To my UK friends: don't lump all us americans together.

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ace_of_something

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I?ve visited our friends (mates) across the pond. Three times now, once as a child, once as an adult, once a teenager. I lived with a host family as a Catholic exchange program thing.
FYI: I was snogging frequently with their oldest daughter who was a few years older than me. Win!
You kind of lump us all together: It seems that most in the UK think the USA has two cultures
?The South?: Which is anyone raised in a small town or rural community regardless of geography.
Or
?Yanks? which is pretty much everyone else.

I am from the Midwest. I speak ?Newscaster American.? I spent a great deal of my youth growing up on Ranch (not a farm they?re different!) and when I was hanging out with some London youths when I was 15. They were completely baffled by the fact that I didn?t speak with a ?southern American accent? even though I grew up on a ranch. when they began describing what they meant by that they actually described people/imitated a Texas accent? which isn?t the same anyway.
I was actually, pretty offended by them than presuming I was a hayseed bumpkin who was ignorant, conservative, bible-thumper who rode a horse to school and grew up near a swamp. They also assumed that I was ignorant with the ways of the world as a whole. Ironic: considering I was the one in a foreign country. When correcting them in this matter some admitted a limited knowledge of American culture and grew from the experience. Others just hand waved it and said ?it?s all the same?
If you don?t get how this was upsetting about the fact I?m using an example from Londoners to lump all people in England together?
No? How about the fact that I insinuated that the UK and England are the same thing?
See how that feels?

Obviously, my knowledge of UK accents is very poor compared to the average UK citizen but at least I'll admit that ignorance. I was hand waved as being 'wrong' about my own country.

2nd point: While I mention accents.
I am sick and tired of being told that UK English (specifically British English) is ?correct?. Here?s the thing. English colonies in America were founded several hundred years ago. How close to the English that was spoken than do you think we Americans speak now? Not very. True enough.
Well what about you Brits? How close of English do you speak to that which was spoken 300+ years ago?
Yeah same story. Oh sure your accent may be closer but you have just as many spelling, colloquialisms, and sentence structure changes as we do.
They are two different dialects of the same language one is not more ?correct? than the other. If you guys start speaking like you did in the 1700?s or 1600?s you may start claiming ?correct? or ?proper? status. Until that day, yours is just as mangled as ours.

Certainly everyone here has felt the sting of people making presumptions about them. In various ways. It?s especially bad here on the net. I extend my surly olive branch now. Let's try not to color each other based on natonalistic opinions.

EDIT: I in no way am claiming Americans don't do this. They do the Hell out of it. I'm also aware of all the irony in this entire post. Don't bother pointing it out


edit: [a href=http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AmericanAccents]TV Tropes[/a] Actually has the best list of American accents I have ever found. Go figure.
 

Labyrinth

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Gross stereotyping of any national culture is a foot in the face of common (or uncommon) sense. It happens to every country too. Speaking as a New Zealand and Australian citizen I'm either someone with an unusual interest in sheep or a thong (flip-flop for the Americans) wearing, kangaroo-riding, crocodile-wrestling outback badass to whom Paul Hogan is God and God is someone to curse for the flies.

The thing is stereotypes can be hellishly amusing when used in comedy, because within that framework they can be viewed as a deliberate fiction rather than a true representation. Outside of it they're kind of silly.
 

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ace_of_something said:
2nd point: While I mention accents.
I am sick and tired of being told that UK English (specifically British English) is ?correct?. Here?s the thing.
My favourite is always Aluminum, the Roast Beef claim the US are wrong and it should be spelt "Aluminum" in accordance with the other metals...

Just like the worlds 3rd hardest substance, Platinium.

OT Stereotypes are fun sometimes.
 

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OT:Sterotyping is natural, look how americans pertray the english in tv shows; We most of the time presented as upper class pricks with bad teeth.

By he way did you go back in time you where and adult then a teenager.
 

ace_of_something

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I forgot to mention that in visiting other european countries and china. I was not met with nearly the same amount of assumptions as I was with the UK. Maybe it's because american TV is translated into their native tongue so some of the social values are lost. I really don't know.

Labyrinth said:
Gross stereotyping of any national culture is a foot in the face of common (or uncommon) sense. It happens to every country too. Speaking as a New Zealand and Australian citizen I'm either someone with an unusual interest in sheep or a thong (flip-flop for the Americans) wearing, kangaroo-riding, crocodile-wrestling outback badass to whom Paul Hogan is God and God is someone to curse for the flies.
I think the assumption that is fast growing in at least my part of the US is that Australia is filled with rugged handsome Actors who enjoy fistfights.
 

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Furburt said:
Still, it's basic human nature. If there's a country, thousands of miles away from you, unless you're very interested, you aren't going to know much about their country except for a few basic archetypes. When this becomes a problem, is when you start treating people differently because of it.
Its a neighbourly thing too, the English rib on Scots/welsh and Irish, the Yanks (ho ho, generalisation!) rib the Canadians and in France its a legal requirement to take the piss out of the Belgiums.
 

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The amount of shit I got in America for being Irish, every single person thought it was funny to mention wife-beating.
What, seriously? That's insane. Where exactly was this? Were you in the Northeast? 'Cause I hear those guys can be assholes.
 

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To my American friends: don't lump us Brits all together.

Austin Powers is not a good representation however much I wish it was.
 

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I've had a few instances of stereotyping too, it goes in all directions, and you can't say you don't do it too, occasionally.

Obviously it depends on circumstance, and mass stereotyping i.e. "wife beater" for irish or "posh guy" for british or "southern retard" for americans is not very fair on anyone. But a tiny bit doesn't hurt all that much, if it is done with care
 

ace_of_something

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Furburt said:
Well, I've never really stereotyped Americans (apart from some good natured ribbing), so I guess I'm exempt. However, you can't deny that Americans do it to. The amount of shit I got in America for being Irish, every single person thought it was funny to mention wife-beating. I don't exactly know why, but for some reason, everyone I met in America who I didn't know seemed to be under the impression that all Irish were brain-dead, bigoted drunks, and treated me as such. This wasn't in the middle of nowhere either, this was in Seattle. So, Americans can't be completely absolved.
A lot of these stereotypes are layovers from the million or so people that immigrated during the patato famine in 1845. Another reason is that so many people in the US (especially the eastern parts) have at least 'some irish' in them the Irish have become something of an Acceptable Targets in our culture (again more on the East Coast). In the midwest there are more jokes about being German tossed around for example.

edit: I just read your previous post about being in Washington. That area as well as Chicago also has a high irish-decended population.
 

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Labyrinth said:
Gross stereotyping of any national culture is a foot in the face of common (or uncommon) sense. It happens to every country too. Speaking as a New Zealand and Australian citizen I'm either someone with an unusual interest in sheep or a thong (flip-flop for the Americans) wearing, kangaroo-riding, crocodile-wrestling outback badass to whom Paul Hogan is God and God is someone to curse for the flies.

The thing is stereotypes can be hellishly amusing when used in comedy, because within that framework they can be viewed as a deliberate fiction rather than a true representation. Outside of it they're kind of silly.
Now that is a word where mixing it up as a result of different cultures can be really, really embaressing. It'd be like walking through a mall with an Australian friend and seeing a girl who has her thong (american usage) showing. You tell your friend to check out her thong and immediately he starts to wonder if you have a foot fetish.

OT: The US is so culturally diverse that to say "everyone from [part of country] talks the same would be completely untrue. An example of this would be when I was at Wal-Mart (In North Carolina) and as I'm talking to a friend who works there in my northern accent we hear some guy talking in spanish (2 ways of speaking so far) and some lady talking who sounds like she's from New York City (3 ways of speaking); myself having been born in western New York and we sound quite different. The next lady at the checkout counter talks to her son in what I hear as an Eastern European accent. Sure enough I ask and she's from Bulgaria (4 ways of speaking). Point of all this being her in America you can't stereotype the country, there's just too many of us from too many different places.
 

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Labyrinth said:
Gross stereotyping of any national culture is a foot in the face of common (or uncommon) sense. It happens to every country too. Speaking as a New Zealand and Australian citizen I'm either someone with an unusual interest in sheep or a thong (flip-flop for the Americans) wearing, kangaroo-riding, crocodile-wrestling outback badass to whom Paul Hogan is God and God is someone to curse for the flies.

The thing is stereotypes can be hellishly amusing when used in comedy, because within that framework they can be viewed as a deliberate fiction rather than a true representation. Outside of it they're kind of silly.
Wait a tic... You mean not all Australians are like that?!

Dear God... the end is truly nigh.
 

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Yeah, there's actually more like five to seven groups to lump us Americans into.

But seriously, humans have to organize stuff into catagories in order to keep our brains from overloading. It's an adaptation. Stereotypes are not ideal, but will always exist. (I'm a Yank, by the way.)

Just don't think that the Americans you've seen in the news lately represent the country. You know the ones I'm talking about. Most of us are not that stupid.
 

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In my eyes, everyone is ignorant of accent changes in any other country.

I myself am English and I wouldn't be able to differentiate American accents even though I have friends from about 20 states.

You could probably go up to (almost) anyone and ask them what a (for example) French accent, you'll likely get either the "ah, oui Monsieur" or the "Aw haw haww" (I call it the French Elvis) even though there are the however many dialects of French depending on where you go in the country.

It's all a matter of what stereotypes you've learnt about each country.

A lot of people can tell you the British stereotype is either Posh, James Bond, Star Wars villain/General film villain accent, or my personal favourite, The Farmer "Ooh Ahh", the Wurzels, "We all drive tractors accent"

On your "British English" yeah, most of us (well me) are more annoyed of the spelling and some of the pronunciation.
For example:-
Colour, not color
Aluminium (Al-oo-min-e-um) not (Al-oo-min-um)... okay, not much difference in those two.. but, you know, my point still stands

If any of this doesn't make sense or I've botched the explanation I'll be happy to try again
 

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Furburt said:
Aidinthel said:
Furburt said:
The amount of shit I got in America for being Irish, every single person thought it was funny to mention wife-beating.
What, seriously? Where exactly was this? Were you in the Northeast? 'Cause I hear those guys can be assholes.
Seattle, and a bit of Washington state in general. I think it was about 2005.
Yeah, everyone around here tends to think they're funny. Also we're assholes.
 

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ace_of_something said:
I forgot to mention that in visiting other european countries and china. I was not met with nearly the same amount of assumptions as I was with the UK. Maybe it's because american TV is translated into their native tongue so some of the social values are lost. I really don't know.
If you went to Germany that is correct, they do translate the Tv-shows, almost every other country in europe though, not so much. It seems to me that you are "lumping all us europeans together"

Just saying.