My feelings on Facebook

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DTH1337

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Now, I've only used Facebook for about a couple of years or so, and in the time that I've used it, I've found it to be a very overrated social networking website.

That's my basic feelings of it, but I also have other negative feelings towards the website and some of its features that a lot of people don't seem to talk about or even care about.

First of all, the friends list. Now, I understand why they exist because when you're logged into a website, you want to know if your friends are online and would like to communicate with them (hence the reason you added them as friends). The problem with Facebook's friends list (though this is more down to the user, not Facebook itself) is that many people on it simply use it to gain popularity for themselves, rather than make actual friends. I mean, honestly, why do you add people to your friends list if you're not going to communicate with them? Isn't that the whole point of social networking?

Second, the amount of abusive and sometimes offensive material. I was watching a documentary on BBC Three the other night called The Anti-Social Network, and it basically showed people who had defaced such Facebook pages such as trubute pages, and even wrote threatening messages to people, even if they don't know them. Again, this is to do with the people who use it, but Facbook has an obligation to punish people who do this kind of thing on the site, and yet they continue to do absolutely nothing about some of this offensive content, simply stating that these offensive messages and pictures are in line with freedom of speech and expression. How is making fun of a deceased schoolchild freedom of speech and expression? How is sending threatening messages freedom of speech and expression? If I was to talk to Mark Zuckerberg, I would tell him to stop giving people who do this kind of stuff the power to continue doing this because its offensive, disgraceful and disgusting. I understand freedom of speech and I am proud that we as citizens have this, but there's a difference between the right to freedom of speech and abusing the right of freedom of speech.

And finally, the 'Like' buttons. This might sound strange to many, as well as a petty issue to complain about considering everything else I have written, but I hate these buttons. Everywhere you go on the website, there are 'Like' buttons all over the place. I hate this just as much as I hate the Like/Dislike bars on YouTube because both of them are gimmicky and pointless to have. Why? Because they add nothing at all and quite frankly, they don't even mean anything, so why bother having these buttons? To know how many people like a certain thing? Why not just have the comments decide whether people like somthing or not? Or if you really want to find a way to rate something, how about a simple five star function so people can rate it out of 5 stars? YouTube should do this as well.

Anyway, those are my feelings on this matter, but how about your feelings? Do you feel the same way? Do you disagree? Do you have a different opinion on the matter? Just post your comments in this thread and let me know what you think of Facebook.
 
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Meh, I just treat it like a tool.

I only use it to keep in touch with friends.

Real friends, not twats from school I haven't seen in 7 years.

It's a good tool for organising events and get togethers, and to share things we've found with each other, but other than that, I don't use it for anything else.

I certainly don't share my life story on the damn thing.

"Just had a huge poo LOL"
 

Vault101

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i hardly use it...because if I say somthing dumb (which happens) then its ME saying it..not Vault101...plus my mum can read it all

and no one there really want sot hear me ramble on about Videogames..unlike here
 

Mayhaps

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I'm not sure you fully understand the freedom of speech law, if you want to talk about it I suggest you read up on it first.

About Facebook, I don't use it to communicate with my friends, for that I use skype and my phone. I still have one though, just in case information about projects or whatever we're doing is being shared on a group page there I don't have to be a turd and ask everyone else to change sites.
 

Total LOLige

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I like facebook, it's nice to know what people are up to. I don't add random people in fact I don't add anyone, the way I see it is if someone wants to be friends with me they'll add me.
 

JCD2k4

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I don't use Facebook at all. Never have, never will. I don't have time to waste.
 

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Daystar Clarion said:
Meh, I just treat it like a tool.

I only use it to keep in touch with friends.

Real friends, not twats from school I haven't seen in 7 years.

It's a good tool for organising events and get togethers, and to share things we've found with each other, but other than that, I don't use it for anything else.

I certainly don't share my life story on the damn thing.

"Just had a huge poo LOL"
Pretty much this. I just use it to talk to friends and make bitchy status updates.
 

daveman247

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JCD2k4 said:
I don't use Facebook at all. Never have, never will. I don't have time to waste.
And yet here you are....

:)

OT: Pretty much same as others, its just the natural growth of MSN, and cheaper than using a phone AND can be used to communicate with several people at once.


But yeah, i agree, the "gotta collect them all" mentality of some people is weird. Also people judging you on how you spend your time - yet they spend all day on facebook -_-
 

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Mayhaps said:
I'm not sure you fully understand the freedom of speech law, if you want to talk about it I suggest you read up on it first.

About Facebook, I don't use it to communicate with my friends, for that I use skype and my phone. I still have one though, just in case information about projects or whatever we're doing is being shared on a group page there I don't have to be a turd and ask everyone else to change sites.
keep in mind it will be a little different depending on where you are from.
 

Colour Scientist

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Daystar Clarion said:
"Just had a huge poo LOL"
Colour-Scientist likes this.

Gross. Anyway...

OP: I like Facebook, there's no need to be such a grouch. Besides, how else are you supposed to perve on people you don't know?
 

Rylingo

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Terrible layout.
Filled with spam.
Borderline attrocious chat function.

I only use it because all my friends are on it. Its basically an email website for me.
 

Lucem712

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Eh, I use it to keep in touch with mates and spam their walls with videos and silly things. I know I've been spending too much time here when I see a status update and want to have a serious discussion; while knowing deep inside, it was probably a hypothetical question.

"Why does everyone hhaaaaaaaaaate me"
- Jane Doe

"...Cos you're a *****, here's the reasons why...." [SEND]
 

Xenowolf

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I just use it for contacting people (and occasionly posting links or replying to Facebook comments on Escapist articles), but what with Facebook's complete disrespect for user privacy (i.e. using cookies to track the browser history of its users), I have seiously been considering deleting my account on it lately.

DTH1337 said:
Or if you really want to find a way to rate something, how about a simple five star function so people can rate it out of 5 stars? YouTube should do this as well.
YouTube actually used to allow users to rate videos out of 5 back when it sucked less, but they removed feature as because people started rating all videos either 5 stars or 1 star.
 

Palademon

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I use it to keep in touch with friends.

Funny story though. I made my acocunt at first without telling anyone and within five minutes of doing so I received friend requests from people who hate me.

Once some asshole from my school was insulting me on a friends status because they could because my friend had them as a friend. When I asked my friend why they added them and why don't they take them off their list, they told me to "Ignore him, all he wants is attention". That's what you're giving him by adding him!

But once you avoid that it's fine.

Like buttons are ok though. Sometimes I wish there was a like button here, so I could show someone what I think without being the 15th person to quote them and since it would remove that feeling from others' minds you'd get a true figure of the support. Every post would be like a poll. But that of course would be bad since it would cut down on discussion.
 

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Xenowolf said:
I just use it for contacting people (and occasionly posting links or replying to Facebook comments on Escapist articles), but what with Facebook's complete disrespect for user privacy (i.e. using cookies to track the browser history of its users), I have seiously been considering deleting my account on it lately.
Good luck with that. :-/ They make you jump through hoops to deactivate your account, then you have to wait two weeks to actually have them delete it.. and then, sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. It's a nightmare.

So I've heard from friends who tried to stop using it.

I don't use it and never have. I am far too paranoid to get involved with all that mess.
 

CommanderL

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I use it to talk to family and stuff it beats all the unpleastrys of meeting them face to face and if they start to piss me of i can shut it down plus my phones have a habit of dying so i use it as a means stay in touch with people
 

anthony87

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I like it. It's handy for keeping in touch with everyone at once and pretty much everything else that others have mentioned.

Now as for TWITTER on facebook.....sweet jesus. I know Twitter is more to blame but for fuck sake, why are people so....I dunno, vain? Obsessive? What's the fucking need to post to twitter between four and six different times in the space of an hour?

"Morning"

"Still Tired"

"Ugh work"

"Yum breakfast"

And other nonsensical shit posted ad nauseum every hour of every day. And those cunting hashtags! WHAT DO THOSE EVEN MEAN????????

..............

Sorry....I kinda got into a little thing there.

OT: Yeah...Facebook is alright.