About Relationship Sanctity....

[Whateveralot]

This happened. I back off straight away. If that won't work and I came close enough to that person to disengage, I'll friendzone them and I won't feel a thing.

Sure, she's propably very likable, but that doesn't mean I'll have to blindly fall in love with someone; let alone reserve myself for her. I'll move on and eventually date someone else.

Funny thing is, this happened to me about a year ago. I insta-friendzoned her, lost contact, met up with her half a year later, talked a bunch; she broke up. Took a shot, it worked out quite well, for the time being. So, I think it's just better to stay the hell back.

 

[Malty Milk Whistle]

I found a beautiful quote for this on a wall in an Irish bar. I don't know who the original author is.

"A brave man defeats his enemy with the sword. The coward does it with a kiss."

Or something like that. It was years ago.

Oh, it was an IRISH bar...it all makes sense.
Racism and joking'ness aside, Don't. Really, don't. its one of the suckyest things in the world to get cheated on, and even though you don't know him, are you still prepared to receive the backlash? Besides, you don't even know if she reciprocates these feelings, basically, you prepared to go for short term gain(because it WILL be short term) which will devolve into a lose-lose situation?

 

[Thyunda]

I found a beautiful quote for this on a wall in an Irish bar. I don't know who the original author is.

"A brave man defeats his enemy with the sword. The coward does it with a kiss."

Or something like that. It was years ago.

Oh, it was an IRISH bar...it all makes sense.
Racism and joking'ness aside, Don't. Really, don't. its one of the suckyest things in the world to get cheated on, and even though you don't know him, are you still prepared to receive the backlash? Besides, you don't even know if she reciprocates these feelings, basically, you prepared to go for short term gain(because it WILL be short term) which will devolve into a lose-lose situation?

...You aiming that at me or the OP?

 

[Malty Milk Whistle]

I found a beautiful quote for this on a wall in an Irish bar. I don't know who the original author is.

"A brave man defeats his enemy with the sword. The coward does it with a kiss."

Or something like that. It was years ago.

Oh, it was an IRISH bar...it all makes sense.
Racism and joking'ness aside, Don't. Really, don't. its one of the suckyest things in the world to get cheated on, and even though you don't know him, are you still prepared to receive the backlash? Besides, you don't even know if she reciprocates these feelings, basically, you prepared to go for short term gain(because it WILL be short term) which will devolve into a lose-lose situation?

...You aiming that at me or the OP?

eh, i forget other people don't see the cymbal monkey thing in my mind sometimes... i meant it at the OP, sorry for confusion.