If it's not too much trouble I'd like to get some different perspectives on a situation I am currently in. I'll try to condense the story (it may be a bit long) and any advice is welcome/appreciated.
I am currently in grade 12 and going through some strange thing with my friends. Since June 2011 the people/group of friends I have hung around since the start of grade 9 have ostracise me from the social group. It started over the summer when they were all hanging and I wasn't being invited. I thought nothing of it, and personally didn't want to start an argument so I left it alone. As school started however it continued, but with a twist. At school, at all points through the day, they talk normally to me as if nothing is different. Yet, on the weekends it's almost as if I disappear from existence. I have tried talking to one of the friends and all he says is "I'll talk to the guys" yet nothing seems to be different. I get my hopes up through the week as everything appears to be fine yet nothing changes. They go as far as saying they don't receive my text messages. (Which is bullshit when I send more than one and my phone says they have received the messages) To add to the problem, my school is very cliquey, making other social groups kind-of obsolete.
So, did I ruin my chances of making things better by just letting the obvious alienation continue because I didn't want to start a fight or did I do the right thing? Should I just confront them all?
My plan was just to be passive-aggressive and just wait for HS to be over and move on with my life in University. However having to sit through 6 months of baisically not doing anything sounds like torture.
TL;DR Friends not wanting to hang with me after school but act as though nothing is wrong at school.
I am currently in grade 12 and going through some strange thing with my friends. Since June 2011 the people/group of friends I have hung around since the start of grade 9 have ostracise me from the social group. It started over the summer when they were all hanging and I wasn't being invited. I thought nothing of it, and personally didn't want to start an argument so I left it alone. As school started however it continued, but with a twist. At school, at all points through the day, they talk normally to me as if nothing is different. Yet, on the weekends it's almost as if I disappear from existence. I have tried talking to one of the friends and all he says is "I'll talk to the guys" yet nothing seems to be different. I get my hopes up through the week as everything appears to be fine yet nothing changes. They go as far as saying they don't receive my text messages. (Which is bullshit when I send more than one and my phone says they have received the messages) To add to the problem, my school is very cliquey, making other social groups kind-of obsolete.
So, did I ruin my chances of making things better by just letting the obvious alienation continue because I didn't want to start a fight or did I do the right thing? Should I just confront them all?
My plan was just to be passive-aggressive and just wait for HS to be over and move on with my life in University. However having to sit through 6 months of baisically not doing anything sounds like torture.
TL;DR Friends not wanting to hang with me after school but act as though nothing is wrong at school.