Anita Sarkeesian states that sexism against men is impossible

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katsabas said:
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Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Thought that was the basic result after using a cheese grater.
I guess in my mind grinding and grating are very different activities.
 

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If calling someone a tar baby is racist than so is calling someone mayonaisse boy. Arguing that it's not racist because it's not as bad as getting murdered is like saying "a broken arm is no big deal, I knew a guy who had his legs bitten off by a shark".
First off, that particular tweet, which I posted mostly because it was funny, was a guy talking about Ferguson saying that, and this is a direct quote, "black people are the most racist of all" because someone called him names. He was directly comparing being murdered to being made fun of and concluding that he had it worse.

Second, the concept you are referring to is known as the fallacy of relative privation [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_relative_privation], and it doesn't really apply here. An example of the fallacy would be telling a man who was sexually assaulted by a woman to stop whining because that kind of thing happens to women all the time. It is not an example of the fallacy to devote more resources to protecting women than men, when women are statistically at greater risk. Here's a fun illustration:
I thought you were trying to argue that being called mayonnaise boy isn't racism because sometimes black people get murdered for being black. I think I might've been mistaken so I apologize.

Anyway Margaret Atwood doesn't have a clue what she's talking about

You ever heard the expression "don't stick your dick in crazy"? The meaning is that if you have a relationship/sex with a crazy woman she can cause serious damage to your life. People worry about getting in touch with a crazy women for more than just being insulted.

I actually feared for my life once when dealing with a woman.
Context. It's not that men never fear women, but in general, what is your biggest worry when, say, meeting someone you found through an online dating site in person for the first time? For a man, it's usually that he'll be embarrassed or she'll reject him. For a woman, it's usually that he might rape or murder her.
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And if that's not good enough how about the draft? It's institutionalized sexism that hurts men.
Name one man born after 1960 who was actually drafted into the US military. If it really hurts men, I'm sure you can find some men born in the past half century that it actually hurts.
Not the point, she said sexism against men is impossible and yet the US has had a men only draft since at least the civil war. Wouldn't the men who've been forced to go to war over the years be victims of institutionalized sexism?
 

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As mentioned last time this came up here, she is very clearly talking about institutionalised sexism. Yes, she's having trouble expressing a complicated issue inside the confines of twitter.
As irked as I was on a first reading? Whatever. I'll concede the point and give the benefit of the doubt due to how forcefully truncated the medium is.
Anita meant what she said. Look at some subsequent posts

https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533771760873635840
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533460936431271937
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533768948185972736
 

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One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
 

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WhiteNachos said:
Entitled said:
Balimaar said:
One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
Not so much "men are pedophiles" as it is "men are rapists."
 

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That's actually an anti-feminist argument, as it poses that women have no power. They may not have equal power, but to claim that they have no power undermines key feminist theory
 

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Nobuoa Schniell said:
WhiteNachos said:
Entitled said:
Balimaar said:
One of my mates was on a short domestic flight and the way the tickets/seating worked out he was placed next to an unaccompanied child.

My mate (male btw) was forced to move from his seat coz rules on that airline apparently say men cant be seated next to unacommpanied children.

Perfectly fine for women to be put next to said children tho.
Yeah, that's a good example of men being hurt by patriarchal stereotypes
How the hell is "men are pedophiles" a patriarchal stereotype?
Not so much "men are pedophiles" as it is "men are rapists."
Well, "women are better suited to things involving children" as well.
 

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thaluikhain said:
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I am in the army right now. Every female I see is either not a soldier or has a higher grade than me. Women in certain areas have it so easy she can't even imagine. Same thing can be said about men in other areas.

As for video games, if sexism against men doesn't exist, I expect her to explain to me how almost every male character in games today has a six pack and pecks that you can grind cheese on.
Male power fantasy, I wish i could grind cheese on my nipples. Although i doubt i would eat it afterward. Also, grinding cheese as a concept intrigues me what would you grind it into, perhaps a different type of cheese?
Powdered cheese that you can sprinkle on top of certain meals.

But yeah, the men in those games are male fantasies, the same way the women in those games tend to be male fantasies of a different type.
You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.
 

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Power isn't defined to a single gender but to a group. An individual CAN be without or have less power as a man. Her statement is sexist and I think that's the perspective she has people hate her for and she doesn't realize or refuses to acknowledge.
 

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EvilRoy said:
You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.
Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasy and being immune to chlorine gas a power fantasy.

The other thing is, the gaming community doesn't profit from female fantasies, but they exist.

I once spent some time sticking barcodes on the back of romance novels at a library and read the blurbs. The sex fantasy seemed to always revolve around a rugged billionaire (never a mere millionaire) who was exotically foreign[footnote]Once, and only once, this meant "Welsh"[/footnote] that the woman initially didn't get on with, often a doctor.[footnote]One noteworthy example featured something along the lines of him being "a good looking mechanic from the wrong side of the tracks...but can their relationship withstand the revelation that he's really a secret billionaire?"[/footnote]

Likewise, paranormal romance stories often are rather formulaic as well[footnote]http://www.fangsforthefantasy.com/2013/04/written-by-numbers-drinking-game_26.html[/footnote]
 

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WhiteNachos said:
I thought you were trying to argue that being called mayonnaise boy isn't racism because sometimes black people get murdered for being black. I think I might've been mistaken so I apologize.
No worries. Yeah, my main point was that since "reverse" sexism/racism/whatever is usually far less serious than the regular kind, it doesn't really make sense to devote equal attention to each. If one group is being insulted and the other is being assaulted, it's only logical to spend more time and effort trying to protect the latter.

Not the point, she said sexism against men is impossible and yet the US has had a men only draft since at least the civil war. Wouldn't the men who've been forced to go to war over the years be victims of institutionalized sexism?
We haven't had a draft since 1973. Yes, it's stupid that men still have to register with selective service (incidentally, that was because women were banned from the armed forces, a policy which feminists oppose), but if you really think the draft is coming back I have a bridge to sell you. And if that's really the best example you can find of discrimination against men, it can't possibly be anywhere near as serious as sexism against women.
 

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thaluikhain said:
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You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.
Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasy and being immune to chlorine gas a power fantasy.

The other thing is, the gaming community doesn't profit from female fantasies, but they exist.

I once spent some time sticking barcodes on the back of romance novels at a library and read the blurbs. The sex fantasy seemed to always revolve around a rugged billionaire (never a mere millionaire) who was exotically foreign[footnote]Once, and only once, this meant "Welsh"[/footnote] that the woman initially didn't get on with, often a doctor.[footnote]One noteworthy example featured something along the lines of him being "a good looking mechanic from the wrong side of the tracks...but can their relationship withstand the revelation that he's really a secret billionaire?"[/footnote]

Likewise, paranormal romance stories often are rather formulaic as well[footnote]http://www.fangsforthefantasy.com/2013/04/written-by-numbers-drinking-game_26.html[/footnote]

Yup, just kind of thinking out loud here. Although I have to laugh at the items you brought up - it sounds like The Boss from saints row is a female sex fantasy. Rugged, wrong side of the tracks businessman, implied millions to billions at the end of the earlier games or start of the later, and with the magic of appearance and accent choices, delightfully Australian - foreign, without being "foreign" foreign.
 

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Apparently she has not felt relevant in the past couple of weeks, so she posts a profoundly wrong statement. Look! She is getting people (including me sadly) to post stuff about her again. Her relevance is reestablished.
 

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WhiteNachos said:
LostGryphon said:
thaluikhain said:
As mentioned last time this came up here, she is very clearly talking about institutionalised sexism. Yes, she's having trouble expressing a complicated issue inside the confines of twitter.
As irked as I was on a first reading? Whatever. I'll concede the point and give the benefit of the doubt due to how forcefully truncated the medium is.
Anita meant what she said. Look at some subsequent posts

https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533771760873635840
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533460936431271937
https://twitter.com/femfreq/status/533768948185972736
Would you kindly stop making it so damned difficult for me to be empathetic?

I'm trying here, man. Thanks. :/
 

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Reasonable Atheist said:
Hell we might as well dig up something like oh i don't know, this crazy radical feminist who thinks all men should be placed in solitary confinement, and then decry feminism as evil based on it, makes just as much sense. Although give her some hits if you want, its super good for an afternoon laugh, she also thinks all sex is rape and all women have some kind of latent super powers that men are holding back.
(http://witchwind.wordpress.com/2014/10/07/utopia-what-would-a-womens-society-look-like/)
Gold! Comedy gold as far as the eye can see!

I love the way she wants to lead some kind of holocaust against men and create a heap of totalitarian rules that men will live under while dismantling the military, the state, law, industry, economics, agriculture, medicine, education, and every facet of society required to actually enact it or keep order. It's as if she has envisioned a world in which there is only one political faction, and all men (and women) just decided to submit and never rebel against the world's most defenseless regime. You were right, A+ material here.
 

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thaluikhain said:
EvilRoy said:
You know, I've always wondered why it is that we have specifically locked down what a male power fantasy and a male sex fantasy look like... but whenever someone tries to do the same with women, nobody is able to agree.
Well, those are common examples, they are hardly the be all and end all of male fantasies. I mean, for lots of guys a catgirl would be a sexual fantasy and being immune to chlorine gas a power fantasy.

The other thing is, the gaming community doesn't profit from female fantasies, but they exist.

I once spent some time sticking barcodes on the back of romance novels at a library and read the blurbs. The sex fantasy seemed to always revolve around a rugged billionaire (never a mere millionaire) who was exotically foreign[footnote]Once, and only once, this meant "Welsh"[/footnote] that the woman initially didn't get on with, often a doctor.[footnote]One noteworthy example featured something along the lines of him being "a good looking mechanic from the wrong side of the tracks...but can their relationship withstand the revelation that he's really a secret billionaire?"[/footnote]

Likewise, paranormal romance stories often are rather formulaic as well[footnote]http://www.fangsforthefantasy.com/2013/04/written-by-numbers-drinking-game_26.html[/footnote]
Yeah, same here about working in a book store. The Cinderella Scenario in romance novels is pretty humorous in it's frequency. The female character is usually some downtrodden woman, either in a shitty relationship with an asshole guy, or just finished with such a relationship. And the new guy swoops in to give her the life of luxury and panty dissolving sex she's always dreamed of. Oh and the guy usually has some major damage of his own, that is cured by her Magic Vagina, that soothes all of his past fears and pains, and let's him stop being a playboy and just Settle Down with one Good Woman. I actually have a game with my wife, where I have her tell me the title of the book, and then I randomly toss out various plot elements off the top of my head, and she tells me how many actually show up in this book. I usually get 75% of them correct, even down to small details like "he's actually a werewolf/vampire hybrid love child, lost son of a yakuza crime family (thus why he's rich and such a badass at combat)"

So yeah, the female equivalent of the male fantasy stuff does indeed exist, it's just mostly in the literature section of entertainment, instead of gaming.
 

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thaluikhain said:
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I thought after she blamed that school shooting on men everyone declared her batshit insane and decided to stop talking about her.

Guess not.
Indeed, she blamed it on "toxic masculinity", not men.
Still, it should be brought up in every topic about her with the caption "she is not worth listening to".
 

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Happyninja42 said:
So yeah, the female equivalent of the male fantasy stuff does indeed exist, it's just mostly in the literature section of entertainment, instead of gaming.
To be honest, that sounds difficult to the point of impossibility to include in a game without it being the primary and only focus of the story and gameplay...

Edit:

Okay, wait, I got something cooking here.

Main character is female, has some kind of mental healing ability - its like "the power of Christ compels you" except we wouldn't reference that ever. Primary enemies in the game are crazies of different types (some hyperactive, some something like the psycho from borderlands, maybe some like American Psycho)- so gameplay consists of thwacking enemies with some kind of bludgeon to knock them over, and then jumping them to un-crazy them however that works. It would be set in a reasonable city, except it is more or less understood that these guys exist, and people who can fix them exist, and regular people and police are more or less powerless. Maybe the police don't attack because they either don't want to hurt the crazies, or because of some kind of crazy mutant healing factor. Healing factor could be how the American Psychos get detected - like its a virus that lets you heal super fast, but makes you nuts and different people react different ways.

Side story is there is one guy in the American Psycho strain who the main character has never been able to fix no matter how many times she knocks him out. So they cross paths now and then and talk a bit, but stay out of each others way, since she doesn't want to get murdered, and his murder efficiency is decreased when she is attacking him. Maybe now and then she swoops in to rescue a hapless victim from him leading to more chatting.

I've kind of hit a wall here because I think "the power of love" saving the sympathetic antagonist is kind of cheesy horseshit, but I can't think of another way to make the "uncrazyifying" skill power up. Gotta sell this shit to Sudo though, bet he has an ending already.