A Moral Conundrum for you guys, Would you sleep with a married person? (READ THE OP BEFORE POSTING)

[jackpackage200]

Here is the scenario: Pretend YOU are single. Lets say you are at a bar or a club (or some other place you like to hangout). You meet someone there (man or woman, what ever your preference) and you two hit it off. The both of you end up at your place and things start getting serious. As you two are fooling around, they stop and tell you that he/she is married.

Do you continue or do you stop? What would you do?

As for me, I would be torn on what to do. On one hand there is an opportunity for an amazing one night stand. On the other hand, an affair could do irreparable damage to her marriage which would lead to a nasty divorce and the angry husband tracking me down possibly trying to kill me.

Edit: After some reflection, I change my self to a solid no. Too much potential for it to blow up into something bad. It does not seem worth it.

 

[Psykoma]

I end it.

Some people I know may say that the single person doesn't have an obligation, and that it all rests on the attached person to end it.

But I say BS to that.
For my conscience, when I find out they're attached, it's over.

 

[Phasmal]

I'm not really a person to sleep with someone I just met, but I'll go with the scenario.

I would leave, and would probably not be interested in them any more. It's cliche but I do believe someone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.
Being faithful in a relationship is very important to me, and I wouldn't be with anyone it wasn't important to.

 

[Screamarie]

No. See now? That was easy.

I don't sleep with married people. It's a simple rule, one that saves a person a shit-load of trouble.

More than that, I don't think I'd engage in a one-night stand so I probably wouldn't be in that situation in the first place. (I don't have anything against people who do, it's just not my cup of tea.)

 

[Riki Darnell]

I probably wouldn't go through with it unless he told me that they were in the process of getting divorced.

 

[BrassButtons]

I'd end it there. "I'm married" is not something you drop as an afterthought--that is important information, and not disclosing it earlier on means this person isn't terribly honest.

 

[Luna]

I would have sex with her, film it and show the husband so she gets what she deserves. Would probably link vid over fb to avoid possible fight. If she's willing to cheat once then she'll likely be willing to cheat again so I might as well take advantage of the situation whilst having a somewhat moral outcome.

I'm not really a person to sleep with someone I just met, but I'll go with the scenario.

I would leave, and would probably not be interested in them any more. It's cliche but I do believe someone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.
Being faithful in a relationship is very important to me, and I wouldn't be with anyone it wasn't important to.

Why are you worried about her cheating on you? I'm surprised that you'd even consider this woman for relationship material.

Dude, if you're into trying to turn chicks you meet in a bar or a club into your girlfriend then all I can say is be careful.

 

[5ilver]

Dunno, depends on what the other person wants. Marriage doesn't really mean anything to me- just an outdated, pointless piece of paper.
But if the other person is happy with his partner and dislikes polygamy, then I'd obviously look elsewhere. Not like sex is hard to find ^^

 

[Dags90]

I would leave, and would probably not be interested in them any more. It's cliche but I do believe someone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.
Being faithful in a relationship is very important to me, and I wouldn't be with anyone it wasn't important to.

Why would you leave? According the scenario, this is your place. You're just going to leave some stranger to hang out at your place?

I'm not sure I'd say no. I'm not one to miss a wedding ring on a guy, so he'd have to have been at a bar with his wedding ring off. So it's pretty obvious he was out to have sex with someone who wasn't his spouse from the beginning.

And who says it has to be a one night stand?

 

[Reginald]

No. If she's willing to cheat on her husband to do me, she probably has some sort of infection or something.

 

[Rednog]

No, as a person who has been cheated on (granted not a wife, but a girlfriend) I find it to be an insane breach of trust and the person doing it and the person aiding them in breaking that trust (while informed of the relationship) are both despicable.
If you're unhappy with your partner, that it on you to either address the problem or break off the relationship.

 

[evilneko]

Pay the husband one million dollars for one night with his wife.

 

[Luna]

Dude, if you're into trying to turn chicks you meet in a bar or a club into your girlfriend then all I can say is be careful.

Try finding a woman who doesn't visit bars or clubs. Shits fucking impossible, man.

Most women have visited bars and clubs, fair enough. But I would be slightly hesitant to girlfriend one I met there.

Maybe I'm just paranoid.

 

[Heronblade]

No, and I'm more than a little unlikely to be in that situation to begin with, since I don't do one night stands.

 

[Dags90]

I'm ok with doing it, but there's a fine line in having it just simply happen and seeking it out. A girl I worked with regularly targeted married men to fuck. She said she preferred having pseudo-relationships with them since they were already committed, that almost all of her interactions with them are just when they text her to have sex. She was like some sort of phone service whore, they phone her up, she drives over and fucks them.

Anyway, I just remember being horrified when I learned the truth. She was so open about it all, almost proud of it to an extent. I remember thinking about what a monster she is for doing such a thing.

It makes me wonder if people would ever think the same of me. I've slept with this one girl who was seeing another guy, we had sex maybe 10 times total. She initiated everything, the only thing I had to do was show up at her place when she texted me, and it was on. She was a quite skanky sort of girl, and I almost felt like for her boyfriend that I was just bringing things into a full circle for him. Before they started dating, they were having sex behind her ex-boyfriend's back. Now she's having sex behind his back.

Sounds more than a bit hypocritical. Actually, it sounds suspiciously hypocritical. Unless you consider yourself a sort of phone service whore, and a monster, too. There are several parallels in the stories, each one more parallel than the next.