Gay guy may be attracted to me!

[Pingupower]

Break his legs. and then use as many stairways as you can. This will prevent him from following you.

 

[hyrulegaybar]

Kick the little fucker's arse.
He's either trying to get with you and get you to cheat on your girlfriend, which makes him a prick.
Or he's making you uncomfortable in a sexual way for a laugh, which makes him a prick.

Being gay doesn't stop him also being a prick and it sounds like he's harassing you so tell him firmly to stop and if it doesn't work then retaliate in any way you feel will be helpful. The other alternative is that your girlfriend is involved in his game, in which case maybe telling your girlfriend you're going to break his legs if he does it again will help. Just say it offhand and don't let on you think she knows though, I bet the problem goes away if you tell her how much it's upsetting you and that you're one day away from getting rid of him.

EDIT: This kind of thing annoys me because it won't serve any purpose for him and will only upset you, it's not fair of him and frankly it's shit like this that makes the whole gay community look bad.

My goodness. Someone has issues with trust, homosexuals, and sexuality, it seems. I think that telling him firmly that his attentions are unwarranted and unwelcome should be well enough. There's more to it than your binary way of viewing the world as full of exploitative and evil people, I'm sure. He could just have a painful crush and is dealing with it the best way he can. He may not be aware that his affections are not truly welcome. I know that as a young gay myself, I didn't quite catch on that my attentions might not have been welcome.

Being gay in high school sucks a LOT. You're typically the only gay, and you feel really lonely, isolated, and ostracized. You take any affection from another guy as interest, and you pursue that. At least that's what I did. And it sucked.

 

[xavi]

Since apparently he knows. Change his view of you. Be a jerk to him or do something he just can't stand, forcing him to lose this attraction to you.

 

[hyrulegaybar]

Kick the little fucker's arse.
He's either trying to get with you and get you to cheat on your girlfriend, which makes him a prick.
Or he's making you uncomfortable in a sexual way for a laugh, which makes him a prick.

Being gay doesn't stop him also being a prick and it sounds like he's harassing you so tell him firmly to stop and if it doesn't work then retaliate in any way you feel will be helpful. The other alternative is that your girlfriend is involved in his game, in which case maybe telling your girlfriend you're going to break his legs if he does it again will help. Just say it offhand and don't let on you think she knows though, I bet the problem goes away if you tell her how much it's upsetting you and that you're one day away from getting rid of him.

EDIT: This kind of thing annoys me because it won't serve any purpose for him and will only upset you, it's not fair of him and frankly it's shit like this that makes the whole gay community look bad.

My goodness. Someone has issues with trust, homosexuals, and sexuality, it seems. I think that telling him firmly that his attentions are unwarranted and unwelcome should be well enough. There's more to it than your binary way of viewing the world as full of exploitative and evil people, I'm sure. He could just have a painful crush and is dealing with it the best way he can. He may not be aware that his affections are not truly welcome. I know that as a young gay myself, I didn't quite catch on that my attentions might not have been welcome.

Being gay in high school sucks a LOT. You're typically the only gay, and you feel really lonely, isolated, and ostracized. You take any affection from another guy as interest, and you pursue that. At least that's what I did. And it sucked.

Hey, someone ring the wrong-gong!

Wrong!

See I know too many gay and bisexual people well to have anything about it bother me, my ex girlfriend was bi (real bi, not that bi) for goodness' sake! If you'd have read the OP carefully you'd've noticed that this guy knows the OP's girlfriend, that means he knows this guy is in a relationship and is either trying to break it up or is intentionally making him nervous for no reason. This guy knows he's in a relationship and is sending him cards and giving him shit, that's a textbook dick-move, one that transcends boundaries of sexuality.

See, in England being gay doesn't excuse anyone from normal social conventions. Those conventions include things like not harassing someone sexually and being generally a creepy little shit like this guy is doing. The OP could be a girl and the guy could be straight and my answer would've been the same. Breaking up a friend's relationship or freaking out a friend's partners are never acceptable behaviour regardless of what set of danglies turns you on, his homosexuality isn't an issue but his shitty attitude is. I don't like being called a homophobe for advocating treating gay people and straight people by the same standards.

Ah, so if you knew a girl were trying to break you and your best gal up, you'd kick that fucker's arse. Of course.

The second you rely on the whole 'oh I've got gay friends' defense, you've lost the argument. And I read it quite carefully. The point of the matter is that it's a hard time to be gay in high school. Tell him firmly no. There's no need to kick anyone's arse.

 

[PurpleSky]

Right here's what you do. Paint yourself completely black from head to toe. Then arrange to meet him late one night promising a private chat somewhere secluded. Then go out naked to meet him (it's okay nobody will be able to see you) if possible take a cross and some holy water. Be careful not to be seen and sneak into a good close position, when within sprinting range sprint out and rugby tackle him to the floor screaming "The power of christ compel you!", stand up and squat over his face and dip your black balls into his mouth (this bit should be easy, gays are frail creatures) and slap him repeatedly in the head with the cross, spitting on him or sprinkling holy water at the same time, continue this until he either cries, poops himself or commits suicide. To make sure he gets the idea you could always get a blowjob from him afterwards.

Wait....what?

OT: go to 3:30 of this video,do the Drill Sargeant approach.

 

[Dexiro]

He does sound like he's being really creepy about it. Really he shouldn't be acting any differently than a straight guy with a crush, unless following around and sending valentines cards is the norm.

Just flat out tell him you're not gay and that you don't like being followed around. Be quite stern about it so he gets the message first time.

 

[no oneder]

I met my best friend like that. Her name is Hannah Miller, she is a lesbian, and once told me she liked me. After a while that wore off, and now we're just good friends.

 

[Sparrow]

Fight him!

[sup]...alright, so I don't have the BEST ideas.[/sup]

 

[PurpleSky]

I met my best friend like that. Her name is Hannah Miller, she is a lesbian, and once told me she liked me. After a while that wore off, and now we're just good friends.

This is relevant to my interests.

Are you SURE that was all?

 

[Oskar K]

Kill him!

 

[Caliostro]

Just telling him the same thing you'd tell a girl you're not interested in. "Sorry mate, not interested. I'm in love with someone else". What's the difference between having a guy or a girl you're not interested in hit on you? You're not interested in either. Just say "Thanks, but no thanks".

It's not exactly a brain buster is it?

kiss your girl in front of him.

slap her ass in front of him.

tell him your not and never will be gay.

he might start to lie about you and say your gay too if this happens knock that MOTHER****** OUT! "last resort"

You're overcompensating.

 

[no oneder]

I met my best friend like that. Her name is Hannah Miller, she is a lesbian, and once told me she liked me. After a while that wore off, and now we're just good friends.

This is relevant to my interests.

Are you SURE that was all?

Yes, but I've always doubted if that was really the end of it and she just stopped liking me. But who am I to judge. Besides, it's like having a male friend, only that.... is a... girl? Did that make sense?

 

[silver wolf009]

Just say that you are interested in the opposite sex, not your own.

 

[Carlston]

And walk away. If he talks to any women about you and how you reacted...just that will score you serious points.

Erm...how? Are girls somehow going to think, "Oh, wow! He's NOT gay after all! I was totally only putting off banging him because I thought he was into guys!"

Somehow I don't think you'll "score serious points" by spreading the word that you're heterosexual.

Chicks befriend gay guys. they hate gay bashers. Guys not afraid of gay men (and why should ya be? afraid he's gonna redecorate your flat? Throw pillows!? NOOO)

So I take it girls hate you, seeing as you characterize all gays as sniveling, effeminate fashion designers? Or pre-teen girls. The bizarre description you give could fit either one.

When you gain about 200 Iq points to get you outa the negatives and can think a few steps higher than a rotten veggie get back to me. If that's the best you can troll you got a long way to go.

So I take it you rather be a gay basher?
And I take it you THINK a woman would rather be with a violent no brainer like yourself?

Keep practicing your trolling, you'll get it one day.

 

[SenseOfTumour]

It's a tough call, if he's genuinely making things difficult, then I suggest you sit down and talk to your girlfriend about it, I'm sure she can help to deal with it.

If however it's a case that he's just not getting the message, and especially during the school years, a crush won't die out just because all the facts state you're not interested, then all you can do is be polite but firmly state you're taken, and you love your girl and things are not changing.

The way I see it, if you wouldn't smack a girl in the face for something, then you shouldn't be punching a guy for it either. That's equality for you

If the truth is that he's in love with you (or as crushes go, the idea he has of you, at least), then really all you can do without becoming an asshole about it, is weather the storm until the truth slowly sinks in.

With any luck, he may realise eventually and stay friends...if that's not possible for him, then it's sad, but at least he can move on and you two get to stay together.

 

[Chogg Van Helsing]

is this aboi think its about? lol