Recent content by Abseith

thanks guys i went to a doctor today cos therapy here i need to be reffered and theyve said they will make a decision in the next week but also not to get my hopes up ill get it so ill just have to wait and see i suppose

yea i think the title is kinda self explanatory but ill give a bit of detail im 18 and i should be the father of a 3 week old son right now but i lost my child to hydrocephalus (which is a build up of fluid causing the brain not to form for anyone wondering) now this was with a girl i claimed...

Well thanks everyone for the words of confidence we went through with the first half of the process today and its been a hell of a long day to say the least thursday the final part happens but we found out the head had grown at least 3-6 mm in the last week which is rapid growth and was not...

ive never been the most emotional of people so i cant really tell the difference sometimes and i know she needs me there and im trying very hard not to just say i need a few days away and just walk for a while but she knows i dont blame her ive explained to her already i knew a little about...

but the problem is im just so uncaring about it all now and i feel horrible for it its like they might want to do a post mortem and my girlfriend wants a funeral for closure asked me how i felt and all i could think is i really dont care anymore lets just get this over with

A few people might remember me I posted a few week ago asking how to handle my girlfriend being pregnant etc so ill just recap a bit for general knowledge I'm 18 my girlfriend is 17 about 3 week ago we found out she was pregnant obviously this was a huge shock and I freaked out a little hence...

I don't actually know much about the support laws in the UK tbh and I try stressing the point to her she just cries tells me she doesn't want to loose me but I should leave if I cant handle it instead of talking to me about things as I would much prefer

She's not happy with me talking about it because she's ready for it and happy and I'm not in the slightest I don't think I will be able to handle it in any way I mentioned to her about adoption and got a pretty much blanket no to it so really I'm down to deal with it no matter what but I know...

yea I only have at most 5 month she's a good few month along which is why I'm kinda not dealing with it very well as it was just sprung on me and I've not got as long to adjust as Id like and I tried talking to a professional but they just wanted to focus on other things in my life like how I'm...

Hey the story is pretty simple but I'm kinda having trouble dealing with it all basically my girlfriend is pregnant we don't know how far along I only found out just over a week ago and I'm having a hard time adjusting to the whole situation a little back story first I'm 18 my girlfriends is...

then the only other thing i think you could do is sit him down and both you and the girl talk to him and tell him what's happening and his role in it and if he doesn't like it then he doesn't have to stay in either of your lives because you don't want him there anymore

to me it all depends on how emotionally invested I am in the person themselves if I'm really emotionally invested I can look past physical cheating the first time as long as it is a one off but on the other hand if its just a bit of fun I don't give any second chance to physical or emotional...

hey not sure how helpful this will be but ill give it a shot if the guy is really being that bad to you both should you really still be considering him as your best friend I don't want to sound harsh here but if he wants to act like a petulant little child then fuck him tbh you don't need...

Want my advice almost everything Aylaine said is completely right there's only a few things id like to add being a complete loner myself to worrying degrees sometime The person you spoke to is in no way worth your time if they cant be bothered listening to you when you need it most and id...

get a good solid hobby you really enjoy to take your mind of it start going out more and meeting new people realise that perfection is the lie we all tell ourselves when we dont want to let go and itll just destroy you the longer you cling to it