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  1. TheBlakkat

    Need to unload, maybe some advice might help...kinda life story-type thing

    Hm. Take some time to get back in shape - physically and mentally, and get back in touch with said girls as friends. Don't try anything. If her current relationship fails, you could try and do something about it. Otherwise, you can be friends or just try and move on completely if you can settle...
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    I've fallen to resorting to the internet for help. So please, help.

    *hugs* Lots and lots of them. Also, I can commiserate with you, to a degree. I've managed to screw myself over every time I've come close to a relationship and nearly ruined friendships by falling for people. I fall for people with extreme ease and have nearly killed myself once or twice...
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    How do you break up with someone who loves you?

    Don't lie. Be compassionate, thoughtful, caring, but honest. You're about to break someone's heart, and that can take ages to mend. The least you can do is be mature about it. And if you decide to remain friends, I reccomend not trying to remain close friends until months have passed, at the...
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    How do you break up with someone who loves you?

    Don't lie to her. Tell her the truth. Be understanding, supportful, compassionate. You're about to break her heart, the least you can do is be mature and honest about it. However, don't remain friends unless you want to, staying friends with exes is awkward at first and can end very well or very...
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    Done thread- no more comments please.

    Right now, it comes down to what you,re comfortable with. If you're able to talk with him, work things out and rebuild trust, go for it. If you're not able to do that, or you don't want to, you've every right to dump him. I know that if a girl did that to me, I'd probably break up with her...
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    So everyone... Bullies

    I was bullied so much during my elementary years. I was picked up by the legs, spun in circles and thrown at fences. I got pushed in front of swings. I almost got my head dunked in a toilet, I was beaten up quite often. I was a practice dummy for wrestling moves. I got my school projects...
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    Yup, another I like a girl thread...

    I've discouraged friends from dating girls two grades younger than them in the past, but the agegroup thing really does work on a case-by-case basis. First out, work out the legality of this in your country. Where I live (from my understanding), if one partner's over the legal age and the other...
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    Do I have a shot with this girl now?

    I'm torn with this one. I've made some friendships temporarily awkward because I thought the girl liked me when in fact she didn't and I've missed chances because I was afraid to ruin a friendship if I was wrong. In the long run, though, people won't start hating you because you have feelinsg...
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    That's right, another love question.

    When two guys like one girl, one of them ought to act like a gentleman, and step aside. When three guys like the same girl? The one with an ounce of sense in him bails while the other two slug it out (Returning with popcorn is optional). Jokes aside, though, I think you should stay out of...