Hey, I am kinda slow when it comes to women's hints. There was this girl I recently met in facebook(were schoolmates by the way). I kinda found her in facebook while browsing "The people that I may know page". To make it short, we've been chatting/texting almost all the time, she also told me that she hates me because she smiles everytime we talk, I don't look like a bad person at all, she gave her phone number to me, she also send her schedule to me and we also met in person, and she keep on covering her face when we met, she also smiles when I look at her. Is there any meaning to these? I mean is there any chance that she likes me? or I'm just assuming it. Please answer it well and thank you in advance!
About a girl I just recently met
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Well either she is watching too much anime or you are, or you just described an anime. Either way I expect a whole lot of sexual innuendo, panty shots, nose bleeds and tentacles in your future, yet you will never get to hit that.
Or in short yes she likes you.
Or in short yes she likes you.
Yes, she likes you and she's probably just as inexperienced with it as you are. It sounds like she's either extremely shy or trying to look that way hoping you think it's cute.leahkim00 said:
If you like her back, ask her out on a "date", going to the movies is always a safe bet if one or both of you aren't comfortable with the situation.
For the record, if she had no interest she would not
1. Give you her number
2. Give you her schedule
All the picture sending and singing and face covering and smiling and "I hate you because you make me happy" is just added fluff that screams it even more.
I have never sent a guy I was interested in a picture of myself (we've taken pictures together and he's taken pictures of me) and I wouldn't be caught dead singing to a guy unless I were thoroughly drunk or it was karaoke.
Thank you Eclipse Dragon, though I also have some doubt because sometimes she's mentioning her crush in her school but she said to me that they were not talking to each other and I also asked her if she's interested with him and she told me that she's not.Just to add for the question, Does a girl also likes you if she's mentioning some secrets for example about her family problems.
If she's venting about her family to you, at the very least she views you as a friend [footnote]unless she's the type to vent to literally everyone[/footnote]. You already know her availability (she mentioned a crush but not interested). I don't think you have much to risk by asking her out once or twice, if you ask and she doesn't see you that way, she'll probably tell you "We're just friends" or at least I would hope so.leahkim00 said:
She also told me what are the things to be considered or followed to be able to court her, she mentioned that she doesn't like flowers,chocolates and stuffed toys, she wants to be given a letter and she also said that if someone is going to court her, that man should be able to ask for her parent's permission. Question (Does the girls tell these things normally to a guy?)
It sounds to me like she really likes you and is telling you this because she wants you to give her a letter and stuff. And based on that bit about the letter and her parents she probably wouldn't be the first to outright say something.leahkim00 said:
Well, is it ok for me to give her a letter and write all the things that I feel about her? Wouldn't it be a creepy move? What should I write to that letter? (Or should I just tell her directly? But I think she wouldn't respond on me if I tell her directly)
To add, she's been inactive lately, we don't chat very often like we used to, I am running out of words to have a conversation with her, (I think, she's running out of words too.) I am kinda afraid of this scenario.
To add, she's been inactive lately, we don't chat very often like we used to, I am running out of words to have a conversation with her, (I think, she's running out of words too.) I am kinda afraid of this scenario.
From what you're describing she's trying to make it very obvious that she's available and that she likes you. She may have been getting quiet recently because.. well, if you haven't been responding she may feel like she's wasting her time, or may even feel embarrassed. Do you like her? If so, don't hesitate. Reach out to her in some way that makes it clear you want to be more than just friends. Worst case? You misread and you both feel a little embarrassed. Best case? She's your future wife. Those are pretty good stakes; go for it.
Try to stop over-thinking it so much and just ask her out. She's definitely interested and is waiting for you to make a move, so ask her to go on a date with you. Don't hesitate, seize the opportunity!
To make it clear, I'm the one who's initiating our conversation lately, but before, she's the first one to initiate, I'm kinda worried now because she's not that active and responsive just like before. To add, her parents are strict and she have a tight curfew, so it is very hard for us to meet in person. I totally like her and I will do everything just to be with her.
A smile doesn't always mean she likes likes you. Hehe.
Anyways, in this case, I believe she does like you, stranger. Just hope you're not like me when you find out a girl likes you ... I seem to change into a different person afterwards and turn them off. Kinda like Date Michael from the Office.
Anyways, in this case, I believe she does like you, stranger. Just hope you're not like me when you find out a girl likes you ... I seem to change into a different person afterwards and turn them off. Kinda like Date Michael from the Office.
I've been initiating conversation with her and trying to ask her out. She's not responsive as before and she told me that we can't go out for now. What am I going to do? I can't even make a move on her because she keep on putting walls between us. I am thinking to investigate her by asking one of her friends or set up a meeting with her by the help of her friends :/BadNewDingus said:
Maybe there was a chance there at first or maybe she was messing with you, either way something changed. If she tells you she can't go out now, believe her and don't wait around, move on, find someone else, if she changes her mind again, she'll contact you. Everything about this situation to me screams immaturity.leahkim00 said:
Talk to some nice other ladies and ask one of them out instead.