Samurai Goomba said:
How does it ruin somebody's life to have a kid and put it up for adoption?
Interestingly, this again comes back to religion in a way, because particularily religious families will disown and ban you or do even worse if you become pregnant outside of wedlock. Or they force the young kids into marriage.
Furthermore, why would a woman be willing to basically give up her body for 9 months, suffer through all the biological changes (weight gain, Diabetes, perineum rupture) and health-risks (eclampsia and others) accompanied with pregnancy if she doesn't want the baby in the first place?
If it's early enough in the pregnancy, why not avoid that altogether?
Even if you don't keep the baby, going through the process of having a baby is a life-changing and risky event.
Not to mention the psychological damage, say, a teen can go through.
The skin cells will not develop into a fully-functioning member of society given time. The fetus will.
True, but at that point in time it is no more sentient than said skin cells.
And the potential alone is not reason enough for me to protect it.
And again, how is it a "mistake" to have a child? You don't have to keep it-that's what adoption agencies are for. Why should the child suffer for the parent's stupidity?
It's a mistake if you didn't want to have one or rather, if you were opposed to having one at that point in your life?
As for your last point, that's the thing. Early-term abortion fetuses
can't suffer because they don't have a working brain.
We should be thankful our parents did not consider us mistakes.
Sure. But that doesn't mean we can force other people to do the same.
Besides, it makes no mathematical sense to punish those with more years yet to live over those who've had a good 15+ years already to prove their worth to society. It's not my choice to make, but I'd take the kid's life over the mother's any day of the week, purely on the child's potential. The mother we already have the measure of, but the child could be another Einstein. Why sacrifice that?
But it's not about math, it's about suffering.
If the mother and the baby are in mortal danger during a medical procedure, the life of the mother always has the higher priority unless explicitly stated otherwise by the mother. Now this is mostly an issue regarding late pregnancy, where most complications arise. But this is also true for early pregnancy, such as ectopic pregnancies. Therefore, I can extend that to pregnancy as a whole.
In my mind, the same is true for suffering and psychological damage, not only mortal danger.
The mother is a fully formed, conscious, sentient human being.
A fetus is not.
The fetus could also be the next Hitler, this argument is useless.