I've lost the ability to enjoy watching anything

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Zipzip the Penguin

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About a year ago, Star Trek: The Next Generation used to be one of my favorite TV shows of all time. Good actors, generally good script, nice sets, it had everything. I stopped watching after a while, for no particular reason. Recently I just came back to it and watched a few episodes.
I can't stand it.
And then, to my dismay, the same thing happened with M*A*S*H, Doctor Who, Firefly, even Fullmetal Alchemist. I can't watch anything anymore (TV, movies, even youtube videos) without mentally picking it apart looking for inconsistencies, plot holes, lack of conventional logic, etc. I'm locked in this state of perpetual criticism of virtually everything I see and I can't fucking take it anymore. Has this happened to anyone else? Does it just wear off after a while? This is a pretty miserable existence, and I want out. I want to be able to enjoy watching something again.
 

Soviet Heavy

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It seems you've hit the South Park "everything sounds like shit and fart noises" phase. I suggest that you listen to some Stevie Ray Vaughn and Stevie Nicks, rather than Steamy Ray Vaughn and Steamy Nicks. All they do is shit their britches.
 

Dr. Cakey

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Funny. Same thing happened to me, only now I like more things instead of less.

Um...

Have you tried liking things?
 

Zak757

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Maybe you need to overwhelm your senses with mind-blowing stupidity, absurdity, and lack of logic to short out the critical neurons in your brain? I suggest playing Metal Gear Rising while simultaneously watching Gurren Lagann and Kill la Kill on a 3 monitor set up. If you can combine the final fight with Senator Armstrong, the Ryuko versus Satsuki battle, and the galactic scale mecha fight and absorb all three at the same time, you should be able to overwhelm the cynical part of your mind and shut it down with sheer awesomeness.
 

Camaranth

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Kinda sounds like you were on a bit of a sci-fi binge (with the exception of M*A*S*H). Maybe break it up a bit, watch some urban fantasy or a good crime drama.

It's happened to me too. I realised I wasn't enjoying watching anything so I stopped watching. Why waste my time doing something during my leisure time that I'm not enjoying. Instead I played games and read a lot. It passes. Eventually something will pique your interest enough that you'll want to check it out.

Alternatively you can decide that taking the mick out of something can be just as enjoyable. Or go watch some Canadian TV movies and shows and enjoy them as absolute piss-takes, in the so bad it's good. Any of Movie Bob's schlocktober films interest you?

Or go watch some truly gawd-awful television and be reminded just how good the stuff you love is.
 

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It's hard for me to disconnect thinking about the behind the scene factor of every film I watch now. I find myself saying "That was a great shot, I wonder how many takes it took?" and can't help but imagine the set details.

That's what I get for going into the industry.

I'm still able to crush that voice in order to enjoy good story though. If its good I'll be too busy following the story to pay any heed to those technical voices in my head screaming to analyze it.
 

Kolby Jack

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Sounds you need to go on a journey. Branch out a little. Watch shows and movies you never considered watching before. Channel surf. Maybe watch some pro wrestling.

It's possible you've just hit a funk. It will pass. Until then, you gotta stop trying to watch the things you know by heart and introduce some new jazz into your think-organ. Even if you hate them, it'll probably help you appreciate your old favorites more.
 

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I would suggest overwhelming yourself with mediocrity and the downright terrible, then you may begin to appreciate the aspects that the greater shows get right, rather than focusing on what they miss out on, as they are much stronger than the 95% of drivel that you could be watching on your TV.

To be honest though, blowing hot and cold with hobbies shouldn't be that surprising. Perhaps it is just a phase and you will regain interest once again. I go through bouts of loving to go to the cinema, but after a while this will dry up and I'll stop going - it's not that I now HATE CINEMA and will NEVER GO AGAIN, but instead I will return to it months down the line, when something new has sparked my interest again. It's just a natural cycle.

Alternatively, your tastes may just have changed and, as others have suggested already, you may just be over the whole Sci-Fi thing for now and may need to step away from it for a while and wait until you naturally feel an urge to return to it and focus on different genres in the meantime.
 

BobblyDrink

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Stop thinking so much with what you think you might like if you're wanting to find something new to enjoy. You'll just start nit picking and destroying the bridge to enjoying it before it's built. Instead just look around, on TV, shops that sell DVDs off or online and go for something you get a gut feeling about. Then just sit back and watch the show. Then think about the characters, come to your own terms on story line's, plot development and the over all feel.

Not going to say, "Turn off your mind and enjoy", just don't think of it as something that needs to be reviewed to the bare bones. It's something to enjoy most of all, then after feel free to review it more thoroughly if you so wish. Else you'll be unable to give it a starting chance. A character do something and it's going on unexplained? Probably because there's a lot more episodes, it'll come up when the time is right. Go with the flow of it, don't stop and demand answers as soon as it shows. You might miss out on other details that way.

So just take a rest. Do what you can to relax, hobbies, trying yoga and fall over a bunch until you just want to go watch TV, or whatever you might do. Then when you see something that catches your eye. Just watch it without weighing up in your mind what might be good or bad about it.

I personally suggest the TV shows Black Books, That Mitchell and Webb Look and Spaced. They can be found on YouTube I'm sure. You might like them, might not but just thought I'd give you some more options to start looking at maybe. If you don't like them, then just keep looking. No point getting hung up on one thing you didn't particularly like, can still explain and think why you didn't like it. Just don't go to town on it with mental thought. It'll hinder you wanting to find something new.
 

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Sounds like you need to go camping for a week in an austere environment. You and a couple of mates, in the wilderness for 5-6 nights, walking in the days and maybe even learning survival techniques.

Then when you return... your absence and distraction from the media will often rekindle your love for it!
 

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I hit this wall a few years ago, my husband loves all those american "kitchen sink" comedys (2 and a half men all the way back to cheers) I realised one day that they're all the same, the same plot the same character models, only the fashions and the salaries change.
Now we have an agreement, he can watch them to his hearts content and I get to hog the pc!
 

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I hit that phase a long time ago buddy, though not to your degree. Picked up TNG a couple years back, rewatching it now, still holding up. You're being a negative nancy, is the best way I can put it. Quit purposely seeking out shit to pick apart and like it for what it is. The list you mentioned OP, is superior to a lot of other crap out there. Unless you think this is your mid life crisis or something, otherwise enjoy switching over to 16 & Pregnant and Glee if quality story and acting is something you hate now.
 

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Congratulations, you've grown up and acquired a critical mind. I hate it too that my tastes are practically never met anymore for television. Fortunately for me, litterature quenches my thirst for wonderment still pretty easily
 

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I suppose I'm just the lucky one. I see all those inconsistencies and so called "plot holes" in pretty much anything. And it never bothers me. But these days it seems like fewer and fewer people know the definition of "suspension of disbelief" and "fiction." Just tell yourself "it's just fiction... it makes logical sense if the AUTHOR SAYS it makes sense." There's actually no such thing as a logical inconsistency or plot hole in fiction, just situations that authors have failed to explain properly. They either eventually will or won't bother. And if they don't bother, it wasn't supposed to be a big deal so don't sweat it.
 

Bertylicious

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Fuck mate, that's harsh. I guess you'll have to get a girlfriend or start getting qualified for a career or something.

If things really start getting desperate you'll need to start excercising regularly and eating balanced meals.
 

Saltyk

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Well, try watching some old episodes of Mystery Science Theater 3000. They watch some of the worst movies you will have ever seen. And mock them. You could also try watching some Riff Tracks (same idea and same people just on movies you own).

Hearing someone mock a movie might just help you through this.
 

Canadamus Prime

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Nope, don't have that problem. I mean I notice inconsistencies, plot holes, and leaps in logic, but I'm still able to enjoy the things. You just got to be able to look past them and enjoy the show. Extend your willing suspension of disbelief.
 

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Keep watching new things until you find something good. Go after things you'd previously written off as boring or pretentious.

This is a natural and healthy part of your development as a human being. It hurts and it sucks but there's nothing to do about it except beat it back. There are good things out there but you're not going to find them in the same things you liked when you were twenty or however old you were when you liked those things. You know them inside and out and a lot of the newer iterations of those selfsame phenomena are just spinning wheels around thematic ground already trod by their predecessors.

Your options are to either never enjoy anything again or start enjoying things while becoming the person everyone else wants to shut up when it comes time to talk about movies because you can't "just turn off your brain".

Find new things. All the new things. Things that are recently released AND things which are new to you. Try more foreign media (like "different language" foreign) that's not aiming for an international market or that looks really pretentious, try The Wire or similar more actively challenging genres. Stop reading fiction for a while and look at some weird nonfiction topics. If you're a fan of American superhero comics, just stop reading them and try some weird european adventure comics ("Valérian and Laureline" is a good start). Try watching some old Film Noir or silent films, look at weird, underdiscussed films from the 1970s. Heck, maybe even go so far as to start looking into new political theories. Read some bell hooks if you haven't before, check out Susan Faludi or Naomi Klein. Try new kinds of music! If you'd previously written off (as I had in my foolish youth) rap and r&b as genres, try some Kanye West or Janelle Monáe; if you've never been much for metal, at least listen to a single Kreator album. Do you have a favourite essayist or spoken word performer? Find one! Are you interested in historical events? If not, find one to be interested in. If so, find that favourite historical event discussed from another angle and spend a while in the middle of the reading critiquing the new argument.

In fact, just find new things and CARVE THEM APART. Reduce them to their component parts and learn to understand them better than you understand the functioning of your own body.

Your brain is asking for engagement, for challenge, for strangeness, for novelty. You can't stop that thought for the same reason you can't just stop eating. You can't just "turn off" your stomach. Your brain craves new stimulus, new patterns, new perspectives. FEED IT.

You have digested all those other things and taken from them what you need. Eating them again in this state will give you nothing new and you'll just be consuming things from which you've already taken the flavour at the best times and eating stuff you've already digested and expelled at worst.

If you want to get out of things and come to a point where those bits of media can become comfort food that you enjoy in spite of their failings, you need to know that they aren't all there is.

They aren't.

Watch Fritz Lang's "Metropolis", some 40s crime films like "Concrete Jungle" or "Double Indemnity" and compare them to what's out now. Look at the creative DNA that's made up modern films and how little they've changed. Check out Twin Peaks (or anything David Lynch has done) and let the experience wash over you and examine the really obvious THUD in the middle of the second season when Lynch stepped away from the project and it becomes just some TV show for a while.

Read books on the creative process and criticism so that you can hone this new compulsion of yours into something incisive and strong and maybe turn it into something else, like a work of fiction or a research project or a play or a book of poetry. Heck, a book of criticism or a blog nobody but you reads! As MovieBob once pointed out, criticism used to be considered an art and that engagement with that art has fallen sorely to the wayside.

What I'm saying is that this period is painful. But it is survivable.

The people who suffer most during it are the incurious, the ones who hold fast to old orthodoxies or the tastes or politics they developed when they were in their teens or early twenties.

Be curious! Be bold in your choices! Try on a new identity of some kind! Try new media! Examine your old tastes and politics and prejudices! No matter how broad you already think your interests are, if you're suffering this kind of despairing frustration, they can be broader still.

You can survive this and once you get going, you might even find it's fun.
 

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I'd say it's just a phase, TC, it will pass. However may I suggest going with the flow and enjoying the nit-picking? I derive no small amount of pleasure from sitting down with my brother on occasion to pick films and tv shows apart and have a laugh at their expense. So get a friend on board and destroy something you love today!