Here's a thought: if someone calls you a cheater (and you AREN'T), they are simply irritated that your better than them. So think of it like this:
"You're a hacker" = "You are very skilled"
"Stop cheating!" = "Please stop being so very, very awesome and allow me a chance to kill you just once, pretty please?"
"H4X0R" = "I am a sad, lonely child with poor grades and a horrible life and I need to defeat you or else my parents will beat me. With sticks. Oh God it HURTS!!!"
Now I feel much better!
"You're a hacker" = "You are very skilled"
"Stop cheating!" = "Please stop being so very, very awesome and allow me a chance to kill you just once, pretty please?"
"H4X0R" = "I am a sad, lonely child with poor grades and a horrible life and I need to defeat you or else my parents will beat me. With sticks. Oh God it HURTS!!!"
Now I feel much better!