Am I paranoid or was I played?
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Probably only four or five times a week.AdmanUK said:
My last ex actually asked me the same thing "out of curiosity." Knowing exactly where she was going with it, I gave my best non-answer. Later she tells me that she had cheated on every boyfriend she'd had before me.
Burn the hell out of those bridges and never look back!
Clearly played.
She did feel morally wrong for it though so that softens the blow a bit. Those burnt bridges were burnt rightfully, so you're good.
She did feel morally wrong for it though so that softens the blow a bit. Those burnt bridges were burnt rightfully, so you're good.
Maybe it was her way of telling you that you needed to step it up a bit. Those are some pretty big red flags for you to get more involved, or either give her something that makes you more appealing to her, and by give I don't mean a "gift", I mean just.... well owning it man. But, maybe she was cheating on you, or was seriously thinking about it, but why she would ask you... is kind of weird in my opinion. Maybe it was your last chance to really set the mark and she was willing to give you one last shot. Women can be so strange sometimes.
The real issue is why did't you punch your friend right in the mouth afterwards?
But don;t be so hung up on it now, you have another girl who must be much better then her. And dwelling on it now is pointless.
The real issue is why did't you punch your friend right in the mouth afterwards?
But don;t be so hung up on it now, you have another girl who must be much better then her. And dwelling on it now is pointless.
Stop torturing yourself over it, its been a really long time since it happened and thinking about it isn't going to change anything or make you feel any better. I think its best that you stay away from them both in the future and move on. Hope you feel better.
1) This is in the past, and you have successfully moved on. Stop worrying about it.
2) If they weren't, she wanted to.
2) If they weren't, she wanted to.
Heaven knows what a girl can do. :/
I think you're paranoid, a little. Man I'm sorry, that's rough. She bent you, she broke you, and breaking down is easy. But you held strong, and for that I congratulate you.
But your new girlfriend, all she wants is you. All she wants is you. You're better off with her.
(Ps, if anyone on here can figure out what I just did, I will love them forever. HINT: Garbage)
I think you're paranoid, a little. Man I'm sorry, that's rough. She bent you, she broke you, and breaking down is easy. But you held strong, and for that I congratulate you.
But your new girlfriend, all she wants is you. All she wants is you. You're better off with her.
(Ps, if anyone on here can figure out what I just did, I will love them forever. HINT: Garbage)
Ah, that girl, I know that girl (plenty of 'em floating around). I'd have to say she most likely cheated on you. Talking to you about how sexy "S" was a huge hint that she wanted to break off your relationship and get with "S". No good girlfriend goes on and on about how sexy your male friends are to your face without some (not so subtle) agenda. It's also possible she wanted you to get pissed off and show her how "manly" you are by kicking "S"'s ass. It always amazes me how women tell us to be more "civilized" yet at the back of some of their minds they still want us to smack 'em over the head and drag them into the cave by their hair, so to speak. But I digress.
On the subject of good girlfriends/relationships, nobody without an (again, not so subtle) agenda has to ask their partner how they feel about being cheated on. Nobody likes to be cheated on, and no normal person should feel like they have to bring it up with their partner to see how they feel about it.
So yeah, probably cheated on you, and while it's easy to put most of the blame on your ex, some of the blame definitely should rest on your friend for encouraging their "relationship" in the first place. Bottom line: making a pass at your friend's girl is always out of bounds.
On the subject of good girlfriends/relationships, nobody without an (again, not so subtle) agenda has to ask their partner how they feel about being cheated on. Nobody likes to be cheated on, and no normal person should feel like they have to bring it up with their partner to see how they feel about it.
So yeah, probably cheated on you, and while it's easy to put most of the blame on your ex, some of the blame definitely should rest on your friend for encouraging their "relationship" in the first place. Bottom line: making a pass at your friend's girl is always out of bounds.
Yup, fuck 'em both. I've been there and I'm glad to hear to moved on in life. No one needs that crap.
as contraversial as it is, stalk her. spy on her, if she really is making you this paranoid then you have every right to find out why. if you found out she WAS cheating on you, break up in a heart beat. If she accuses you for invading her privacy, retort that she was CHEATING on you; if there is anything worse than disrespect in relationships, it had to be dishonesty.
but above all, do what you must to find out the truth. as great mastermind Machievelli once said: "The end justifies the means."
but above all, do what you must to find out the truth. as great mastermind Machievelli once said: "The end justifies the means."