If you have to ask, you are not old enough to know that yet.UnusualStranger said:When you are older, does that mean that you might be more knowledgeable?
Ah, but there is the problem. Age does not always correlates with maturity. Just because you are old doesn't mean you are more mature, it just means you are old. You are slightly more likely to be mature, but it is usually unlikely.Good morning blues said:chop
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I see all of you notice that there are exceptions to the rule. However, I feel that there seem to be more exceptions as time goes on (an the older generation is around longer), making it seem less than a general rule, and more of just a saying.Booze Zombie said:double chump chop
Why hello, Older generation. We meet again, at last.SimuLord said:slice
And therein is the problem. That assumption that "more probable" is turned into "absolutely always". It is a flawed rule, and one that should not still be around, but yet I find it still prevalent amongst older generations.Halceon said:chomp
And there is the example. This is exactly what I am talking about. Sure, sometimes older folks know what they are talking about, and a full of knowledge. Other times, they just feel they are right just because of the age they have. It isn't the case, but they seem hell bent on standing on that idea, as flawed as it is.Xanadeas said:Swipe
No. The correlation is extremely strong. You will very rarely find a sixteen-year-old who is better able to navigate social situations and manage their lives than a thirty-year-old; in the vast, vast majority of cases, the opposite is true.UnusualStranger said:Ah, but there is the problem. Age does not always correlates with maturity. Just because you are old doesn't mean you are more mature, it just means you are old. You are slightly more likely to be mature, but it is usually unlikely.Good morning blues said:chop
Now we are getting a little bit statistical. Being just one person, I only have personal experience to guide me. This being the case, what I have seen is that there are quite a few 16 y.o.s that are quite intelligent, and know how to react in social situations, sometimes handling them better than a 30 y.o. could.Good morning blues said:Well thought out reply
Yep. Just recently too. My mom and I were talking about life and love about 2 months ago. I have never been in love, never even been close, but I'm 22 so I've (probably) got plenty of time to go. However I'm still quite skeptical of the idea and when I told her this I got that line in return. To be fair, she's probably right.UnusualStranger said:have the words "You're young, so you wouldn't understand" ever been used on you?
I agree, It depends on the person not the age.Hobo Joe said:There are idiots on both sides, I don't like to generalise; get to know each individual rather than relying on some sort of stereotype.
I absolutely agree that "being older does not nearly guarantee a better understanding, it makes it more probable." There are plenty of thirty-year-olds whose lives are in the shitter through their own machinations, and there's the odd sixteen-year-old that's keeping their household afloat. However, when you say that you don't expect a sixteen-year-old to know how to manage their lives because they haven't had experience in it, I think you contradict yourself. What is maturity if it's now the knowledge of how to manage your life and relationships with the people around you? Like you say, that knowledge is built upon a foundation of trial and error, and since older people have had more time to make those attempts, they'll have a better knowledge of what works and what doesn't.UnusualStranger said:Now we are getting a little bit statistical. Being just one person, I only have personal experience to guide me. This being the case, what I have seen is that there are quite a few 16 y.o.s that are quite intelligent, and know how to react in social situations, sometimes handling them better than a 30 y.o. could.Good morning blues said:Well thought out reply
I don't expect a 16 y.o. to know how to handle a mortgage, loans, car payments, bills, and taxes. Those are actions that you need to experience in order to understand. So, unless the 16. y.o. has had a very hard living, they would not know of how to juggle all these things. My main point is that this correlation is not as strong as everyone wants to think it is. Being older does not nearly guarantee a better understanding, it makes it more probable.
But then again, I could be mistaken, and perhaps it is just in my general area where things are off.