: Because a couple of people have mentioned it, I'm just going to clear up that this guy brought in the empty cases by themselves without the product. And also that it is fine to return something to a store with the receipt and speak about it rationally; what I meant was bringing it back because of a stupid reason (eg: you didn't like it) and then chucking a fuss about it and yelling at the staff because you think that they did it on purpose, or something... Hopefully that clears it up a little.]

Not to mention that my co-workers claim I'm not a real gamer because I don't play Halo or COD. (I seriously think it's very close minded to decide which games make a gamer...)

Sorry. That was a bit longer than I thought it would be.

My point is, why are some people like this? Aren't games and gaming in general suppose to be fun? A way of escaping? A way of becoming someone else so playing in a fantasy world? Why are some people so angry in the gaming community? When did it become so competitive and...well, serious?
[EDIT: Also, on this, what I meant by "serious" was not necessarily in the game itself, but outside the game taking it so seriously that if the game didn't save, or something, then you'd, I don't know, go and demand a refund.
Actually, a good way to explain: Go watch "The biggest freakout ever 2" -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWBfLOZ2CjQ and you'll understand what I mean.]


Please enlighten me, Escapist!
 

delet

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People want to be the best, but not everyone can be the best because being the best means that no one else is. That leads to one half of the problems you mentioned. The other half is plain stupidity.
 

BabyRaptor

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Tell me you didn't give empty box guy his money back. I've had more than my fair share of idiot customers, but...Seriously? I'd just have laughed him out of the store.
 

Redlin5_v1legacy

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People get cocky from their successes in singleplayer. They don't like being corrected.

I don't know, occasionally I get pretty intense I guess but I'm playing the game for the fun, not for the win. And your co-workers are wrong, you play video games. Therefore, you are a gamer.

That said, I'm still out to try my best in every round!!!

[sub]As for the competitive/serious stuff, that's only because of the newer generation of douchebags barbarian gamers who treat video games like a sport.[/sub]
 

Palademon

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Salviar said:
Not to mention that my co-workers claim I'm not a real gamer because I don't play Halo or COD. (I seriously think it's very close minded to decide which games make a gamer...)
In any case, certainly not those games. Games even people who mock gamers play, along with 12 year olds trying to look cool.

A better test would be to ask what the Contra code is.

OP: I have no answer. In such a big world I just assume that most opinions I can think of must exist.
 

Swny Nerdgasm

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Good lord you're working in a game store? Good luck man, I almost went crazy from being the "Game Guy" in a blockbuster

Edit - Oh yeah here's everything you'll need to know about working in a game store

http://spoonyexperiment.com/2010/03/18/tse-riff-theater-gamecrazy-training-video/
 

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Salviar said:
Please enlighten me, Escapist!
I know what you mean dude, I was playing Halo: Reach the other day with one of my chums, and he decided to play in the MLG playlist, just because the rules are slightly different to regular Halo, and we both enjoy the change, but we played a game of 5-flag on Zealot, and we lost. One of our simply delightful team-mates sent me a message afterwards telling me to 'Gtfo of MLG' because I wasn't good enough. Now I've never been one to take gaming too seriously, but this seemed a bit rich to me. Nowhere in the description of MLG did it say that I had to be amazing to play it, nor do I think that I'm that bad at Halo. I'm just not pro, and I'm not used to the rules. Needless to say, I found it very irritating. Especially since I checked his profile, and he created the account JUST for playing MLG on Halo Reach and 3...
In a nutshell, some people are just idiots who don't like losing.
 

ayailla

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Some people are just pathetic. The problem is, a lot of people who play games are just big children. They will act like big children and throw a paddy when the game doesn't go their own way.

And for the 'you're not a real gamer' kind of people... yeah... they can just get bent. That's like saying you're not a real movie-enthusiast because you haven't seen the Hannibal movies, or you're not a real reader because you haven't read anything by Jane Austen. It's pathetic and those people need to get over themselves. Some people don't like FPS games and that doesn't make them 'not a real gamer'. It just makes them, 'not an FPS gamer'. Halo and COD are two franchises in an ever growing world of video gaming, and not playing them does not mean you are not a real gamer.

Sorry for the rant, but that kind of thing annoys me too. I'm not a huge FPS fan. I even bought Halo 3 to see what the big deal was and, while it was fun for a short while, I didn't see the big fuss.
 

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There will always be elitism in any form of gaming (WOW chalk that one up for obvious statement of the day) not just in Video gaming, i had the same experiance of Wargaming when i worked in a Games Workshop, elitism is one of the reasons i don't play WOW now and also Warcraft 3 mulitplayed (i'v egot a good half hour in me about that).

Its your basic nerd posturing (did i spell that right?)

What annoys people about me is that i give as good as I get ie

Moron: Gasp. You've never played Fifa 11?

Me: Gasp. You'cve never played world of warcraft?

At this point we both look at each other with pity and they get annoyed for some reason.

works with music, games, tv shows etc
 

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correct me if I'm wrong here, but you know how a decade or so ago (or maybe even today) it was "cool" (among nerds, I guess) to know every slightest detail of every star trek episode, that those who didn't weren't "real fans" or whatnot? More or less the same thing, I figure.
Empty box guy, as said above, is probably a derranged, whiny man-child not worth worrying about.
 

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LaughingAtlas said:
correct me if I'm wrong here, but you know how a decade or so ago (or maybe even today) it was "cool" (among nerds, I guess) to know every slightest detail of every star trek episode, that those who didn't weren't "real fans" or whatnot? More or less the same thing, I figure.
Empty box guy, as said above, is probably a derranged, whiny man-child not worth worrying about.
Its Nerd posturing I tells ye
 

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HeY! I Get To AsK ThaT!! D:<
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And I don't know... maybe it's because gaming is litterally their life. So they take it very seriously..
 

comadorcrack

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Salviar said:
Not to mention that my co-workers claim I'm not a real gamer because I don't play Halo or COD. (I seriously think it's very close minded to decide which games make a gamer...)
FFFUUUUUUUU-- I have had it with ass fuckers like these going on about how only Hardcore gamers play Halo/COD!!! Grrrr Rage... They're not real gamers!! I hate "Hardcore Gamers" they are the biggest assholes ever! Bloody frothing at the mouth rage!!

Right now that's over with. Get them to play a fighting game or racer or what ever games you're particularly good at then see how they fare at gaming! Cunting FPS Hardcore gamers!
 

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ayailla said:
Some people are just pathetic. The problem is, a lot of people who play games are just big children. They will act like big children and throw a paddy when the game doesn't go their own way.

And for the 'you're not a real gamer' kind of people... yeah... they can just get bent. That's like saying you're not a real movie-enthusiast because you haven't seen the Hannibal movies, or you're not a real reader because you haven't read anything by Jane Austen. It's pathetic and those people need to get over themselves. Some people don't like FPS games and that doesn't make them 'not a real gamer'. It just makes them, 'not an FPS gamer'. Halo and COD are two franchises in an ever growing world of video gaming, and not playing them does not mean you are not a real gamer.

Sorry for the rant, but that kind of thing annoys me too. I'm not a huge FPS fan. I even bought Halo 3 to see what the big deal was and, while it was fun for a short while, I didn't see the big fuss.
I'd have said "Sure I'm a gamer - I'm just not mainstream enough to play those games. I only play the elite titles."

He wants to start a snobfight, then take advice from me. I'm English. I know how to snob.

Oh, and for the record, I own Halo 3, Halo 3 ODST and Halo: Reach, and Call of Duty: Modern Warfare, Modern Warfare 2, World At War and Black Ops.

I'm clearly one of them mainstream gamers.
 

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comadorcrack said:
Salviar said:
Not to mention that my co-workers claim I'm not a real gamer because I don't play Halo or COD. (I seriously think it's very close minded to decide which games make a gamer...)
FFFUUUUUUUU-- I have had it with ass fuckers like these going on about how only Hardcore gamers play Halo/COD!!! Grrrr Rage... They're not real gamers!! I hate "Hardcore Gamers" they are the biggest assholes ever! Bloody frothing at the mouth rage!!

Right now that's over with. Get them to play a fighting game or racer or what ever games you're particularly good at then see how they fare at gaming! Cunting FPS Hardcore gamers!
Basically this; that's what all my friends but like...two are. I love JRPG's, they do not, so I don't hold much respect as a gamer in their eyes. I'm also quite good at RTS'...except for Sup Com, that game annoys me...
 

ayailla

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Thyunda said:
I'm English. I know how to snob.
Prepare for a snobfest! I'm English too. Haha.

Yeah, I do see the point about mainstream gamers. And I like your comeback. I might be using that one.
 

acolyte

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SOME people tend to be like that...just because you don't agree with them or have different tastes in gaming and other stuff they think of you as inferior to them...stupidity and immaturity does that to people...just ignore them, thats how i was raised...don't like something or someone ignore them.
Also, hi everybody! I'm kinda new here ^^ actually I've been lurking around here for a while but didn't bother to post a comment.
 

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To go slightly off-topic, it would be interesting to watch these people who can't stand losing play the game "Demon's souls".

Those of you who have played it will know what I'm talking about.

OT: I have know other answer than that it is safe to assume that Yahtzee's statement of "everybody is shit" holds true in our society
 

MrNickster

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Do you at least get normal gamers there? You know, the ones who buy something and if they have a problem with it, bring it back with the box, packaging and receipt? If a guy brought back empty boxes for Wiimote gloves, started rambling about them not fitting and demanding a full refund, I would laugh my arse off.