Yeah so recently i had some trouble with a girl, nothing major major but it really pissed me off, and it made me think: Other people have problems with girls all the time! And to any girls reading this, no im not sexist, i just happen to be a guy who happened to have a problem with a girl, no hating going on here XD
My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with just about everyone, then when we split up trying to come out smelling of roses she told people that I 'attacked' her.
My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with just about everyone, then when we split up trying to come out smelling of roses she told people that I 'attacked' her.
Man that sucks, I dated a girl who did something similar. After I ended the relationship she went around and told everyone that I forced myself on her and some of my friends believed her. In fact one of my best friends dated her for a few months, discovered how bat-shite crazy she was and broke up with her. She, in turn, claimed that he forced himself on her as well, but by this time I had convinced all my friends that she was indeed crazy and we all moved on.
Still though it is one of those things that I worry about in my current relationship. Last I heard she is currently a single-mom with one kid a no job, barely making it through college, soo...Karma?
my first girlfriend we dated for 6 months and she cheated on me at my buddies going away party she said she liked the way i changed since we broke up and wanted to get back together i told her to kindly fuck off she started crying and telling everyone i was abusive but nobody believed her and now everyone calls her crazy *****
2nd girlfriend we dated for nine months and we broke up because niether of us had time for a realationship and we would get back together when we had time 3 weeks later she gets a new boyfriend her boyfriend cheats on her then tries to get me to fall back in love with her and i tell her no and she tells me she cheated on me while we were dating and she never wanted to talk to me again
im seriously think about turning gay because all the girls in my area seem like cheating sluts
Well, here we go... I dated a girl for about 6 months before we found out she was pregnant, and I was about to deploy to the most dangerous city in Iraq at the time. She was determined to keep the child (I was in agreement with her, our families were not), so we got married the weekend before I deployed so that she could get military medical benefits during her pregnancy and my child would get my life insurance should I perish overseas. So after coming home to a fat wife and screaming child after being in combat for 7 months we set out on trying to make this new life work for us. Two years later we're in New York and she decides she can't be with me anymore and takes my son and moves to Maryland. I go down to Maryland and reconcile with her and we stay together up until this past September when she does the "I can't be with you anymore" bit again. So now I've put just about all of my meager assets into making this relationship work and I end up presently stuck in Maryland with 2 bags of clothes, 2 guns, my TV, and my computer... so yes, I've had my share of girl troubles.
EDIT:
Swollen Goat said:
I love these threads, because I usually win. My ex-wife racked up about $30,000 in credit card debt, trashed our home, cheated on me and then left.
Wow, I might actually beat you when my divorce goes through. During my deployment after I got married my wife spent $20,000 of the $25,000 of my overseas pay... money that was supposed to go towards buying a house, and instead she ate out for at least 2 meals a day for 7 months. Also when we separated I had to pay for a new apartment instead of my car payment which resulted in repossession of which I still owe $8000 on that loan.
My ex called the police on me immediately after we broke up because she claimed I was stalking her. After that her best friend felt sorry for me and started talking to me and my ex broke off their 8 eight year friendship because her friend "betrayed" her by talking to me.
My second girlfriend had something deeply... deeply wrong with her.
She was fine till we started dating. At first it was normal girl stuff. Slowly she started to become crazy.
First off, shes a veggie. I'm cool with that, and at first she told me she was cool with that i wasn't.
Then she stopped spending any time with me if i ate meat at all that day.
Then she started to mope all the time. I would ask her whats wrong and she would say nothing. As soon as i got home she would then berate me on MSN for an hour and a half about all the horrible things i did that day. This would happen every second day.
She was telling her old friends i was mistreating her and belittling her. Essentially accusing me of emotional abuse. I learned about this because it was brought up at one of her slumber parties and one of my friends was there and she didn't like shit being told about me.
I broke up with her.
I then later learned she was was spying on all my friends. She was looking up each of there names on Google and reading every last bit of information about them thinking i might have been cheating on her. She even started e-stalking my new girlfriend.
In the mean time she was either telling people she broke up with me because she found out i was cheating on people. She told people i had forced her to have sex with me(I lost my virginity to my current fiance by the way) She even told a few people i beat her.
She told me that if i agreed to go out with her again she would stop spreading rumors. Thank god my friends aren't retarded...
It's alright though, all her crap was disproved... after I ended up in the principles office with a police officer. She was forced to apologize to me in front of the school for spreading rape and assault rumors about me.
She STILL stalks my fiancee according to my friends who still hang out with her. I broke up with her three years ago. She apparently checks my and my girlfriends deviant art journals and my girlfriends now unused for two years myspace.
.... Wow.... sorry... I guess i needed to get that off my chest... Thanks.
Well, here we go... I dated a girl for about 6 months before we found out she was pregnant, and I was about to deploy to the most dangerous city in Iraq at the time. She was determined to keep the child (I was in agreement with her, our families were not), so we got married the weekend before I deployed so that she could get military medical benefits during her pregnancy and my child would get my life insurance should I perish overseas. So after coming home to a fat wife and screaming child after being in combat for 7 months we set out on trying to make this new life work for us. Two years later we're in New York and she decides she can't be with me anymore and takes my son and moves to Maryland. I go down to Maryland and reconcile with her and we stay together up until this past September when she does the "I can't be with you anymore" bit again. So now I've put just about all of my meager assets into making this relationship work and I end up presently stuck in Maryland with 2 bags of clothes, 2 guns, my TV, and my computer... so yes, I've had my share of girl troubles.
EDIT:
Swollen Goat said:
I love these threads, because I usually win. My ex-wife racked up about $30,000 in credit card debt, trashed our home, cheated on me and then left.
Wow, I might actually beat you when my divorce goes through. During my deployment after I got married my wife spent $20,000 of the $25,000 of my overseas pay... money that was supposed to go towards buying a house, and instead she ate out for at least 2 meals a day for 7 months. Also when we separated I had to pay for a new apartment instead of my car payment which resulted in repossession of which I still owe $8000 on that loan.
Its sad when that same exact story comes up again... and again... and again. It just makes me feel low.
As for myself, well... you can't beat a military classic (No offense to you Mike, I sympathize, but you know how often this happens. Its almost like a damn curse).
1. Two Equal Opportunity complaints (One for sexual comments that were not unwelcome to the person I was talking to, but it seems the lady I WASN'T flirting with took offense. The other was a race issue: a black female called me white trash, along with some other colorful racial remarks. I called her a *****. The racism hammer gets dropped on me, without myself even saying a racial comment).
2. Dated a female for 10 months, she got married to an Ex a week after she left my sight. Found out when the husband sent me an email. Worst part: I was supposed to be going to Maryland as my next duty station. Changed it to Fort Hood to follow her. I know work in the same building as her.
Well, here we go... I dated a girl for about 6 months before we found out she was pregnant, and I was about to deploy to the most dangerous city in Iraq at the time. She was determined to keep the child (I was in agreement with her, our families were not), so we got married the weekend before I deployed so that she could get military medical benefits during her pregnancy and my child would get my life insurance should I perish overseas. So after coming home to a fat wife and screaming child after being in combat for 7 months we set out on trying to make this new life work for us. Two years later we're in New York and she decides she can't be with me anymore and takes my son and moves to Maryland. I go down to Maryland and reconcile with her and we stay together up until this past September when she does the "I can't be with you anymore" bit again. So now I've put just about all of my meager assets into making this relationship work and I end up presently stuck in Maryland with 2 bags of clothes, 2 guns, my TV, and my computer... so yes, I've had my share of girl troubles.
EDIT:
Swollen Goat said:
I love these threads, because I usually win. My ex-wife racked up about $30,000 in credit card debt, trashed our home, cheated on me and then left.
Wow, I might actually beat you when my divorce goes through. During my deployment after I got married my wife spent $20,000 of the $25,000 of my overseas pay... money that was supposed to go towards buying a house, and instead she ate out for at least 2 meals a day for 7 months. Also when we separated I had to pay for a new apartment instead of my car payment which resulted in repossession of which I still owe $8000 on that loan.
Its sad when that same exact story comes up again... and again... and again. It just makes me feel low.
As for myself, well... you can't beat a military classic (No offense to you Mike, I sympathize, but you know how often this happens. Its almost like a damn curse).
1. Two Equal Opportunity complaints (One for sexual comments that were not unwelcome to the person I was talking to, but it seems the lady I WASN'T flirting with took offense. The other was a race issue: a black female called me white trash, along with some other colorful racial remarks. I called her a *****. The racism hammer gets dropped on me, without myself even saying a racial comment).
2. Dated a female for 10 months, she got married to an Ex a week after she left my sight. Found out when the husband sent me an email. Worst part: I was supposed to be going to Maryland as my next duty station. Changed it to Fort Hood to follow her. I know work in the same building as her.
I know, its one of the military laws of nature: Military marriages NEVER work. But probably just like everyone else who has tried I though to myself "That won't happen to me, this is different."... but it really never is, and now I'm ashamed to say that I'm part of that statistic. At least my wife was pregnant and didn't cheat on me while I was overseas which is how it usually happens.
Where was your Maryland duty station suppose to be, Ft. Meade?
Pretraining for my tour of duty, my first love of 7 months began cheating on me with my best friend of the time (found out about a month before I left). I broke up with her...found out they got together officialy when I had left.
Jumbled me up as you can imagine...try being in a war zone with that monkey on your back.
Edit: After reading a few fellow soldiers posts. Yeah, women attracted to military guys cant seem to keep it together when your gone for 6 months. Most women are cruel and not worthy of trust. Infact in my opinion all of 'em arent worthy of trust until proven. Women are the reason it pays for a guy to be the player. Scheming self centered harpies the lot of 'em, no room for the nice guy who doesn't carry the emotional hurt stick.
(luckely my fiance is the one acception I have ever known...but even my female friends I wouldn't trust with my heart or life...have to be crazy to...and I still am always on the defense with a foot able to be out the door)
Women attracted to military guy's, or women you have to work for the affection of are on the top of the "Do not trust" list. Remember that kiddies! She's an addition to your life, never a half (something that you need to complete you). Unless you feel like being burned.
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