A conundrum to drum. No-one under 18.

[6SteW6]

Dude, everyone you meet is going to have baggage that you don't agree with. Us humans are born to screw up, you'll just have to accept that. No ones perfect. I have a lot of baggage my wife hated when we first met. The key word there is 'wife'. She was able to look past my shit because it's part of what made me who I am. It's also now in the past, where it needs to stay

If you truly like this girl as a fun chick you met at a bar and want to have some fun with then great, maybe it will turn into something more and you'll wonder why the hell you doubted yourself. It could also turn to total shit, but that's part of life man we take chances cause we don't want to spend the rest of our life wondering 'What if?' that's no fun!

Anyway, it sounds like you already like her and who gives a shit what other people might think? It's your life do what you want. However, if you somehow think her record and way of living will tarnish what other people think of you then maybe you need to find someone....safer.

 

[Ursus Buckler]

You're 17, and about to have sex with someone. Simultaneously cheating on your mate.

For f**k's sake, kid, if you're going to pull that kind of asshole move, AT LEAST have the decency to tell your current mate you're not interested in him anymore. Be wary of the criminal girl, but if she's not over 18 at least it's not statutory rape. If this IS the case, for the love of God don't do it. Ignore your pants-brain for another year. If things go wrong her life gets basically cut short. Criminal record against her, statutory rape would ruin her FOREVER, and all because you wanted a little pleasure in the moment.

I'm assuming you live somewhere where the age of consent is 18, BTW. If not, ignore that stuff. But still, don't cheat. That's seriously such a douche move, I'd consider it karmic justice if the girl turned out to only be having sex with you to steal stuff from you or otherwise screw you over later.

Um, I think you're confused man. I'm not cheating on anybody, my mate is just a friend I hang out with. And no, age of consent is 16 here; I'm 18 in less than a month and this girl is 19.

 

[Gyrohelix]

Dude, a girl like that will be a nutcase down the road, JUMP SHIP.

 

[Cazza]

I can't believe you said no under 18's to read this when your 17. Anyway chick went to a bar to pickup a guy. Doesn't sound like she wants anything long term. You could see where it ends up but don't get all surprised if it ends quickly and on the best of terms.

Don't let her be a drain on your resources (money, car, house, time etc) thats unreasonable. Don't do it at her place (crazy step dad thing). I don't need to suggest protection do I?

 

[Liquid Paradox]

I love how the topic changed mid way.

"So, this friend of mine asked me if I wanted to go to this charity thing. Well, naturally, i was getting a blowjob." wait... what?

Recapcha: Darkness reinforced. Uh oh.

 

[OmniscientOstrich]

I think you two really need to establish just what each of you wants from this. Is she just looking for a casual fuck as well? Are you willing to get into a relationship with this girl? Figure out what she wants from this, though in either case I'd say go for it. And as other people have mentioned, having a criminal record isn't necessarily going to reflect the kind of person they are.

 

[PowerC]

Ok, so here's the thing. Don't read if you're under 18.

Im fifteen, I defy your silly rule! and i say tread lightly my European friend.

 

[Ursus Buckler]

I can't believe you said no under 18's to read this when your 17. Anyway chick went to a bar to pickup a guy. Doesn't sound like she wants anything long term. You could see where it ends up but don't get all surprised if it ends quickly and on the best of terms.

I did think about that, but I figured it happened to me at this age but it might not have been appropriate for other people under 18... and I just know I'd have got stick for not putting a disclaimer on the title.

I love how the topic changed mid way.

"So, this friend of mine asked me if I wanted to go to this charity thing. Well, naturally, i was getting a blowjob." wait... what?

Not as much as I loved how it changed mid way... and that sentence actually sums up my entire night.

 

[Zykon TheLich]

Ok, so here's the thing.

Go for it, you probably won't have a long relationship and be careful, she may well have serious problems and will drag you into them if you fall for her. Don't be the white knight. If she just wants sex then first off, make sure you use a condom. One of yours that she hasn't had access to. Pulling out as well might be a good idea...or just do lots of oral sex. Jump ship if she turns out to be crazy, don't let her know your address until you know she's not a nut.

All that sounds a bit negative, but really all I'm saying is be careful. Getting sucked (hurrr) into the messed up life of a problem kid from a broken home can be a nightmare if you fall for them, you will put up with and do all kinds of horrible stuff in the name of love. However if it all works out then great

 

[Andy Beaumont]

by the way people from america... he is obviously from britain where...
1. drinking at 17 is not an issue.. usually people start going to parties with alcohol at 14 here
2. legal sex age is 16, so no statutory rape.... no worry about that...
3. our police and legal system can give a criminal record for missing several days of school or what may be considered bullying in america...

 

[Natmonkey]

Personally I would have given this girl a go. From what you've said she's obviously very eager, and if the oral was any good... Yeah. Never mind the criminal record. Being with someone who has done something illegal once and got caught doesn't mean you get pulled into this downward spiral of never-ending wickedness and sin. Not that there is anything wrong with wickedness and sin, heh. It could be the start of something beautiful. Or the start of getting laid a couple of times, at least.

 

[Ursus Buckler]

Um, I think you're confused man. I'm not cheating on anybody, my mate is just a friend I hang out with. And no, age of consent is 16 here; I'm 18 in less than a month and this girl is 19.

Dude, this girl's an older chick? Fucking get her pumped! Older chicks are usually far wilder, filthier and open minded. And pulling an older chick is pretty much the ultimate sign of virility.

Get. Her. Nailed.

I like you, sir.

 

[Ionait]

Poof

 

[Pandabearparade]

Honestly I'd stop caring what your parents think of her. If you're into her, it's your opinion that matters. If mommy and daddy don't like it.. well, fuck 'em.