I'm so blunt I'm borderline brutal. And I only borderline when I'm feeling polite. Hmm... Borderline kinda sounds like Borderlands... Game Time, HOO!!
Thanks for the kudos, though!
Thanks for the kudos, though!
A question for the Ladies
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Your not alone dude. I'm slightly older (23) and have similar attributes to you. I make good money, have moved out of home, have my own car, make Dj music, write novels, and I've been told I'm "attractive". But I too have never had a girlfriend. Many of the people on here may have similar conundrums. But TBH, it will happen when it happens. Just keep actively looking and you never know. Besides, you shouldn't have to change how you look or think for someone. Just depends on how bad you want it. Me? I'm a stubborn prick who will never change anything about myself or anyone ever. And that's exactly why I'm single.darktau21 said:
This is why most of us don't tell them we exist.ShunningMonkey said:Haha, I generally hide on XBL and just don't talk into my headset... I have a voice that is just a touch too deep for a woman, so people tend to think I'm a 15 year old boy... That's the only time I shut up. As for the rest of us? Honestly, I couldn't tell you. If I did, you'd instantly become a woman and an all-access pass would appear in your purse. But we wouldn't want that, now would we?
Sorry, Twinkie.Also, @OP: The second photo is MUCH better. ... actually, you look like a guy I used to date.
I am going to be hand-on-the-bible brutally honest here. So if you aren't willing to at least take a few lashings, I suggest you stop reading right now.darktau21 said:
You are a bit lacking in the aesthetics department, but that immediately discount you as a candidate for a girlfriend. Because you may not be the most stupendous example of the male figure you're going to have to work very hard on making your personality what people find most attractive about you.
What you need to nail down then is two things first and foremost: self-esteem, and assertiveness. If you lack either one of these you skew your chances of success. We really don't mind a friendly or nervous personality from a man, so long as they show a sense of initiative and belief in themselves. As for assertiveness, you need to show you have some initiative. We like it when a man shows determination and dedication, but being too assertive or aggressive can be a turn-off. Being too nice or too friendly can get you pigeonholed into the "just friends" category, which I doubt you want.
Remember these few things and you'll be a little more prepared to storm the trenches.
Change your glasses and grow out your hair believe me it helps more than you might think... not to be mean but lose some weight too that always helps... I lost 60LBs this year so far. Don't believe what the doctors say if you want to lose weight just climb a mountain several times I did it...
LMAO, that is very true. It got so bad for a while on XBL that every time I opened my mouth, I got booted. 7 games in a row, the second I said something, I was booted, despite kicking the snot out of the enemy team, and I was done. I don't even play with randoms anymore... It's sad how even though we can rip our male counterparts a new one, thanks to our cold, calculating, black-widowesque nature, we still can't be "one of the guys". I'm thankful for men who refuse to see me as a woman (other than my boyfriend for obvious reason), because it gives me someone to play with. I would think that FragDolls and GamerChix would have earned us a little respect, no? We're 1/3rd of the entire gaming populous...lilmisspotatoes said:This is why most of us don't tell them we exist.ShunningMonkey said:Haha, I generally hide on XBL and just don't talk into my headset... I have a voice that is just a touch too deep for a woman, so people tend to think I'm a 15 year old boy... That's the only time I shut up. As for the rest of us? Honestly, I couldn't tell you. If I did, you'd instantly become a woman and an all-access pass would appear in your purse. But we wouldn't want that, now would we?
Also, @OP: The second photo is MUCH better. ... actually, you look like a guy I used to date.
well i have been working out and I've been losing a lot of weight. i used to be very fat and i've lost most of the fat. i went from being severally overweight to the fact that you can see my leg muscles and there's like only a inch of belly fat left.AjimboB said:
the down side is that face fat is the hardest thing to get rid of.
if anyone knows a way to speed to the lose of face fat please speak up
Is that the same as homosexual? I'm not judging, I'm just curious since I've never heard that term before.Demented Teddy said:
Salon-quality hair products can do wonders. My hair does the same thing, but I've tamed it into a shoulder-length layered cut that makes me look (in my humble opinion) rather fucking sexy.darktau21 said:
Go talk to a stylist, and see what they think. They usually give advice for free, since they LOOOOVE talking.
