Just recently I came to realize, I've never believed in the concept of 'hard work pays off'. Now, I am a quite intelligent person, to the point where I was always the person who could pay absolutely no attention to half the class, yet still ace all the tests. But I think this fact may have simply caused me to have little motivation to actually 'TRY' to succeed, because I've always just 'got it', now I just kinda feel under the idea that either you succeed in something or you don't, and most actual effort put into trying to succeed will only have a negligible effect. So never once have I tried or learned something that I found initially difficult, because I just feel like "well if I'm not good at it now, a lot of practicing probably won't make a huge difference.."
I'm beginning to see that this is probably a harmful mindset for me to have. I would like to learn another language, I would like to learn little skills, etc. So, for discussion value, as well as some encouragement for me, what is something for you that started out really difficult, but that you got really good at through practice?
EDIT: Lol i probably should have said long ago that I wasn't necessarily refering to the workplace, i was more refering to learning a new skill etc. but the discussion is interesting nonetheless
I'm beginning to see that this is probably a harmful mindset for me to have. I would like to learn another language, I would like to learn little skills, etc. So, for discussion value, as well as some encouragement for me, what is something for you that started out really difficult, but that you got really good at through practice?
EDIT: Lol i probably should have said long ago that I wasn't necessarily refering to the workplace, i was more refering to learning a new skill etc. but the discussion is interesting nonetheless