ZAch055 said:
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If its made legal for women to be topless then naturally laws regarding people looking at them would be overturned.
perhaps, but then there's a lot of controversy that'd surround that. they'd be over-turned but that'd leave girls aged 16 more vulnerable to older men who are essentially pedophiles because those girls would be barely legal. It's considered extremely creepy for a significantly older guy to, say, look at a 16 year old's cleavage when she's wearing a low cut top. It'd only be made worse for girls who chose to go topless because now these men would be able to see what they were imagining. A woman's breasts are considered a sexual thing, so it's likely to turn on a fair few men if a good looking woman is wandering around topless.
Zildjin81 said:
Dahni said:
It would distract guys FAR TOO MUCH. If I was in a park or somewhere like that with a guy I was dating, I don't want his attention to be split between the various women bounding around with their tits out & none of it directed towards me unless i punch him in the gut and put a pair of blinders on him.
See, this goes both ways, it's no fun to be at the beach/pool with your girlfriend when she's ogling the topless guys the whole time.
Indeed it does, however, girls aren't quite as mesmerized by it as men seem to be. I can quite easily be in a public place, see a guy with his top off and think "oh, he's quite nice" while still keeping most of my attention on the ongoing conversation. Guys are more noticeably distracted so it's more obvious when you've lost their attention. That's not to say all guys would be significantly distracted, but the vast majority would be.
+ guys seem to be more likely to vocalise it. If I was with my imaginary boyfriend, I won't point out that a guy is hot because that'd shoot his fragile ego down. Whereas, if he noticed a hot girl, if my past boyfriends are anything to go by, he'd either show physical signs that his attention has wandered or he'd struggle to contain himself and feel the need to tell me the girl he just saw was hot.