if your girlfriend cheated on you with another woman...

[disturbed_one]

... would you really call it cheating. I've thought about it before, but it happened to my friend a couple of days ago. He's still in denial about it, but I don't get why is it a big deal. Hell, I even don't get what women even see in us. If I was a woman, with all the knowledge about men that I have now, I'd most certainly turn lesbian.

So would you call it cheating or you'd just say 'meh'.
Personally, I'd ask if I can join in, or atleast take some pictures ^^

 

[CoverYourHead]

Fine! I'll just cheat on her with another man!

But still, yes, it is cheating. It's not okay, and I would not be happy.

 

[the_pleasure_is_mine]

Yes it's still cheating it doesn't matter what gender it's with. Cheating's cheating.

 

[Doctor What]

Yes. I just got out of a relationship in which our definitions of "cheating" differ. Cheating is not just porking. It's about doing things that you should only do with the person you love with somebody else. By what you've said, it's a shame that you can't understand. You're his friend, tell him what he wants to hear for now, and then let the truth kick him in his teeth.

 

[Wicky_42]

Yeah, it is cheating... but it does open up some interesting possibilities

 

[Sebenko]

Well, in my case it would be my boyfriend with another guy... meh. As long as it's not all the way. A little playing around is fine.

Though if it was with a woman... hmm. To be honest, I'm pretty curious, so my reaction would probably be "pics, lol!".

 

[The Salty Vulcan]

Would it be cheating? Yes. Thats pretty much what it is regardless of sex.
Would I react badly? Most likely yes and for the most part it would hurt like Pirate Kitty said. Feelings inadequcy, anger, sorrow, they would all come up at one point or another. If they were genuinely remorseful about it I would forgive them but It still hurt.

Oh and I would be a lesbian too if I was born female.

 

[NLS]

Fine! I'll just cheat on her with another man!

This actually, epescially since the first time we met she implied I was with another guy.

 

[Nimcha]

Of course it would be cheating.

But I'm not the jealous type, maybe some sort of arrangement could be made if she told me beforehand.

Oh and you can't turn women into lesbians just like that, believe me I've tried >.>

 

[disturbed_one]

well I suppose it wouldn't be the same if she just did something sexual with another girl, or she had some deeper connection with her. Of course I'd too get hurt if it was something more, but it was just some kissing and ass grabbing. I've witnessed it myself, and let me tell you it WAS hot.

 

[Crystalite]

Cheating is cheating, why does that have anything to do with gender?
If anything, it makes it worse, because it says something like: You are not enough for me because you are a man, which is extremely hurtfull, seeing as men do tend to be proud of their gender.

But all that aside, sleeping with another person is considered cheating, if not negotiated beforehand, which is very cruel and selfish.
It is a very big deal to be betrayed by someone you love! I do hope you never have to find that out for yourself.

Mind, it does not matter what you consider cheating, or hot, or whatever. It matters how he feels, and as a friend, you should be supportive. And please, please don´t tell him you thought it looked hot! That will not be what he wants to hear.

 

[Vampire cat]

Kill her. Kill her dead. That's what I'd do anyway >>.

 

[Ramin 123]

I would look shocked and then, when they least expect it announce "its penis time" and well....you know the rest yourself

 

[Jumping_Over_Fences]

What are we classifying as cheating here?

Is it just making out and a little heavy petting? That stuff just tends to happen, I don't think that is a big deal at all.

If we are talking sex, then it's a different story all together. I think that it would depend on who it was with. If it was with just some random person than, I would classify that as cheating. If it was with a really close friend, then I think I would have to sit down and have a talk about things. I would approach that situation with a more rational head and who knows, I may be fine that stuff happening occasionally.

 

[_Janny_]

Cheating is cheating, why does that have anything to do with gender?

This pretty much sums up my thoughts. No matter how you look at it, it's still cheating.

 

[Arehexes]

It's cheating if she had sex with her, and unpolite to not ask if you wanted to join.