So I met a girl about 5 months ago and we started dating. We got really serious real fast and it hasn't been sunshine and rainbows even in the beginning we already had some issues mainly with her insecurities. She still talked to her ex-boyfriend that would text her and ask for naked pictures and she still had feelings for him and got mad at me when I would get uncomfortable about her texting him all the time when we're out on dates and stuff.
That was a long painful process that I dealt with for the first two months and even read the same thing happening to people on this very same forum while it was going on. But she finally got better and moved on with all of that mess but still part of me has had a deep mistrust towards her now after in the beginning she said we need to be honest with each other and I have been and finding out months after we've been dating about the lies she told me the whole time which was incredibly hypocritical.
The issue I have is that I allowed myself to be blinded by the thought of loneliness and not finding another girl to love me so I put all my chips into this relationship and I'm pretty sure I've lost pretty much everything. I moved out of my parents house(I'm 22) with her recently only after five months of dating which is early as hell and now I find myself going insane. It's not the normal stuff I've read about with just little issues like hygiene or living habits but her personality.
She's been starting to control me and guilt tripping me into doing everything. I work a full time job and she wanted a stupid little dog to keep her company at home but accepts no responsibility for the thing. I'm always walking it and picking up it's crap after work when I'm tired even though she has the whole day. I've told her this and she gets whiny like a toddler. But I'm always taking the garbage out and lately she's been lazy and doesn't even do the laundry when I do the dishes every night despite hardly using any of the dishes. She works a full time job too but still feels like I'm doing every chore. I have spoke my mind to her and we get mad at each other and the next day I'll still be in a bad mood and she'll be all happy and nice to me.
I can't go on my computer at night without her throwing a fit that I never spend time with her when most of the time she just wants me to watch stupid shows on netflix with her all the time. But I do that more then get alone time on my computer. But now that I have these serious thoughts of ending it. I've put myself in a bind since I moved in with her and everything. So I'm really just asking what everyone really thinks what I should do or if I'm just being selfish or what.
That was a long painful process that I dealt with for the first two months and even read the same thing happening to people on this very same forum while it was going on. But she finally got better and moved on with all of that mess but still part of me has had a deep mistrust towards her now after in the beginning she said we need to be honest with each other and I have been and finding out months after we've been dating about the lies she told me the whole time which was incredibly hypocritical.
The issue I have is that I allowed myself to be blinded by the thought of loneliness and not finding another girl to love me so I put all my chips into this relationship and I'm pretty sure I've lost pretty much everything. I moved out of my parents house(I'm 22) with her recently only after five months of dating which is early as hell and now I find myself going insane. It's not the normal stuff I've read about with just little issues like hygiene or living habits but her personality.
She's been starting to control me and guilt tripping me into doing everything. I work a full time job and she wanted a stupid little dog to keep her company at home but accepts no responsibility for the thing. I'm always walking it and picking up it's crap after work when I'm tired even though she has the whole day. I've told her this and she gets whiny like a toddler. But I'm always taking the garbage out and lately she's been lazy and doesn't even do the laundry when I do the dishes every night despite hardly using any of the dishes. She works a full time job too but still feels like I'm doing every chore. I have spoke my mind to her and we get mad at each other and the next day I'll still be in a bad mood and she'll be all happy and nice to me.
I can't go on my computer at night without her throwing a fit that I never spend time with her when most of the time she just wants me to watch stupid shows on netflix with her all the time. But I do that more then get alone time on my computer. But now that I have these serious thoughts of ending it. I've put myself in a bind since I moved in with her and everything. So I'm really just asking what everyone really thinks what I should do or if I'm just being selfish or what.
