We can agree that it is not appropriate for children to imitate everything that their parents do, right?
If the parents smoke, should we give our children candy cigarettes?
If they drink alcohol, should we give them water with food coloring in a rocks glass?
In countries where sex workers are legal, how early should children be allowed to begin their preparation for this career, and what would such preparation include?
How should children of sex workers imitate their parents while playing?
Some things are adults only.
No one should be smoking, my parents didn't do that either, as parents should understand that they are role models for their kids. My parents didn't drink either, but we all enjoyed virgin strawberry daiquiris, Virgin pina coladas, virgin Margaritas, and others. Being honest with your children about sex doesn't mean you train them to be prostitutes now quit being absurd.
I was always taught that sex was a beautiful and wonderful part of life, one of the most enjoyable things we can do. That we take care of our own sexual urges through self gratification and we are told how to do so and encouraged to do so to help keep us from making rash decisions that we may regret after. Sharing something so important in our life with another person is the biggest choice in our life that we can make, because it cannot be taken back afterwards. We need to be absolutely sure that we are making the right choice. We wait until we are deemed an adult to share this very important and special part of ourselves with another person because of how important this decision is for our life because anytime we have sex, there is a possibility of becoming pregnant and we want to be absolutely sure we are sharing this with the right person and that we are ready to take on this responsibility. Not just for ourselves, but for the new life we bring into this world. When a child is born, we have the greatest love in the world for our child and that child will depend on us for everything in this life, that child will forever be a part of us. If we do not have the answers ourselves, how can we provide them to our child? We must put the child first before all things once our child is in this world so before we decide to take on such a enormous responsibility we most prepare ourselves and that takes time. When our elders have deemed us fully prepared, we can then choose to make this decision, but not before then. Doing this before then only means that we will cut short our time to enjoy life without such difficult responsibilities. Before you have a child, you can put yourself and others first, but you will no longer have that freedom once you have a child to care for, when a child comes, this part of your life is gone forever and you begin a new path with your child always coming first, as they will always be a part of your soul.
This is what we were all taught from the beginning, and never told anything negative. It was never weird or bad or something to be ashamed of. We all learned from the beginning, if we wanted to be able to have fun, play with friends and do what we wanted to do, we take care of our own sexual urges as needed and save that heavy responsibility stuff for when we are too old to play and have fun anymore. Women in my culture didn't generally start having kids until they were 22+ years of age. The girls who did at a younger ages usually regretted it because they could no longer have the freedom and fun they had before.
There is nothing dirty or shameful about sex, and we were never taught that there was in the first place. However, we are not even talking about sex here, we are talking about dance, which is completely not related. Children shouldn't be made ignorant of and kept in the dark about life, they should just be informed properly and accurately and be given options.
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