Helter Skelter said:
You're trying to have a conversation with someone who doesn't even know that 'the grass is always greener..."? Someone who thinks that "ladies night" is presumably some kind of social justice movement, and not the sad attempt to get ANY women into a bar/club (and thereby draw men who will try to buy them drinks) that it is. All in relation to an article which is presenting people choosing to buy drinks for someone (almost always in the hopes of fucking them) as a societal problem.
When the argument from someone is that they're under the terrible burden of not enough free drinks, in a space that's normally occupied with one side talking about rape and money, and the other suicide and risky jobs, this is a fucking joke.
That's exactly it. Hell, "Ladies Night" buys into the same social paradigm. "Ladies Night" exists, like you said, to draw in women, because they draw men to the establishment, who are then presumed to spend more money. In fact, anything where the bar is forgoing money, including the likes of "Happy Hour" is about getting people into the establishment so they'll pay more later. "Ladies Night" is just another expression of the fact that men are expected to earn money, and then they're expected to pursue women, and attempt to use money to do so. It's not some special cause, it's literally a business strategy that buys into expectations.
Yes it's dumb, but it's dumb in exactly the same way that everything else is.
Even if bars were forced to do away with it, they'd still try to do it in some way to bring in women, to try to bring in men, under this bullshit social contract which says that men are supposed to try to buy drinks for women. Like, if you've realised that's bullshit, there's a simple fucking solution. Stop buying drinks for women. You don't have to pay for shit unless you choose to, if you've realised it's bullshit, then don't buy into it. So what if someone else is getting a free drink, you're not going to give them a reason to. It literally doesn't matter, unless you choose to waste your time.