What attracts you to someone?

[Safe in the Dark]

I'm just curious,personally I like smarter shyer girls,preferably brown or blonde,but thats just me.What attracts you to a person and why?

 

[delet]

Too many factors to list. Lets just say a nice girl with a nice personality.

 

[IxionIndustries]

Any girl who will talk to me for more than 10 seconds?

Although, if you want to get specific..
I really like girls who can draw. Not sure why, but I'll pin the reasons down eventually. Girls who game (Of course), girls who can sew, and like to wear costumes, and girls with glasses.

The rest of it is generally personality based; I wont accept crazies, and I wont tolerate the typical "Angry *****" kind either.

 

[PTSpyder]

That she is attractive. But of course, what is attractive varies from individual to indivdual.

 

[Marter]

Personality is the biggest factor.

 

[child of lileth]

I know most people lie when they say it, but personality really is the biggest thing for me. If I don't like their personality, there's no way I'd want to spend that much time around them.

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

Personality is the biggest factor.

Ninja'd, as always

The body doesn't hurt but what it most comes down to is personality compatibility. If we don't mix well psychologically, what is the point of mixing well physically if neither of us want to live together?

 

[Sleekgiant]

For me its usually to hard to explain exactly why I find the individual attractive but for the sake of the thread its a combination of looks personality and having similar interests; cliched but it works for me.

 

[Swarley]

Booooooooobs.

 

[IzisviAziria]

I can look a great ass and say, "damn that's a nice ass". I can look at a sweet rack and be like, "damn them some nice titties."

But in no way to I find either of those attractive. I like a cute girl, a girl who won't just give it up to whatever guy she's going out with. A girl I can connect to, a girl I can trust, and a girl that trusts me.

I'm like, the only guy I know that wouldn't have sex with Jessica Alba, given the opportunity. Then again, I'm like, the only guy I know who wouldn't have casual sex, given the opportunity.

 

[InconceivableTruth]

Whenever I'm attracted to a girl, I become repulsed and start thinking of the disgusting aspect of being human.

Then my mind becomes chaotic jumping back and forth from bonobos, chimpanzees, humans, and etc. I'm attracted towards what ordinary people consider attractive, but I feel so ashamed and disgusted afterwards that I start hating being human.

 

[Active Schizophrenic]

Booooooooobs.

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

 

[tombman888]

I look for someone who has the same interests as me, who isn't afraid to speak her mind to anyone, and has a bright sparkling attitude. that's how i found my current girlfriend.

 

[unoleian]

There are too many factors that play into what makes someone compelling. It's not in the looks, it's not in the personality, it's not in the humor, it's not in the fashion, or anything that can be nailed down to anything concrete. But yet, in all that is ultimately confusing and nonsensical, it's also still in all of the above. But that doesn't mean I can find someone attractive just because they fulfill some sort of checklist.

An attraction is a mutable, flexible thing.

 

[RobfromtheGulag]

The inherent urge to propagate the species.

 

[Active Schizophrenic]

well i am attracted to someone who has an intelligence level higher than a grapefruit with relatively good looks but not like megan fox hot because i know those girls wouldnt talk to me and would leave the second i say "havoc physics"

 

[wildwind1290]

Personality, and a nice face. I can read people by their face and if they have a nice face, they're a nice person. Don't ask me how it works, it just does.

Also, a major plus for me is if I can yell the Catch Phrase of a certain paragon of masculinity and a girl instantly knows what I'm talking about.

 

[Fuloqwam]

Freckles. I got a thing for them.