My starting point for gaming was the Commodore 64 (with lots and lots of pirated games, because that is how thing were back then...), but aside from my siblings and cousin, I didn't have anyone to play with or talk to until the late 32/64-bit days. I did read magazines, though.
And then I got an internet connection. Suddenly there were all sorts of other games to talk to. Messsage boards were a thing of course, but does anyone remember Pok?mon Battle Simulator? It's how we played Pok?mon against people who weren't within a link cable's distance. Incredibly slow but oh so fun.
Anyway, message boards/forums were are mixed bag. There are some I still visit (occasionally), but the others fell into one of these categories:
Fandom I grew out of
Which is something that happens, no problems there.
Shitty community
So many communities are bad in one way or another. Some only survive because there are a few active posters who fill most of the boards themselves, some revolve around childish arguments and feuds between members (you know, basic internet drama), others were downright toxic. Like, they'd notice I'm female and ask for pictures and got all upset if I didn't want to post any, claiming I must be a fat ugly whore.
Community constantly attracting/housing people that were just batshit insane
Google Tedius Zanarukando if you want an example.
Dead
Sometimes, during you adventures on the old internet, you stumble upon the corpse of a message board. Circle of life, blablabla.
From 2006 or so onward, I started taking a more active rol within online communities within my own country. Managing forums, writing for websites and eventually magazines. Right now, I'm comfortably high up on the food chain, both online and offline. ... Which comes with its own problems. For instance, how would you handle a mentally disabled person who wants to be part of the community, but does not have to mental capacity to interact with most of the other members, and breaks rules all the time because he doesn't understand them all that well? Though... I guess I'm lucky, as I haven't seen anything as bad a threats of suicide and things like that...
The above is one of the reasons I still visit foreign/international forums. Here I can be anonymous and enjoy the discussions without worrying about mod/admin/CM responsibilities
Oh, and as for consoles, since the 32/64-bit days, I've have atleast two differencent consoles from each generation, and I tend to buy both Nintendo's and Sony's handheld systems. I've been getting into PC gaming again since Steam is just so convenient, but my system is an insult to PC gaming and I take pride in that, because if I'm going to be a contrarian, I'd better be one in the most harmless way possible.