How do i make friends ?

[MidnightThunderBoy]

I don't really know how to write this thread with out sounding like a child but its a problem i cant seem to quite figure so yes i came to an internet forum for help because were all people here and i dunno i wondered if there was something i was not seeing that you guys might know about.
but i don't really have any friends like me, that share my interests, that do the things i like to do or talk about the things i like to talk about, i mean not just that stuff but you know what i mean, i don't have any like minded people i can call friends and i want to remedy this but again i dont know how.

there are so many things i wanna do but having a lack of any sort of social clic makes it hard to be able to go and do things, dont get me wrong i will more than willingly do things on my own and think nothing to it but its not the same or at least it doesn't feel that way.
living in quite a boring section of england seems to separate me from an events or places that would hold people that i could get on with and its not that i wont travel to get to these things but i would like so friends closer buy if you see my point.

i dunno maybe im seeing things a little skewed or im thinking its a different to what it is but genuinely i am unsure of how to make or find friends like me and i didn't know if anyone could give me some insight to how its done or ways to do it ?

 

[Erja_Perttu]

Generally, going to places where people are likely to have similar interests to you and striking up conversations is a good place to start, I find. My best friend is a woman I met in a lift at college, and I started talking to her because I heard her mention something obscure that I knew. Best decision ever.

So, go to places where people are likely to be doing or talking about things which you like. If you like art, going to an art museum. Are you into video games or comic books? Go to an expo or something. You mention you're in England, well, so am I, I go to London to go to the MCM Expo even though it's on the other side of the country, it's great fun.

Or if you have one person you consider a friend, see if you can get to know anyone else in their social group. They may have an interest in something similar to you.

Put yourself out there and talk to people, go to things where you can meet like-minded folk, and be confident. Introduce yourself, ask questions, be cheerful. Thinking and acting positive has won me a great many friends.

 

[Jitters Caffeine]

Well, my best guess would be to start with some clay (or other appropriate inanimate matter) and bang out one of these babies. Although I wouldn't really know of another way to MAKE a friend. Not sure on the logistics of whether or not you need to contact a local Rabbi though. Might be helpful to have one on speed dial just in case.

In case you're unsure of what it is, it's a golem. Need to go through the carpool lane? BOOM, Golem. Need a second for a Doubles Game? BOOM, Golem. Got a bully problem? GOLEM!!

 

[Rawne1980]

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