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SladeJT

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I apparently appear very child-like. I understand this because I have very long hair, small stature, and I generally wear slightly baggy casual clothes that cover everything but my neck, head, and hands. My voice does not help much, because when talking to people in any area but a home or on campus, my voice takes on a higher pitch and (to my ears, at least) sounds like that of a child. And then there's the fact that I was born premature, further explaining my small size and youthful face.

This is both a blessing and a curse because, as I am polite and always call people I talk to "sir" or "ma'am", they think me to be at least 4 years younger. I am often called "child", "honey", "sweetie", "darling" and worst of all "baby". I normally do not mind, because I understand, but it irritates the HELL out of me when someone does it on campus. Worse still is some older man (by at least a decade) hits on me! It has actually happened once when I was in high-school. Although it's sort-of okay for me to attract the attention of men now, I still look like a child and I fear men who are interested in me for my appearance.

The first time I was hit on by anyone not around my age, but I was paranoid that they were pranking me, due to a life-time of being mocked for my appearance...

It was in a Gameworks in Las Vegas. I was wearing a light tan shirt a friend of mine gave me for my birthday and seated at Initial D, a racing game which was the first I really interested in because it gave cards to new players which would allow them to record their car and progress. I was floundering a bit because I was driving alongside a cliff. Twisty path, that. Well, a complete and utter stranger walked up to me and you'll never guess what he said (and if you can, you're as bad as him).

"Nice tits."

It was very blunt and, as I looked down at my small chest, I discovered that cool air and gravity made my nipples slightly pronounced dispite the cloth's completely non-opacity. I blushed and looked away.

The guy began to offer me driving tips to improve my game (which was failing further because of his presence). I declined politely. He offered to buy me some extra time for my game card. I said no and told him that my mom got me a day-pass. He then offered to get me something to drink from the snack stand. I declined again and then, as my game had ended, claimed that I could hear my brother calling for me. I got up and casually started to walk away. Once I assumed I was at a decent distance and blocked by enough people, I ran away from the man I was convinced was a pervert from the moment he said "nice tits". I quickly found my brother at the section with the DDR machines, the DDR knockoff, and what is best described as the predecessor to Guitar Hero, where I quickly relayed the what had happened and stuck near him until our parents returned.



Has anything like the story I had built up to telling happened to any of you? Has someone obviously much older than you ever hit on you? What did you do?

Also, if you have not experienced that, do you think there was anything else I could had done?
 

PedroSteckecilo

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I'm a guy, and a nerdy one, so it's not an issue for me... though when I grew a beard people kept commenting that it finally made me look my age. I've got a real baby face.

Overall though it sounds like you made the smart call, creeps like that deserve a good solid kick to the solarplex.
 

ZeroMachine

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I haven't ever experienced anything like that (I'm a guy, and so far the two girls that have shown serious interest in me are younger) but I can say with 100% certainty that you did the right thing. He didn't do anything enough for you to do anything in a legal matter, so simply staying away from the guy and near someone you trust was the best possible thing for you to do.

Good call =)
 

SladeJT

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Fightgarr said:
Cougars? Anyone?
*chuckles* Too harsh, but if that guy did manage to get a girl that was the age he assumed I was... Or even one at the age I really was.

TheNecroswanson said:
I really don't know what to tell you.
I used to look like a lady, I used to look younger then I am, but after high school that went kind of to hell. Enjoy your youthful look I say, because when you get older, and certainly start looking it, you'll wish you still looked younger, for one reason or another.
As for the twat that made the comment, well, first thing you should have done was call some sort of security for sexual harassment. But as Pedro said, creeps exist, and they deserve a kick to the solarplex, or at least a lobotomy. There isn't much you could really have done save for alerting security, or getting the hell away from him.
I'm almost 20 and I still look like a little kid. Like I said "blessing and curse". My mom used to frequently tell me that I should enjoy it while I can, both my appearance and the fact that I can eat any amount while remaining roughly late 80 early 90 pounds (hence the slightly baggy clothes to hide how thin I am, as I used to be mocked for my arms alone). The fact that a lot of girls want to be my weight confuses me, as I get pushed around easily by the wind and have trouble when standing up in public transportation.

Kick to the nuts is deserving if the guy just TOUCHED an underage girl after saying all that stuff. And have Security lock him up / toss him out.

ZeroMachine said:
I haven't ever experienced anything like that (I'm a guy, and so far the two girls that have shown serious interest in me are younger) but I can say with 100% certainty that you did the right thing. He didn't do anything enough for you to do anything in a legal matter, so simply staying away from the guy and near someone you trust was the best possible thing for you to do.

Good call =)
Mixed blessing, I guess...

And great!

PedroSteckecilo said:
I'm a guy, and a nerdy one, so it's not an issue for me... though when I grew a beard people kept commenting that it finally made me look my age. I've got a real baby face.

Overall though it sounds like you made the smart call, creeps like that deserve a good solid kick to the solarplex.
You sound like my brother, except he's really shaggy now.

And yeah, but momentary pain would not be enough, really.
 

Iolair

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Older guys aren't the problem.

"Nice tits" is.

It's hard to know what to do. Usually, not giving guys like that a reaction is a good way to solve it. I agree that calling security is probably the best way to do it. Cut him off before he can do that to someone else.
 

PedroSteckecilo

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lolair makes a good point...

Creeps exist... they tend to be creeps no matter what you look like or what age you are...

I've met a couple, from Creepy McThin to Jabba The Creep, they are rarely plesant people even if they aren't hitting on you.
 

SladeJT

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Iolair said:
Older guys aren't the problem.

"Nice tits" is.

It's hard to know what to do. Usually, not giving guys like that a reaction is a good way to solve it. I agree that calling security is probably the best way to do it. Cut him off before he can do that to someone else.
I probably asked the wrong sort of question, but I suppose you could chalk it up to an assumption that pedophiles are usually older by at least ten years.

PedroSteckecilo said:
lolair makes a good point...

Creeps exist... they tend to be creeps no matter what you look like or what age you are...

I've met a couple, from Creepy McThin to Jabba The Creep, they are rarely plesant people even if they aren't hitting on you.
Very true. And... I've only encountered Creepy McThins. Jabba the Creep I have only met when they were bullies.
 

Ursus Astrorum

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Oddly enough, yes. I had a girl around 17 sincerely interested in going out with me when I was 12. Having been an only child in a fairly mature neighborhood for quite some time, it really confused me at that point, especially with a five year difference between us. Though she was a good friend of mine and a nice girl, as opposed to Goodjugs McPervy in your case. I just went with my gut feeling and politely declined, calmly explaining that I felt I was too young at the time. She seemed to take it well, and we were still friends until I moved to another city.


Honestly, I don't regret it, as something tells me that it would've ended badly at some point or another, particularly on my end.
 

ElephantGuts

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All I know is if someone tries to start a conversation with you by saying "Nice tits" you should definetely stay away from them. Or better yet tell them to stay the hell away from you. They're not even worth you expending the energy to walk away from them.
 

electric discordian

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Not quite the same but I am 31 now and bald, which must at a glance make me look fourty especially when Im wearing a 70's band Tshirt. There are times when I accompany a mates girlfriend/fiance to a gig and am usually assumed to be her dad despite the fact that I would have had to have been 11 when I had most of them!

The worst one being "Is that your daughter or your girlfriend?" Now the assumption was that if shes old enough to be one she should be fine as the other is a little offensive to me I must look like a kiddy fiddler and no mistake.

Back on topic creeps exist and I have once been mistaken as one for holding a door open for a young lady! But seriously anyone who says nice tits deserves to be neutered!
 

barryween

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You did probably the best thing you could have done. I would have used my awsome He-Man strength to rip him apart for you, if I was there :p.....
WAIT! That came out wrong! I didnt mean it to sound like I was hittin.....OH! NEVERMIND!

No, but seriously, that's what I would have done.
P.S: Your avatar has Nice Tits.XP
 

mattttherman3

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Well, I don't know if he hit on me persay, but he molested me at age 3 so yeah you gotta watch out for the pervs out there. Honestly though, saying "Nice Tits" is a bad way to hit on someone unless you've been dating for a while.
 

Cousin_IT

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...was almost anticipating the story to become softcore literary porn by 1/2 way. Thankfully that wasnt the case at all. As for question. No, though I remember once at a new year party was with a couple other guys, one of which cant have been a day over 16, who was promptly advanced on & given the convosation topic of the finer points of fellatio by a drunk 29year old friend of a friend. That was one conversation that I would rather not have been within earshot for :-D

However, with some variables aside, if a girl came up to me n offered advice on playing a game then invited me for a drink; id be hard pushed to decline :-D. Wouldnt know what to make of it if they said Nice Tits as an icebreaker though
 

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SladeJT said:
I apparently appear very child-like. I understand this because I have very long hair, small stature, and I generally wear slightly baggy casual clothes that cover everything but my neck, head, and hands. My voice does not help much, because when talking to people in any area but a home or on campus, my voice takes on a higher pitch and (to my ears, at least) sounds like that of a child. And then there's the fact that I was born premature, further explaining my small size and youthful face.
Do to the way you look you may have to deal with the idea that a man that finds you attractive is attracted by the fact that you look like a schoolgirl. It is a male fantasy. Its just a fact. I really hope you find someone that is into you for your personality but that will be up to you to figure out.

As for Mr. "Nice Tits", yeah, he just needs to be junk punched.