Do games need to change? Probably not. For every girl or boy gamer that likes grinding away for XP on WoW, there'll be another rabidly seeking out their next victim on Unreal, ready to turn them into gibs. Traditionally, games have been portrayed as a 'boys' thing but as time goes on, I'm sure we'll see less and less of of it, as the gamers of today raise the gamers of tomorrow. One of the first prezzies I'll be buying my first child for it's 10th birthday will be a console of some sort, whether they are a boy or a girl.
I've known a few ladies in my life that have played games,and it was interesting that all have varying tastes in games. One of my best friends is a hardcore gamer, enjoying at least one game in pretty much any game genre, although she does like to frag things or run around on Final Fantasy. My lil sister loved nothing more than whuppin' my butt on Bloody Roar 3. My mother, who's age I won't reveal because I like to live, recently told me she'd had a go on Burnout 3 and managed a 34 long Takedown Streak. My response was two minutes of shocked silence.
As far as I see it, games are pretty neutral and there's no such thing as a 'Boys' game, although there are games that are definitely aimed at girls. I doubt there's an influx of guys buying the Bratz game. Urgh. The only tweaking to games I'd want to see for the benefit of the ladies is the inclusion of more female avatars for online modes and heaven forbid, the odd female lead. Plus, I'd like to see this odd culture of dissing women when it comes to games.. end.