1 Month for my Life to Crumble Down

[Rastien]

Heres the deal, keep going.

Thats it, thats all you can do.

One shitty foot step at time keep putting one foot in front the other, it will make you strong. Visualise yourself 2 years from now, all this hardship will make you a strong caring person you have had the worse life can throw at you and your out the otherside.

But you gotta get there. i aint gonna lie its gonna be shit and whilst my problems pail in comparison you can do it. No is one asking you to smile or like it, but don't give up.

If you were near by i would invite you round for a toke on mary jane, a fine mug o'tea and chat, sounds like you could need a bro to chat to .


If you're going through hell, keep going.
Winston Churchill

 

[Detective Prince]

Keep comforting your dad but don't take on more than you can chew. Everything seems to be piling up right now. It's okay to say to him "Dad, I love you. But I'm messed up myself right now. So gimme some time to myself as well."

Dude, that is possibly the worst piece of advice you can give someone who's dealing with a suicidally depressed individual. Increasing their feelings of isolation is a sure-fire way to push them closer to the brink, and I'm fair sure that's not what TitanAtlas wants here.

You can't expect someone who's life is crumbling down to deal with someone else who's life is in the same place. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes you have to think of yourself as well. It's not healthy for a human being to add more stress. If his dad really is suicidal he needs professional help which I'm sure TitanAtlas can't provide him with. Simple as.

Thus my suggestion of getting him into workplace-provided counselling. His dad's a cop. Cops have shrinks on hand for shit like this - I say this as the relative of both cops and shrinks, telling him to say "Dad, you have to deal with this on your own" is terrible advice. Telling him to call the shrink there and say "Dad, I told Dr. whomever at the precinct what you said to me, and they want to talk to you - I love you and I'm worried about your safety" is probably the best course of action for him to take.

Never actually said to tell him dad to deal with it on his own. Told him that he shouldn't bite off more than he can chew with his dad. So I didn't exactly say "HEY TELL YOUR DAD TO MAN UP AND LEAVE YOU ALONE." what I was trying to say was that OP needs to be there for his dad but not to feel completely overwhelmed. Kids go through divorces too no matter how old it still affects them. OP needs to take time for himself WHILE being there for his dad as well. See what I mean?

 

[Bloodtrozorx]

I'm not going to get philosophical on you. Just keep on going. You can do it.

 

[NinjaRabies]

Take it one step at a time.

Your parents are still alive.

There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Your dog doing to die sucks but it's nothing life changing.

The car is a serious problem (use the bus from now on) but the job can be solved with patience and persistence.

Chin up now. I know this doesn't help at all but I'm just trying to put things in perspective.

This is the best advice I've read on the internet.

 

[Itsthefuzz]

Praying to the sentient cloud that governs us is possibly the only fix to this situation.

Chariots Chariots.