runic knight said:
I see a running theme throughout your posts... You seem to be under the (common I'll grant you) impression that violence is a direct thing. That only actively hitting or insulting someone counts as violence... And that's simply not the case.
There is a term called micro-aggression's. It's the small things in life that we do that's caused by the underlying and ever pervasive... "miasma" lets call it... of sexism/racism/homo-trans-phobia/abelism/etc/what have you.
It's the mostly male board meeting talking over and ignoring the two female members... then taking credit for their ideas. The men don't even realize it's happening, it's just the way it is.
It's the person on the street who tells a woman to smile and that she's beautiful... He's just trying to make her feel better, he doesn't realize he's creeped her out and made her feel like an object at the same time.
And it's in the guy on twitter who refuses to acknowledge that you exist. That you matter. That who you want to be known as can and should be a thing.
And then this guy is given an outlet at that website you love...
And this is happening every day, all over the world. (Well, maybe not the website bit, that's happening right here and now. Dunno about the world.)
And not only is it born of and feeds into that overt violence that you think about, it IS violence. It makes people feel like shit. It causes depression and anxiety and hate and suicide. People like this guy are the reason that thirteen year old children commit suicide. Because they see people denying them the right to exist.