Hi all, I'm just curious about something, from an early age we're conditioned to have a (hopefully) healthy fear of adults, particularly those in a position of some kind of authority, (at least that's the idea, there are always the unruly) and I'm curious how well-founded that fear was. Perhaps my experience isn't the most telling as I spent 16 of the first 18 years of my life at a "special school" for disabled people, (it would take me way too long to describe) but most of the students, right up until 16-18, whenever you chose to leave, seemed cowed by the teachers, when really as far as I saw the worst they could do is yell at you, give you homework they couldn't force you to do or detentions they couldn't force you to attend as they weren't allowed to physically prevent you from leaving the premises. I never questioned this while I was there, but for some reason I find myself wondering.
I wasn't a particularly bad kid, not a good student by any stretch of the imagination, I rarely did homework on time, and had a "bare minimum" philosophy toward most subjects, but that's the worst of it. I never got violent in any way, (at least from age 6 onward) rarely even had verbal problems with other kids. the only times I got in trouble were for aforementioned unfinished work and tardiness. (and once when I was 8 for having been caught making shit up about my family, and about my teachers to them...the one time my parents actually attended a conference)
My point being, as lazy a student I was, I never ended up too far into the doghouse as it were, but, while most of them were fair, a couple of teachers at my school had the occasional power trip. (I've had a lot of time to think about this, and I'm pretty sure giving someone a detention for using the word "stupid" in conversation falls into that category, as does giving a Muslim kid detention for not eating lunch despite repeated reminders that it was the month of Ramadan though I only heard about that one, didn't actually witness it so it may be an exaggeration. Interestingly, after leaving I heard the teacher in question was fired for being a member of the BNP, or at least that coming out coincided closely with him leaving)
I sometimes look back at situations like that and some others when I could've simply been a smartass, and wish I had more of a spine than I did and said something, but didn't for fear of getting into trouble, in a nutshell, my question is, had I been a bit more outspoken and disobedient, what is the worst that could've happened to me? What do teachers actually have with which to threaten their students proceeding under the assumption that detentions won't be attended and homework will remain undone?
for context where time is concerned I'll mention I left school in 2009
also for discussion value, where do you stand on such matters? Do kids have it too easy? I have a lot more respect for teachers now than I did then obviously, the years since leaving have given me a much larger perspective. On the other hand, you do hear about abusive teachers, and we all have that one teacher at school that seemed to have it out for us for some reason, so how much power should a teacher have?
I wasn't a particularly bad kid, not a good student by any stretch of the imagination, I rarely did homework on time, and had a "bare minimum" philosophy toward most subjects, but that's the worst of it. I never got violent in any way, (at least from age 6 onward) rarely even had verbal problems with other kids. the only times I got in trouble were for aforementioned unfinished work and tardiness. (and once when I was 8 for having been caught making shit up about my family, and about my teachers to them...the one time my parents actually attended a conference)
My point being, as lazy a student I was, I never ended up too far into the doghouse as it were, but, while most of them were fair, a couple of teachers at my school had the occasional power trip. (I've had a lot of time to think about this, and I'm pretty sure giving someone a detention for using the word "stupid" in conversation falls into that category, as does giving a Muslim kid detention for not eating lunch despite repeated reminders that it was the month of Ramadan though I only heard about that one, didn't actually witness it so it may be an exaggeration. Interestingly, after leaving I heard the teacher in question was fired for being a member of the BNP, or at least that coming out coincided closely with him leaving)
I sometimes look back at situations like that and some others when I could've simply been a smartass, and wish I had more of a spine than I did and said something, but didn't for fear of getting into trouble, in a nutshell, my question is, had I been a bit more outspoken and disobedient, what is the worst that could've happened to me? What do teachers actually have with which to threaten their students proceeding under the assumption that detentions won't be attended and homework will remain undone?
for context where time is concerned I'll mention I left school in 2009
also for discussion value, where do you stand on such matters? Do kids have it too easy? I have a lot more respect for teachers now than I did then obviously, the years since leaving have given me a much larger perspective. On the other hand, you do hear about abusive teachers, and we all have that one teacher at school that seemed to have it out for us for some reason, so how much power should a teacher have?