It's not that they can't take it,Metalchic said:if people cant take a little abrasion, well i don't know what to say.MeChaNiZ3D said:Coming across as abrasive in any way pretty much dooms your argument as far as the other participant goes. They tend to just get defensive and not think about what you say. For onlookers though, I think it could be just as effective as a rational argument.
it's that they will simply disregard points being made by someone who is insulting them in someway. They may not make any fuss about it, but subconsciously they'll say to themselves 'wow, this guy's such an asshole, anything he says must be taken with a grain of salt.'