Ehh, I disagree since, you know, the whole "you're out in public" thing. It's the polite thing to do, sure, but I'd expect it to happen about as much as I'd expect it out on the street.The Almighty Aardvark said:I'm trying to say that there kind of is that expectation. I've been to a few conventions, and I've never been to one where I saw people taking pictures without permission. Everyone asked, because asking is the polite thing to do. You don't just get people snapping pictures as they walk past you. Even when it wasn't an explicit rule.Areloch said:Sure, if it's specifically against con rules, that's an entirely different thing, as there IS an expectation of being asked before pictures happen. However, that's not at all always the case, and when it's not specifically part of the rules, people can't EXPECT that to be a requirement.
Whoops, sorry about that, I'd meant to. If they're actively taking multiple pictures even after being asked to stop(assuming they were asked in a reasonable manner) then yeah, that's at minimum a passive aggressive thing to do, and probably pretty dickish. However, it seems like the issue with the topic at hand is more 'Taking pictures at all', rather than "Did you go out of your way to persistently disregard their wishes". The latter is probably pretty dickish, yeah.You didn't comment on whether or not you thought the photographer was doing something wrong, am I correct in assuming you wouldn't defend the photographer for keeping taking photos when the cosplayer is explicitly telling them not to?Does someone being photographed gets absolute say in what happens with that photograph, even superseding what the photographer wants? Because going off that, that'd apply to anyone that happens to be in a shot, meaning 'Random person in the background 37' has justification to ask for the picture to be deleted otherwise the photographer is now a dick.
Like, say I ask for permission and take a picture of someone in a hallway at a convention real fast and because it was in the hallway, other people were in the background. Cosplayer A moves on with their day, but Cosplayer B who was in the background saw I took a picture in their general direction, and took offense to that for whatever reason and want me to delete the picture.
Given that the picture wasn't even about them, they're incidental to the picture I took a la the 'taking pictures of a crowd' thing everyone seems to agree with. So am I being a dick because I don't adhere to their wishes to delete the picture they're only in in passing?
That's the problem. ALL of this is incredibly gray and there isn't any specific line that is easily walked over that suddenly makes one person in the wrong.
Well, and that's the thing. Most of the time, photographers do ask, and cosplayers do agree. The entire topic is pertaining to the more outlier cases. But the innate presumption to expectation of privacy and not getting pictures taken does indeed complicate certain circumstances in which the photographer has done nothing wrong, which was my point. It's very gray, and this sort of subject tends to attract people to place down "X is wrong, period" sorts of absolutes.Of course, in the situation you describe, that's pretty unreasonable. Having to confirm with absolutely every background person in the photo would make taking photos pretty much impossible. It'd be an unreasonable expectation, as taking photos is, as you've mentioned, something that's a part of conventions. Asking someone if they'd mind before taking a photo specifically of them is a pretty small concession to make for the sake of their ease. And there seems to be an indication that a number of people who would be put at ease for it.
I'm probably in the opposite camp, what with my comments about making concessions as a cosplayer in a public space, but I do understand why you'd feel that way. Just a difference in opinionReally, in the end, I feel like the cosplayer has more entitlement to how their image is used than a random stranger with a camera.
Right, and that goes back to a more extreme end of the "Taking pictures of someone without their permission". I think there's nothing wrong with snapping a picture of a cosplayer in passing in the hallway or whatnot.I meant more in regard to a situation where you saw someone deliberately disregarding someone else's feelings on the picture. Like in the situation I described earlier. Or if someone said "Sorry, I'd appreciate it if you didn't take pictures of me without asking" the photographer apologized, then continued to go around taking photos of them hiding outside of their view. Or if there's an embarrassing photo taken of a cosplayer that they want removed and the photographer tells them really nicely "I'm sorry you feel that way, but this photo is funny and I want to put it online to get hits".Actually, as someone that has cosplayed many a time, if someone took pictures of me when I wasn't aware of it while out and about at the convention, I don't have a problem with it.
Heck, there's a non-insignificant chance - given that it's the internet - that someone may have found one of my cosplay pictures and jacked off to it. I wouldn't know if that's actually true, but I'm not about to let it bother me because I was in a public space, in a fancy costume where picture taking was the norm.
If I didn't want people taking pictures of me, I wouldn't have gotten dressed up. I'm not saying everyone has to be as un-bothered about that as me, but my rights in a public space don't randomly supersede someone else's rights in a public space, and I'm fine with that. Others may disagree, and that's fine, but at minimum, I practice what I preach.
Honestly, it's really hard to come up with situations where the photographer doesn't look like an ass for disregarding the person in the photo's wishes outside of the background photo example. Even in the background example if it bothered the person enough I'd blur out their face or something like that.
But actively and persistently disregarding what they want is a pretty dickish thing to do (Heck, continuing to follow them around at take pictures of them starts to drift into "stalking" territory, which society already has rules about anyways).
I don't consider them to be the same degree of action, and feel that's an important distinction, but whenever this comes up, it feels like "taking anyone's picture without their knowledge/permission beforehand is wrong - except when it isn't" and I find that to be a pretty unreasonable stance overall if only because of how vague and arbitrary that approach is.
Given how society works, it's going to be a gray line no matter what, but I think trying to narrow the band a little is fair.