Girl Problems: Which to choose?

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Anonin

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Right, so here is the scenario.
There are a lot of cute girls in my school. Recently I found out that this girl who goes 1 year lower than me, likes me. I was told so by her friend, and I guess that she is telling the truth.
BUT
Realising that this girl liked me, I realised that there was another girl that liked me, because they always act really similarly around me. They are shy, smile a lot, always say hi to me, and laugh at everything I say. Well, the laughing part is girl B...
So, Girl A is in my lower class and I know that she likes me. Girl B, I believe that she likes me. So, I don't know which one I like, and if they both like me, won't I hurt the other one by going out with the other?
:S some help would be appreciated
 

tomtom94

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Welcome to the Escapist. Cpt_Oblivious or Furburt will be along with the proper introduction shortly.

I think that your heart needs to decide here. Ask around your real life friends, they may be able to help you too.
However, younger girl must always win. ALWAYS.
(how old are you btw?)
 

Slaanax

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My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.
 

Jedoro

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Unless girl B has some outstanding advantage over girl A, I'd go with A since she's a sure thing.
 

Composer

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Slaanax said:
My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.
=_= wooow just wow

OT: u didnt really tell us anything about them
edit:WELCOME TO THE ESCAPIST =D(i got to do this twice in the same hour)
 

khaimera

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Umm, how could we know which girl would be better for you? You would need to descrbe them and yourself. Since you didn't, go with the better personality, or do what Slaanax says.
 

Daveman

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... dude... BOTH.

nah, seriously, I say make them mud wrestle for you.
 

Eliam_Dar

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easy, which one do you like? we cannot help you there, answer that question yourself and you'll know whom to date. If they both like you, you will hurt one of them, but it is also unfair to date someone just because they like you, on the long run you may be hurting them much more that if you were honest from the start

Welcome to the Escapist
 

The_ModeRazor

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...and you come here, of all places (meaning the internet, not the escapist in paratacticular) asking that question?

Anyway, I'd say go with the younger.
Just 'cause.
 

TheNumber1Zero

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Is there one you prefer? Otherwise I would go with Girl A, seeing as it's much more likely that she likes you.

Oh, and welcome to The Escapist, Read this
Hmm, you're technically not new, but you haven't been here that long either, read it anyways.
 

Slaanax

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I was guessing he was younger in high school, and high school it doesn't really matter just go for the more appealing one. You'd be surprised who actually likes you, I met a girl a couple weeks ago I went to high school with and she had a crush on me and I didn't even know her until 7 years later.
 

TimbukTurnip

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Go with which ever one you like more. Or if you don't like either of them in that way, don't go out with them.
If you like both of them, equally, then you might be a bit screwed. I can only come up with random ideas if that is the case, but i can't think of an overall good one. Unless they're willing to share you.
I'd try to make sure that girl B likes you though, and isn't just being nice, so you dont make youself look silly if you talk to her about it and you find out she doesnt like you that way.
 

Seldon2639

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Eh...

There are two fundamental questions you have to ask:

1. Are you sure the second girl actually likes you? They both may act the same around you, but that's no solid indication. Every girl has a different baseline of behavior, and deviations from that are indications of emotional attachment. If the first girl is normally outgoing, but acts shy around you, normally doesn't laugh at jokes, but does at yours, and goes out of her way to be around you in a way that isn't normal for her, she likes you. The same metric applies to the second girl. But, if she's normally shy (no moreso around you), normally very laugh-happy, and says hi to all of her friends, it's less a sure thing.

The point, fundamentally, is not to jump to conclusions. If you go for the second girl, and she doesn't like you, you may lose your shot with the first girl. Chickens, hatching, all of that.

The second question is simply: who do you want to go out with? If you're dating either of them out of a sense of needing to have a girlfriend, you're doing no one any favors. No harm can come from pursuing neither of them until you actually know what you want.
 

PhiMed

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Which one do you find more attractive? Go with that one.

If you're not sure, find out which one puts out.
 

Aesir23

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Girl A.

With Girl B you only BELIEVE that she likes you and you could turn out to be wrong.

However, if you want good advice. Go talk to BonsaiK, he's the relationship guy around here.

Also, welcome to the Escapist and enjoy your stay.