Your opinion or thought on Love?

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Rose and Thorn

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Do you believe in love?

Whether or not you can describe it, I am curious to know what everyone who answers opinion or thought on love is. What is love to you? What ISN'T love to you?

Get technical, stay simple. Be detailed, or answer vaguely. Give me your honest feelings on this one word, and what it means to you.
 

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I believe in love, I experienced it, it was nice, but it is nasty when the love is not there anymore. Also it left me searching to find it again in this world. So far, no luck. But I know it is out there somewhere.
 

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For me, love is about wanting to hold them, to be a part of them... I met someone who I felt like that about last year, eventually we had to part but there is hope I may see them again this year... perhaps.
 

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N3squ1ck said:
I believe in love, I experienced it, it was nice, but it is nasty when the love is not there anymore. Also it left me searching to find it again in this world. So far, no luck. But I know it is out there somewhere.
It left me terrified to look again, I am glad you are still looking, I hope I can get to that point that I can fall in love again.
 

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I believe in love. Love is a biochemical state of mind which causes certain physical, social and mental responses that we generally associate with affection of different forms.
I believe in it because I can A: Apply the scientific-method to have it tested. I can cut people open and study their neurological patterns and biochemical interchange (well not me per se, but others with the technical know-how), B: Study the social interactions between humans that are in love, and C; I have experienced it myself.
 

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Do I believe in love?


There was a boy, no older than most when they first find interest in the opposite sex.

He spent most of his days by himself. Part of it was by choice. Part of it wasn't.

There was a girl, a bit younger than the boy.

She was a troubled spirit, free and yet simultaneously chained down, unable to overcome the hardships she faced by herself.

The two met one day.

No words were exchanged, at first. Just a locking of their eyes, and two small, shy smiles.

The pair found common ground, and began spending their time together, more and more each day as time passed.

As the days turned to months, it seemed like they were inseparable. Nothing would come between them, as long as they had each other.

And then the day came.

The girl's family moved away. She had to go with them.

It hit the boy like a sidewinder, revealed out of the blue. He couldn't understand it. Why did she need to leave?

The days turned bleak, after that. Darkness seemed a permanent fixture in the boy's mind, and his schoolmates noted that he seemed increasingly irritable and distracted.

He needed an outlet. Something to pour his heart and soul into now. He settled on a combination of music and literature, hoping it would fill the void left behind by her absence.

It did, for a time.

As the months passed, he could feel her sliding further into the back of his mind.

But fate was not so kind.

Two summers after she had left, the girl reappeared in the boy's life.

He was confused, understandably. When asked about her return, the girl replied that she wanted to see him again. The boy... could scarcely believe his ears. In a single instant, all of his thoughts, feelings, memories of her, came crashing back into his head. As much as he wanted to tell her that he didn't feel the same way... he couldn't formulate the words.

And so they spent the summer together, knowing that it would end in heartbreak and disappointment when the girl needed to leave again at the end of the summer. Despite that, the boy would recall that summer as being the best few months of his high school years.

As his final year of high school began, the boy found solace in the fond memories he would always have of his time with the girl. He was amicable, jovial even, a rock for his friends in their times of need. But he always knew, somewhere deep in his mind, that he would never forget the girl.

Months passed. The boy's family began falling apart. He graduated, but was left aimless by the situation an ailing father and an absent mother presented him with. He wanted a direction. He needed something, or someone, to guide him.

And so he went to the girl.

She had never forgotten him. She had always been there for him.

I'm not sure whether that answers your question or not, to be honest. But I hope it does.
 

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shrekfan246 said:
Do I believe in love?


There was a boy, no older than most when they first find interest in the opposite sex.

He spent most of his days by himself. Part of it was by choice. Part of it wasn't.

There was a girl, a bit younger than the boy.

She was a troubled spirit, free and yet simultaneously chained down, unable to overcome the hardships she faced by herself.

The two met one day.

No words were exchanged, at first. Just a locking of their eyes, and two small, shy smiles.

The pair found common ground, and began spending their time together, more and more each day as time passed.

As the days turned to months, it seemed like they were inseparable. Nothing would come between them, as long as they had each other.

And then the day came.

The girl's family moved away. She had to go with them.

It hit the boy like a sidewinder, revealed out of the blue. He couldn't understand it. Why did she need to leave?

The days turned bleak, after that. Darkness seemed a permanent fixture in the boy's mind, and his schoolmates noted that he seemed increasingly irritable and distracted.

He needed an outlet. Something to pour his heart and soul into now. He settled on a combination of music and literature, hoping it would fill the void left behind by her absence.

It did, for a time.

As the months passed, he could feel her sliding further into the back of his mind.

But fate was not so kind.

Two summers after she had left, the girl reappeared in the boy's life.

He was confused, understandably. When asked about her return, the girl replied that she wanted to see him again. The boy... could scarcely believe his ears. In a single instant, all of his thoughts, feelings, memories of her, came crashing back into his head. As much as he wanted to tell her that he didn't feel the same way... he couldn't formulate the words.

And so they spent the summer together, knowing that it would end in heartbreak and disappointment when the girl needed to leave again at the end of the summer. Despite that, the boy would recall that summer as being the best few months of his high school years.

As his final year of high school began, the boy found solace in the fond memories he would always have of his time with the girl. He was amicable, jovial even, a rock for his friends in their times of need. But he always knew, somewhere deep in his mind, that he would never forget the girl.

Months passed. The boy's family began falling apart. He graduated, but was left aimless by the situation an ailing father and an absent mother presented him with. He wanted a direction. He needed something, or someone, to guide him.

And so he went to the girl.

She had never forgotten him. She had always been there for him.

I'm not sure whether that answers your question or not, to be honest. But I hope it does.
Thank you for that, it answers my question far more than I would have hoped. Beautiful.
 

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It is a thing. If it wasn't a thing, it wouldn't be unnecessarily inserted into movies where it doesn't belong.

What? you said I could be really vague! That's all I've got. =D
 

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shrekfan246 said:
Do I believe in love?


There was a boy, no older than most when they first find interest in the opposite sex.

He spent most of his days by himself. Part of it was by choice. Part of it wasn't.

There was a girl, a bit younger than the boy.

She was a troubled spirit, free and yet simultaneously chained down, unable to overcome the hardships she faced by herself.

The two met one day.

No words were exchanged, at first. Just a locking of their eyes, and two small, shy smiles.

The pair found common ground, and began spending their time together, more and more each day as time passed.

As the days turned to months, it seemed like they were inseparable. Nothing would come between them, as long as they had each other.

And then the day came.

The girl's family moved away. She had to go with them.

It hit the boy like a sidewinder, revealed out of the blue. He couldn't understand it. Why did she need to leave?

The days turned bleak, after that. Darkness seemed a permanent fixture in the boy's mind, and his schoolmates noted that he seemed increasingly irritable and distracted.

He needed an outlet. Something to pour his heart and soul into now. He settled on a combination of music and literature, hoping it would fill the void left behind by her absence.

It did, for a time.

As the months passed, he could feel her sliding further into the back of his mind.

But fate was not so kind.

Two summers after she had left, the girl reappeared in the boy's life.

He was confused, understandably. When asked about her return, the girl replied that she wanted to see him again. The boy... could scarcely believe his ears. In a single instant, all of his thoughts, feelings, memories of her, came crashing back into his head. As much as he wanted to tell her that he didn't feel the same way... he couldn't formulate the words.

And so they spent the summer together, knowing that it would end in heartbreak and disappointment when the girl needed to leave again at the end of the summer. Despite that, the boy would recall that summer as being the best few months of his high school years.

As his final year of high school began, the boy found solace in the fond memories he would always have of his time with the girl. He was amicable, jovial even, a rock for his friends in their times of need. But he always knew, somewhere deep in his mind, that he would never forget the girl.

Months passed. The boy's family began falling apart. He graduated, but was left aimless by the situation an ailing father and an absent mother presented him with. He wanted a direction. He needed something, or someone, to guide him.

And so he went to the girl.

She had never forgotten him. She had always been there for him.

I'm not sure whether that answers your question or not, to be honest. But I hope it does.
I... I...

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Sorry, I'm keeping a long distance relationship going and that resonates with me perfectly.

I think I need to lie down and reflect on my life philosophically.

....

Thanks. That story made me feel better for a lot of reasons.

OT- Love? Love is what happens when you're ready to stake the world over a single person. I hope that this answers your question, OP; I can't really give a straight answer.
 

Quaxar

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Of course I believe in it, those little sugar hearts tell me it exists. I kid, I kid, I've never actually live seen one single little sugar heart with a borderline insane slogan on it. On the other hand I've never seen jelly babies either and I know they exist because the Doctor eats them and everyone trusts the Doctor.
So yes, if you ask like that I believe in jelly babies.

What do you mean that wasn't the question?

Alright, I also believe in hormone induced biochemical responses and psychological reactions to a societal norm.
Now about those jelly babies promised for my answer...
 
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Love is bonds. Bonds have purpose. This makes enough sense to me, it's there...

I believe in the feelings that we have given the label "love". I mean... it's a pretty massive shared delusion if it's not real. I just don't believe in any magical or Hollywood version of things.
 

Harley Q

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Love is terrible and wonderful all at once. It is an emotion that leaves you as a raw nerve, exposed.
My views on love have changed over the years, I've felt "love conquers all" to "love is an imagination between two fools"

After the treatment that I have received from previous partners, from people who claimed to love me, I feel that now, part of me hopes that love doesn't exit, because if it does, then I do not seem to be worthy of it.
 

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I definitely believe in a thing called love:

But ya, love is awesome and comes in all shapes and forms: love for your family, friends, and partner. Love, I think is the strongest bond that can exist between two people.
 

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Buzz Killington said:
Rose and Thorn said:
Do you believe in love?
Damn it. This question got this stuck in my head, and now I have to inflict it on everyone else (partly because I am OLD):

No wonder it got stuck in your head with that much power.
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NightmareExpress

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We feel it, and believe it to be something that it isn't.
Or rather, we use wishful thinking and imagination to mask it.

I sat down and really thought about it one day.
"Love" is our evaluation of how somebody can best benefit us. Can they make our day better? Do they have traits that I find desirable? Can they be useful in providing security? I suppose then, it's a given that how useful a person is can change with time and somebody more capable can walk along.

It's a scary thing, really.
Something that feels warm and deep, but is cold and shallow in actuality.
A current of electricity that sends chemical messengers to stimulate a primitive part of the mind.
I try not to think about what exactly it is often.
 

manic_depressive13

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How can anyone not believe in love? Love, like I'm sure many have said, is a biochemical reaction involving the release of serotonin, dopamine and other chemicals, similar to the effect of taking amphetamines. This creates a dependency just like with any other drug. It's my uderstanding that people feel miserable after they break up because they are literally going through withdrawal. Also, some people say that love feels both wonderful and terrible because oxytocin, which is linked to social recognition, pair bonding, sexual relations and maternal behaviours (earning it the name the "love hormone") also increases feelings of anxiety, jealousy and, for some retarded reason, heightened pleasure in other people's misfortune.

So to me asking "Do you believe in love" is like asking "Do you believe in drug addiction".
 

Vault101

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manic_depressive13 said:
So to me asking "Do you believe in love" is like asking "Do you believe in drug addiction".
so the moral of the story is...can't get a partner? DO AMPHETAMINES!