A gallon of ice cream, star wars, steak, and a night with some friends is all I need. Eat the ice cream while watching the movie and probably cry a bit. Then remind yourself that your a man and grill yourself a mean steak so you can clean your body of all that girly stuff. After you enjoy your steak go out and chill with your bros.
After a break up I...
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4 years later and i'm only just starting to not really think about her any more. In that time, i slept with a lot of girls trying to find what i had with her, but it just didn't happen.
We all have our individual coping mechanisms, it's really not up to any of us to tell you, but to find your own.
This may sound silly, but i very easily could have resorted to self destructive things, but i saw a counsellor, and it really helped.
We all have our individual coping mechanisms, it's really not up to any of us to tell you, but to find your own.
This may sound silly, but i very easily could have resorted to self destructive things, but i saw a counsellor, and it really helped.
When my fiance of three years broke up with me I went into my room and didn't leave until I'd completed Persona 3 and 4 (I have an ensuite in my house so I still showered and what not). Then I left my room sat downstairs and rewatched all of Naruto and Naruto Shippuden and became obssessed with Itachi Uchiha and Kaname Kuran again XD
Typically, I get right back out and try to find someone new to spend my time with. It's not always the healthiest thing for me to do, but the boost in self-esteem of being mutually interested in someone always helps.
Beyond that, I typically ruminate and fume over my ex for a good long time, flipping between rage and depression. Usually there are a couple of good fights in there, before I finally realize that they were wrong for me and I'm better off without them.
Beyond that, I typically ruminate and fume over my ex for a good long time, flipping between rage and depression. Usually there are a couple of good fights in there, before I finally realize that they were wrong for me and I'm better off without them.
Play my favorite video game since I'd suddenly have more free time. Or, if the person's a total ***** during the break-up process; get revenge. I'm "a head for an eye" kinda person.
Call up my friends, we go out, get drunk, they consolidate me. Repeat a few times. Wallow a little bit then get on with it. While still feeling crappy on the inside.
Go to a club, get extremely drunk & either get thrown out & wander home, or end up in a member of the opposite sex' bed the following morning.
Ugh. you guys with the 'i got her back' stories are giving me hope dammit.
I'm going through a rough one at the moment, its been a month. Lost my job, lost my apartment, and then lost her, so now I'm back at my parents. I'm still just as bad off as I was the day after we broke up, I had assumed that I would be feeling better about it by now. How am I dealing with it? reading Philosophy (for grad school), working on projects for my dad, but generally dealing with it I am not, just desperately trying to distract myself from the 'i want her back' record that's skipping over and over again in my head.
I do feel like talking about this (not that I'm in any danger to myself or anything like that), but I'd rather not clog up the post, so message me if you want to reply.
I'm going through a rough one at the moment, its been a month. Lost my job, lost my apartment, and then lost her, so now I'm back at my parents. I'm still just as bad off as I was the day after we broke up, I had assumed that I would be feeling better about it by now. How am I dealing with it? reading Philosophy (for grad school), working on projects for my dad, but generally dealing with it I am not, just desperately trying to distract myself from the 'i want her back' record that's skipping over and over again in my head.
I do feel like talking about this (not that I'm in any danger to myself or anything like that), but I'd rather not clog up the post, so message me if you want to reply.
When an EX broke up with me I had a cry then went on a murder-spree in some video game or other. When I broke up with an ex I felt free and, clear: I went to the mall to buy some stuff and had a nice lunch...and went on a murder spree in some game or other.
Surround myself with friends, keep myself busy, and write music.
That's how I would react, anyway, I barely remember the last break-up I had...
"When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead. True story." etc etc...
That's how I would react, anyway, I barely remember the last break-up I had...
"When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead. True story." etc etc...
Cry for a week in bed, eat only ice cream.
4 days of non stop drinking with friends.
Then get angry, hit the gym and run our my anger.
Then get on with my life
4 days of non stop drinking with friends.
Then get angry, hit the gym and run our my anger.
Then get on with my life
